Alot done

Yesterday I did get alot done around the can here.  Between 2 rooms and putting 40 dollars in the truck I say I did fairly well around here.  With yesterday I ended up stopping over at the projects to drop off something and will go back tonight to pick up the nickels over there.  Some were hollering that they were broker than broke and I found 50 cents without even trying at all.  I didn't bother last night to pick up the bottles at all and that is why I am going back tonight.  Oh well it keeps me busy and I get free money on top of it all around here.  Every little bit helps for the household and I will not complain at all on it in how I get money for the place.  So today I will be somewhat out of the can since I have to get up to the doctors and I will get the mini walk in at the same time today here.  This is why I do not mind going out alone without my Niece with me at all.  I get to do what I want to while I am out and this way there is no arguments on what I do at all.  For alot of the day today around here things will be off once again and that is how I like it all.  This is what gets to alot of folks also for my place is that I do not mind having things off to save money.  With that being said at this point the T.V. is off during the day along with the modem, and I even unplug alot of things while I am at it for the household and that is how I have controlled the power bill along with not using the dryer hardly at all.  My Niece freaked out when she found out in what I was doing when she first moved in the can about 4 months ago.  WIth this past weekend here now she knows not to do laundery on a Saturday here at all.  With that being said here I will have a ton of laundery out of the rig thanks to my Husband slacking on it for 3 weeks.  And yes the 3 drying racks will be totally full as of this weekend here.  With some folks that come over to the place they do not understand of why I do some things for the place like the drying racks, no paper plates in sight here, along with streaching out everything in the can while I am at it all here.  The paper plates do not get bought at all and it is an extra 5-10 dollars a month in my pocket by the time I am done.  Just like when I told my niece to go light on the toothpaste around here and she did not need the glob at all to brush her teeth.  The girl found out that I was right on the money for that one and she has cut back on the toothpaste totally.  I am the one that has been teaching the girl in how to cut back for the household to say the least here since nobody else has bothered to do so with her at all.  With alot of things here in the can it has totally got out of controlle after some have moved in and I am trying to keep the costs down eather way.  This is why I have 3 drying racks and the lines still up here in the can.  Sometimes I have to laugh around here just because my Niece has not totally caught on to as of why I do things the way I do it for the place.  Just like last night around here I told her that I was going to fill the tire the rest of the way and get gas for the truck.  I got the deer in the headlights look and got asked where were you??????  I told her that the truck will not run on air nor my looks eather way.  My Husband even asked in how much I put in the tank since he has to tightin up something yet again.  I told him that I put in enough to get to the doctors office and afew other places and that was it.  Oh well it could be worse around the place.  I got to thinking since I am going to be out for part of the day here I will hit up the one hill for the bottle deposits after I get out of the doctors office this morning.  I have already let my Niece know in what I was planning to do lastnight anyway and now just to get out there to get something done. 

Wierd

Well I have the can to myself at this point in time and on top of it last night the radiator in the truck my husband drives blew up.  I had to laugh because I can get over to Canada and would have a hard time coming back to the U.S. side of things.  Now my husband is figureing out that it was a long wait untill they all could get to me in PA last month.  Anyway I am sitting here figuring in my head in what I can pay this week of course since it seems that every bill is due once again here.  So now I will be cutting down on alot of things around here without a problem for the household.  This is what some will not get around here what so ever by the time I am done here.  Things will be turned off and staying off until I say so of course.  If and when I get the new place I will be worse on turning things off and keeping them off totally around the household.  I guess it would not be so bad if I had not got behind on the bills last month of course and figuring that I was going to Illinois also.  So the next several pay checks are going towards the bills weather some like it or not around here to get things caught up.  This is what my Niece does not understand at all about running the household, is that you have to pay bills and do housework all of the time and work on top of it all.  So with today I will be cleaning for most of the day and start packing once again for the place here so I can see the difference in the can.  My Niece is off the hook for the cleaning part either way for the place since she only gives a lick and a promise around here and that is if she helps out with the cleaning part of it all now.  With some things I have to have clean here and I may as well get it done myself if I want it done correctly here in the place.  Plus I will be doing all of this on the cheap side of course for the day.  This is what some do not understand at all.  That I am streaching out everything becuase I have to and I just do not care what others think about it at all now.  And yes I will be the tightest person around for the next several months around here to say the least and this is why some are off the chores that I have put down here.  Also I will keep hanging laundery up without a problem at all now while I am at it around the place.  Some have no reason to holler at all about me doing all of this.  Knowing in what has to be done around the place now there should be no reason for what has happened at this point in time.  It will more than likely take several months to straightin all of this out with my Niece and now I have to really put my foot totally down on alot of things for eather place here.  Since I have a ton of laundry that needs to get washed I will go light on that part of it all also in that department here.  With that I will be hanging towels up on the racks today for the place and alot of them can be folded to fit on the racks here.  There is so much to do and not enough time to get everything done of course and it is the Monday madness around here as normal.  Another wierd thing about this place is that I can get most of it done here without a problem at all since I am going to wait on my laundery once again untill I start to run out of things as normal.  So lets see how far I get today and I will let you know in how I did for the day.

