Shaking my head

Well at this time I have tried here to cut down on things totally and it has not even worked at all.  So as I sit here already and think of other ways to get my point across to some in the household it makes me wander still in what is going on and how to get it all done.  Since the dryer is no longer in use period unless I really have to use it for some laundry it may be a good thing in that department.  I also found out that some have bills that are really up there in price also at this time.  When I get 4 maybe 5 loads a week in my place to where the one neighbor gets 4 loads if not more a day in their place at this time.  I was in shock almost in what some will do at this time.  So now at least I do not have to worry about that part in my place at all and that is how I like it.  Another thing at this time is that I have figured that I have less dishes to get done during the week in the household since I am not babysitting anymore at this time.  So there is another water saver that I have been doing for the place.  Ok so the garden needs water and that is where I make up for that part of it all.  All in all the return on the garden will be huge again this year and I do not mind that part yet again here also.  For this week also is that I will go with an all veggie day to help out on some things.  Ok I found out some things from the doctors office and it is not good.  This is why I have stopped babysitting totally since the girls do not have a clue as to what is going on at this time and the parents could care less here also if I go face first down on the floor or outside.  It goes to show in how different that I grew up in another state and had to watch others suffer also over the years to where some have not even noticed or did not care period on what was going down in the household.  So now I will see in what I can do for some things that need to be done for the day and go from there at this time and will wait on other things while I am at it all untill I can walk and sweat it all out yet again today.

Shaking my head

Well at this time I have stopped pretty much sitting for the kids.  Bummer that I did try and wasted so much in the place for the 2 girls here also.  So now I will be doing the walks more often here more for myself than anyone else also from now on to make up for the 10 dollars a day here.  With everything going on plus extra stress I guess it is all for the best that I got away when I did this week.  The better part is that I can pick up and go when I want along with when I need to also here from the household.  It is one of the things that I did not say about the youngest is that it was naps along with her being scared to death to leave my place totally when I had her.  So now I will be saving money from now on with the bills along with other things that I had to fight the youngest on totally since she would not listen hardly to what I was telling her.  The next thing is that I will be able to just do from now on and not worry about if I will wake up someone from a nap.  Now I can go back to a rutine here for myself and go with it from now on.

Thinking again

Well I can say by today here I have been pretty much been thinking about cutting costs and have came up with several ideas on that part in what to do again.  Since the laundry will go out on the lines nomatter in what I do here for the place that is not a problem at all on that part of things on the list.  Another thing that I have been doing is turning off the T.V. and modem also during the peek hours of the day also.  The child has not got that part of it at all in what I have been doing and is so use to the T.V. being on at her place that it is not even funny.  With that being said here there are things that the child has seen me do here in my own place that she does not understand in at all.  Refilling bottles is one of the things that she tries to fight me on here since I like the smaller bottles for the dish, laundry, and hand soaps that are liquid.  Also at times the girl will fight me on a hot lunch for the day while I am at it 3 times a week here in the place.  Since I will not let the girl garbage it up at all like she is use to, it is just tough cookies on her part of it all.  So I will be doing alot more like making cheaper meals for the household yet again along with many other things that have to be done on the cheap.  This is part of the reason of why I do not mind walking alot of the times also from the household and the child has not got that part of it all niether.  Just like on Thursday the child thought that we were going to take the truck or the stroller to the corner store here from the house.  Niether of them happend at all since we both walked to the end of the street.  This is why I say that the child has not totally learned at all in what I am trying to do here for the household at this time.  So now I am wandering also if I am doing the right thing by trying to be cheap also for the household also while I am at it all.

Shaking my head

Well all I can say is that I am thankfull that my temper got in the way of my Husband last week here with one parent that is always late in picking the child up from my place.  As my Husband says just do not say anything at all most of the time anyway here and let yourself be walked over all of the time.  With that being said within 2 months that have passed the one parent has been late most times except the two that I can remember here.  So in the times between here that I will have the kids and hope that one parent is not always late here so I can get my walks in also on those 2 days that she gets picked up.  Anyway now at this time there are ways that I can get things done either way for the household nomatter in what goes on here totally and dang the luck on others from now on.  Since that is one of the things that my Husband started screaming at me for this weekend anyway for what was all going down.  I had stopped asking, begging, and pleading with my Husband 16 years ago to help clean up at the trailer when I had just a pathway to go threw with along with not being able to do here now at the household also.  So needless to say that I just went ahead and did anyway here so it was done after I asked yet again.