Thinking

Well I am thinking way to much around here again.  There are places to hit up after the truck gets going again around here.  I just hope that it runs for a good while after this.  With alot of things you can save money at in today's world here.  My Niece just has not figured it all out as of yet.  With just the 2 of us getting the nickels in parking lots and the side of the road around here I have already got almost 2 of the black bags full by doing this.  It seems like the girl could care less about the money that others chuck out the window of what some drive here in NY State.  The funny thing is around here is that I can excape the can during times of the day and some never know about it at all.  Also with doing some car repairs yourself can save alot of money while you are at it.  I have saved over a grand for the fuel pump and that is my husband doing the work himself on the truck.  With some things I will not do what so ever around here like work on a gas furnace at all and a huge electricity problem.  If it is something small yes I can take care of it myself around here totally without a problem.  This is what some do not understand about me nor the household at all.  Some folks like my Niece figures that since there are repair folks out there why bother to do it yourself at all around the household.  If you do not have the money to pay the repair folks out there then you are stuck or if you do not how to do some things on your own.  Now at this point in time I can really laugh only because I am sitting here without anyone under foot and can think on more ways to cut the budget around here without some asking me what I am doing at all.  Pluss there is where to hit for more of the deposits to think on also around the area.  So as I sit here and think of things for the place, I have came up with afew ideas that may drive the household up the wall also.  With alot of things that I am about ready to do for the coming weeks will drive some over the edge.  Just like in what I am about to do for my own laundry around here I will wait to get that part done around here and do one load at a time.  Some things I will take control of and put my foot totally down on to save money around here from now on.  I have no other choice in the matter at this point in time for the place.  Also with alot of things here it eather my Niece is just totally lazy about so I will arange some things once again to where she does not have to do squat in the can nor when we get the house.  Maybe this is what the girl wants around here in my place in not to save money nor anything else.  So from now on she is off the hook for alot of things and I will get all of the housework and packing done myself around here weather some like it or not.  This is what it has came down to for the place at this point in time.  WIth alot of things going on around the place I will get to it all some how some way weather I am in pain or not from the day here.  Since supposadly I am not in pain all of the time according to some here in the household I will figure it all out around here in what I will be doing.  I think I will wait on the nickel pick up untill tomarrow around here once again.  Just so I can get alot of the housework done today and not have to worry about it all for tomarrow.  Also while I am at it there is some things that I have no choice but to do for the day after my Husband leaves to go out on the road once again.  Some will understand this after today of I refuse to play around anymore for the household and it will not matter in what they do anymore.  I get the last laugh around the place and will be doing alot more since I am not in pain apparently.  Now if I can get my Niece to get out of here for awhile it will be a good thing this week and for her to get her laundery off the drying racks this afternoon also.  That will be the trick for the day if that gets done around here.  Ok so I am thinking like the person who raised me once again and the tricks that were pulled.  I maybe on a roll today around here totally and I have had time to really think of things that can be done.  I think I have it and will let you folks know if it works if you have teenagers in the household. 

Wandering

Well I got to wandering in what the heck is up with some people around the household this morning.  I think I have figured it all out around here to say the least while I was picking up the bottle deposits.  Plus the stupid button on my forhead got slaped more than once yesterday also.  So now I will take charge of the household once again and my Niece is off duty for alot of things once again around here since she wants to play more than housework at any day of the week here.  Now I can really say let her slack in the new house once and if we get it around here.  I have been done for the past month putting my foot down and getting stuck with alot of things once she goes out on the outings at this point.  Since I have already picked up a dollar this morning and that was the leftovers out of the mall here already it is hard to believe that my Niece could care less about the nickels on her walks totally.  So once the truck is up and going once again around here I will hit the mall again and another spot that is farther out and see how much I can get later on today without any help at all.  I will leave my Niece at home without a problem tonight and get away for acouple of hours to say the least out of the household.  Now with that being said at least I am getting free money that others have thrown out by the road side.  I may have some things faster than I realize around here also once I think about it all in that since from the nickels.  It does pay to be cheap in many ways around my place to say the least.  What gets to me more and more around here is that my Niece does not think about some things at all so now I will start thinking about it and cut even more out of the budget.  Then this way I can say that yes I had to and tough to the girl and since ya did not want to do hardly anything guess what on it all.  It will be my way on alot of things around here weather some like it or not.  With that being said I will be knocking alot out of the budget and getting the power down along with other things here in the can while I am still here and kicking about it then with the new things for the house once we get over there and if, will not seem so bad after I get the rules down and put them on paper also.  So at this point in time things are going to get really hairy and I do not care in the least bit.  I have cut the T.V. off at 10 during the weekdays around here or should I say the cable box off and that is tough on some who want to watch cable untill 3 am around here.  Another thing is around the place is some figure that they can burn the lights untill when ever also and that is another big thing that I will break everyone in the can about while I am at it.  Now I have this thing about wipeing the counters down with a seperat cleaner around here instead of the nasty used dish water.  My Niece has not got it in why it just drives me insain when she does something like that.  I also have to look at it from the source it is coming from also and since some do not mind it when others do something like that even though it adjatates other people.  It is like some of the children in todays world just do not care in how clean something is and it is ok to waste money on top of it all.  Like at this point I have never seen my Niece wipe down the range top at all even when it is caked with food and other things since she has been here in the past 4 months.  So I will start nailing her toush to the wall and get her to realize in why it just adjatates me to that point when she does not clean all of the way except for a lick and a dang promise around here.  Some are in for a suprize around here as of today on alot of things.  As many folks in the U.S. today can not afford health insurance nor a trip up to the E.R. maybe I can get my point across today to the girl.  The cheapest way I know how is to wash the hands and clean fairly well at least acouple times a week around here and nobody gets hurt to say the least in my household.  Anyway at least I have the mind to go that much cheaper around here despite the fact that there is always someone here.  The dryer is mainly off limits around here along with a few other things around the can.  Also when I have tried to tell some this the look at me like I am nuts for doing what I have been and willing to do to cut the costs here in the can.  Like cutting the dryer sheets in half for when I do use the dryer, useing less soap for the washer, no paper plates to speak of in the household, and many other things to cut the costs here in the can.  Also what helps is that I turn off alot of things during the week that uses power while I am at it.  I will go for longer times also around here without useing some things around here in the coming months. 