Thinking again

Well I got some more advice lastnight here totally.  The person who gave it to me was right and still right here totally in what she said.  Now there will be alot of changes here in the household and I know that one little girl that will not like it at all after I start in what I have to at this time.  Since I already know that I will get the kids twice a week this summer all night at this time since why bother to move them when it is 9 pm or later.  The girls will have to learn in how to brush their teeth on their own here since I do not get paid enough to brush their teeth like their momma does at this time.  Also they will learn that I am not the one that is the maid also and will have to pick up the toys along with other things at this time in the household while they are here.  With one child the picking up on her own will start right away as of today in the place totally.  I know that I can not keep up with everything here and the child did say that she liked to clean anyway on Friday and that was my cue to start in on that part of things anyway here in the place.  Also I have found out some things anyway last week here in the household and remembering what it was like in not to hear as a child while I was at it all.  It also explains the belly aches while things have been running along with the youngest child.  The other part is that niether parent has took the time to correct the child on her word pronouncing also here over the past 18 months.  I have noticed that also with the child since myself and my Husband will correct her on that part also here.  So now let the work begin from now on and maybe I will have another break thru with the girl.

Shaking my head

Well the garage/yard sales broke out in me today here totally.  At this point in time I have spent maybe 5 dollars and got enough things for the girls to ware here for almost a week in shirts and pants.  With that said at least I will not spend top dollar for the girls who will out grow things quicker than snot at this time.  So I will get the things for pennies on the dollar and 2nd hand for the girls.  With that being said here I do not care who whines and cries at this time on having the 2nd hand things here totally.  So now to really say hey here to in what I normally do for little ones and that is how it will go at this time since I can not afford the brand names totally at the larger chain stores.  Even my poor Husband looked at the one blouse that I picked up for about a quarter and the price tag was still on it at 30 dollars for a child.  I love it when he is in shock totally in what I can do here still for little ones.  With that said the price for the one shirt was breakfast out this morning and for the trip out to Walmart here in what I picked up for the week.  Now to get out and about once a week here untill I can get enough totally for most of the summer and see in what I can get for very little also.

Thinking again

Well I have snagged several of the recipes here again for the household.  Since some of the kids will not eat hardly at all I may as well try some things anyway since I have to eat also here in the place.  All that I have got this morning so far have been on the cheap and easy to make and I have it all in the household totally already.  The nice thing that I have been doing so far with the one child that just will not eat is that I have freezer pops and tell her ya do not eat then no freezer pops for later.  In the past almost 2 weeks in the household the child has pretty much ate almost everything on her plate.  The mother asked in what I have done to get the child to eat and I told her straight out in what I was doing.  After all said and done the child will eat fruits and veggies here since she has a choise here to eat or not to eat at this point.  Alot of what has happened is that nobody has said to the child so far that you have to eat and made her eat totally at meal times also.  I still like in what one of the gals did with her daughter years ago.  Instead of argueing with the child on what was going down for breakfast the child wanted ice cream and she got it with cereal and something else on top that morning.  All I can say is that it worked and everyone was happy that day in the place.  At this time with the child that I have during the week is a picky eater totally and some things the child does like totally.  So it makes me wander sometimes in what has totally been said to the child from one parent totally and that does not include what was said in front of me here also.  That kind of explains why the child is picky on meals also at this time.  At this time I do try to make at least lunch at noon period just for the rutine of things here in my place since the child does not get structure hardly anywhere else also at this time also.  Also the child has said that I was mean to her totally because she can not run me like she does her parents.  All I could do was start laughing and said if I was that mean to ya girl then you would not get the freezer pops, trips to the park, shopping with me here, and walks that we take also at this time.