Glimmer of hope

Well there is hope for the truck yet around here.  I just hope that my Husband can get it done today around here to say the least.  With the one place that I have to hit up today it should not be that bad around here at all.  With that being said I wll be home for most of the day and will start cleaning once I get back to the can plus packing once again.  So yes I will push myself once again today for what I have to do for the day of course.  Either way I will get alot of things done around here and go from there.  With a few things that are going on I was hoping that my Niece had stayed the night out once again around here.  Oh well at least I can say that some things will get done weather she likes it or not around here.  If the girl only knew the hidden treasures around here that are pulled back for the new place.  So as I sit here and start thinking of what I can get done first here once I get back to the can.  The bad thing is around here is that there is so much to do and get done that I just do not want to tackle it at all and knowing that I have to.  Alot of things have been packed around here and I should get to part of the bedroom today and tomarrow around here and part of the kitchen also today.  Also I have to get to the rest of my Nieces room today while I am at it all.  Yes I will have a busy day again today.  At least I can get to alot of it still in the can here.  With alot of things being packed away it is nice in that all I have to do is grab totes for some of it and take it over to the new place once they get off their duffs for everything.  Maybe my Niece does not realize that so much stuff is already packed for the place here at all and she will find out the hard way when the time comes up for the move if at all do move around here.  All I can do is hope that nothing else goes wrong around here and we are able to do all of this.  The other part is that I am suprized that we all have as much help as we do for the move here also.  Between at least 3 trucks, 3 vans, and a Mini Cooper I think we can do all of this within a couple of days around here to say the least.  Anyway at least I can be cheap about eather place.  It will get worse as time goes on also.  I have already forwarned the household about it and my Niece started whining about it all for both places of course.  Oh well on her part since she does not pay the bills around here at all.  Some will learn around here and be done with it and ask the questions at least of why then understand the explanation that is givin. 

Starting already

I may as well start in on the kitchen now and get it done and over with around here.  With the kitchen being a total disaster around the place and I get the kitchen duty once again here.  So at this point I may as well push myself once again around the place to get things done of course.  And the first round of the dishes are done around here totally.  This is what get to some folks is that I use very little of the dish soap and untill the water gets really cruddy then I switch the water.  Some will say just add more soap into the dish water.  Not in my place at all when the water gets that nasty I switch the water then do the next round.  That is untill the water gets that nasty again in the sinks.  With everyone eather not here or still in bed I tend to do more for the place without a problem at all.  with that being said I will hit a few places up while I am out of the can this morning also once again.  I have a 5 dollar coupon for the Family Dollar store so I will pick up more towels for the place.  That is the funny part of the whole thing for the place that some do not have a clue as to where I do have coupons for.  Now I can say that I can do alot more for streaching my money around here totally.  And after texting someone this morning to ask if I still have an appointment this is plain nuts around here.  With alot of the things going on in the can I can say it will be a busy day already.  With the bank so close to the dollar store I will end up over there without a problem at all.  So with that being said I better start cracking in the can again since I am still cleaning around here. 

Just plain out nuts

Well I got out to Kmart this morning already.  It is just plain out nuts around here I could hardly get out of the front drive at 5:15 this morning.  With the mall already being totally packed and people are already parking out on old 3rd ave.  So I got a brand new coffee pot and it can wait untill the new house if I want and a few other things around here.  Well after a normal bill at Kmart that I would have spent at 300 dollars I got about 200 dollars off in what I bought around here.  Alot of what some do not understand about me is that I can get some things done very early around here and be done with it all.  Now with tonight some of us will go get the nickels out of the mall parking lot next door to us.  We should do fairly well around here for tonight.  I do not care if folks get mad at me or not about this one.  With that being said around here I will start collecting alot more nickels and do not care at this point in time at all.  It goes along with cutting more out of the budget also around here.  We will hardly have any lights going in the new place at all, the dryer is totally out of the question for the most part still for eather place while we are at it, and not only that some are just out of luck with brand name things in the household.  Ok so some folks are really going to start hollering at me about what is going to happen for the place from now on.  There are some things that I will get for the place like the Green Works products becuase the line does not bother the birds at all when I go to cleaning for the place.  I will make sure that some use less of the cleaning supplies also for the place.  I have no choice in the matter at all. 

All coming togeather

Well at least most of dinner is coming together at this point in time for the place.  If someone walks out of my place hungry today they should be shot before they hit the door.  At this point in time this morning I am about ready to send my Husband back to bed and I will stay up with the bird and other things that need done for the day today and my Niece is still in bed so it is all good so far.  So as I sit here this morning and wait for everything to get done and the wand will come out for the dishes this morning while I am at it all here.  I will admit that it is never boring around my place on the holidays at all.  Another calm year of not arguing I think I can handle that once again for the place.  With the oven going so far I have noticed that the furnace is not going as much also this morning.  Now to get the convection oven going also while I am at it all for the day just to get part of the side dishes done and muffins for the morning.  At least I am keeping busy so far and there is not enough juice from the bird yet to start that part of things.  The funny part of it all here is that at least I can cook without anyone underfoot at this time in the morning.  Anyway my Husband is swearing still on that we got the house at this point.  Well I gave up on that part totally at this point.  What else can I say about it all around here.  I know when I am stuck and I am still stuck around here totally.  Oh well I could think of worse things for the can.   So now to start dreaming about another house and be as cheap as possible around here.  This is why I guess I haven't totally lost it around the place so far also.  With trying to keep up on being on the cheap end of things I do not have time to think of other things around the household at all.  With the turkey being 39 cents a pound when I bought it and other sale items that I picked up a weeks worth of dinners that came out to be about 30 dollars this time around here.  It is well worth that amount for leftovers and other things around the place.  Also with that being said I have a feeling that my Niece will scarf down the stuffing this year even though she claims that she can not stand the stuff.  Ok folks I need to get more done around here to say the least since I have a ton of things to do for the day.

Shakeing my head

Well last night was kind of rough either way I look at it.  Between telling my Niece to go to bed at 11 pm and Olliver having a double seizure at 3 am now I get to cook all day.  And never mind what was asked yesterday afternoon and evening.  So now I get to start the prep work and bake pies for tomorrow without a problem around here.  Then I found out that by taking one thing off the list for today has helped me out with the stress since Evans bank can't get their heads out of their toushes to save themselves at all at this point also while I was at it.  Who in their God loving mind would send the insurance papers to a place that we are not even at instead of someplace that we get the mail?  So now it is either get off the pot to Evans bank or tough cookies at this point in time.  Then the banks wander why nobody wants to buy houses at all and not only that most folks can not afford the house that they want anyway anymore.  To where my household has ran the numbers around here and it is cheaper for us to get a house than pay lot rent and the storage unit that we have at this point in time.  So either way I will be going that much cheaper around here without a problem at all and tough on the folks that do not like it at all.  Now also with yesterday around here the mooches did ask for a couple packs of smokes from me.  I said yes just to get them off my toush.  Now I will expect this all of the time from the one couple.  When some do not figure that others are on a tight budget also around other households while we are at it.  Since some get free food from the food stamps and they can go to the pantries also to where some of us can not do it because we make to much around here I see the problem that has came up.  So now I will become a huge NO for what some ask of me from now on since I have to pay for everything myself in either place that I go to.  With some folks they always want to barrow and never pay back the folks that they barrow off of.  So at this point yes I will be going that much cheaper around here and be done with it all for either place that I am in.  I have to at this point in time and I do not care on who likes it or not that comes over at this point.  The paper towels are going to be very scarce around my place also.  This is what is getting to my Niece around here totally is that most of why I start to hollering can be helped with cutting the bills down.  So now I will start on the rampage even harder around here to get my point across for the can.  Some are not going to like in what I have to do around here at all to cut more off the power bill for the place here since some of us have to pay for the rest of the park also.  So this is why I try not to use the dryer as much as possible around the place here.  Also what is getting to alot of folks that come over is that I refuse to budge on some things here in the can.  Like paper plates I refuse to get them period for any reason.  And yes I do have the cheap paper towels and T.P. around here also.  We go thru less this way around here.  Now for the food part of it I do cook alot of things from scratch here.  It is cheaper on the budget from the grocery store.  Pluss I do not get alot of junk for anyone here in the can at all.  My Niece will find out around here for today and tomarrow that I will be cooking on the cheap and for the next week around here weather she likes it or not around the place.  I am breaking out the cheapness for all times around here and do not care anymore.  My Husband will not be impressed over it all and since I am the one home all of the time around the place it's my way nomatter in how he looks at it also here.  At least the man does not mind stiff laundery at all.  Well I better get a move on and get started on the days work around here.

Let the fun begin

Today starts the Hell week as I call it around here in the can.  Pulling stuff and cooking for Thursday is not going to be fun for me.  Plus I get to teach my Niece in how to do alot of things around here for the holidays starting this year.  That is the funny part about the whole thing in my place a huge dinner on the cheap.  With some things around here I know what I have to do either way I go.  Now with the turkey I will get another 3 when Friday comes because it will be at rock bottom prices once again.  With that being said this is why alot of us hit the grocery stores at the end of the holidays around the area that are trying to get lower prices for the household.  I know that one of the girls in the doctors office has 5 children in the household as of now.  I know what the food bill runs for my place and I know she drops alot more for her crew than what I do around here for mine.  And yes I gave the woman the one site that I go to for hints of what to cook for dinner every so often that is low cost cooking.  It seems like when the gas prices go up so does everything else.  So if some use just one recipe off of http://www.hillbillyhousewife.com/ then it is a start of saving money for the household.  With myself I do cook with alot of onions, garlic, pasta, flour, and rice.  My Niece looked at me last night and asked if it was my famous rice dish that she loves so much here.  I looked at her and said no its the noodle stuff that ya like and tough cookies.  Well that sent out the laughter in the can.  The rice stuff will get done next month around the place to say the least since we will have turkey for a week.  Now I know alot of folks that have been trying to stretch out the dollars around the area and they have not been able to do it hardly.  I get it done in many ways around here by cutting back and several other things for the household.  It was somewhat hard at first around here when I got started and knew I had to do alot of what I had read on the sites.  So I cut the laundry supplies down to start with for the household.  Then it came to the food budget also while I was at it all.  I went to coupons and sales for the groceries for the place and did very well with that part of it all.  There were times where I got groceries for the week or month off of the bottle deposits around the area.  Well now I know that I am on overload this week for the place.  Besides the normal stuff and all the extras to say the least.  Oh well I will manage somehow around here. 

Shakeing my head

Well after yesterday around here I can really shake my head around here once again.  After running all over the place including the one bank again.  It was not good after the one teller rolled her eyes as the both of us when we walked in.  Ok so my husband had some questions that the girl could not answer and he wanted the manager.  With going to the doctors I will not get dressed up at all just to impress some people.  So now at this point in time they will get use to the fact that I refuse to dress up at all unless I have to.  One of these days I will show up in jeans to the one bank until then they are out of luck.  Last night I ended up making a very prim dinner and everyone liked it.  With 6 people to feed and under 10 dollars for all of us it was not to bad at all.  With tonight it will be an Amish dish since it is also on the cheap side to feed alot of folks around my place.  Since some are working on the truck again today I may as well cook for who comes over.  Now with that being said when I can pick up pasta and a few other things at Big Lots for rock bottom prices for the household it works out well for the budget.  Like pasta for about 90 cents depending on the brand that they have at the time.  Another thing is for places like Big Lots and Ollie's you pretty much can go in everyday and there is something different in the stores.  That is what makes stores like that nice is that you never know in what they will have on the shelves at any givin time.  While I am thinking about alot of things around the place at this time.  Since alot of things are up in the air around my place and knowing that I will be going cheaper on top of it all I will somehow manage the whole mess for the household.  I am also figureing out in what to make for dinners all of the time for when we do move so I can feed a large group of folks that are going to be helping out.  And alot of it will be on the cheap side of cooking.  I think this is what gets to some folks that come over still is that I am cooking even cheaper than ever for the place.  With having children in the household you tend to try to get the cooking as simple as possible and on the cheap.  My Niece will figure it out around here that I have been doing this for years and I am going to get worse for a good while for the household.  With alot of it around here is that I am trying to cut the bills to where they are almost nothing for the place.  This is why some folks are going nuts on me also.  Oh well at least I know that I am trying to get alot of things done for the day and I better get started.

Gone down

I just found out that the power bill stayed the same around here and the gas bill went down in the household this month.  So I must be doing something right around here and I will get on my Nieces toush about turning off things when she is done with them around the place also.  With things going on today and I got one bill already paid besides the insurance bill here.  My power bill was 83 dollars this month and it will go lower without a problem even if it kills me to do so for next month here.  Since I did use the dryer for part of the laundry last month around here because I needed several things done quickly.  Plus trying to get out of here to Illinois that did not happened around here at all.  This month should be better around here with that since I will be home and will use the drying racks more and more along with the lines for the little blankets and the bigger comforters also.  I can not see using the dryer unless I absolutely have to around here.  With alot of things around here I have to get into gear this week and over to the lawyers office tomorrow here I hope if my Husband gets home of course.  There is alot to do and not enough time of course at all.  So now I will get alot of things done here and start cracking the whip on myself here as of tonight.  And there are other things that my mind is racing on also for the household.  With alot of it is now I do not know totally if the house is going to go thru at all and I might be stuck here in the can.  This is why I am getting cheaper around here and who does not like it oh well at least the bills will be lower for the place here.  Also what will get alot of some of the folks that I know is that I have totally stopped lending out money around the place while I am at it around here.  I can not keep up with some people and they all have to understand this one of why now that I just can not do all of this at this time and run my household also.  I will repay in what I borrowed from a friend of mine also while I am at it.  Since I have been on a roll around here to start going even cheaper some will have to just get use to it for the place here.  That means to turn off things around here when they are not in use, the lights in the morning are going to be off around here also and the tea candles will be lit for light, the box will be still set up around here to kick off at about 10- 1030 pm.  It will hurt my Niece more than it will me at this point in time around here.  The all night of watching movies has stopped totally around here.  I have had no choice in the matter around here at all on that part since I had to pay 300 dollars this summer on the power bill within 2 months.  So I had to do it.  Also now with the drying racks here in the can the dryer does not have to run at all here also. 

Now I know

Well I have thought about this all morning around here and now I know what to do on some things around here.  It all ends up as a guilt trip for some around here and now I jsut do not care what so ever if and when some folks drop me around the place.  Also I have came to the point of I should go to the city High School this weekend and pick up the nickel deposits just to be a total brat to some.  It would be more money in my pocket to say the least around here since some want to barrow more than what they all can pay back at this point in time from me.  So I guess my answer is going to be no from now on and a huge guilt trip will be laid on without a problem from now on.  As I told my Husband lastnight around here is that I am not even gonna bother about the 30 dollars that is owed to us from the one couple and I gave up on that over the 9 months that they haven't bothered to even try to pay me back at all.  So at this point I gave up around here.  Plus now at this point in time since I am ready to go cheaper around here it does not matter if I have groceries in the can or not to some folks and since my Niece could care less untill I go to cook around here it does not matter either way I guess to her also if there is food in the place or not anymore.  Since I do not really eat during the week now after Augest then that should tell some folks something around the place.  With some folks around NY State they claim to be broke when they have brought in more money off of disability and part welfare (food stamps) than myself and my Husband does at times of the year around here and still in January they want to barrow money off of the both of us here.  That is what adjatates me more around here than anything else.  When I have to budget my money out to where I can get groceries and other things for the household some get 275 dollars a month for 2 people in the household for food stamps in their place and I get squat except for what my Husband brings in around here I see a problem with poor management of money on other folks part.  This is why I have a tight budget around here or try to at least.  With this being said I have to bag and tag my Niece when she does get home around here for not turning things off when she needed to last night for the power bill.  It seems strange that when most everything is off to the girl that it is cheaper on the household. 

Laughing

Well I got my Niece out of here last night and I am liking an empty can so far once again.  The girl looked at me and said that where she was going the person has ran out of food and I sent some with her last night.  For what I sent it should be enough meals for the person for about a week around that place.  What gets to me is that where my Niece went the person has roomies that hardly help out.  So I stepped up and got something together and told her that tell the person not to worry and it is as a huge Thank You to him from me.  This way I know where the girl is and we both get a breath of fresh air from each other.  I told my Niece last night that I need her here at least 2 days next week and that Monday is one of the days.  Now the day before the bird cooking I told her that I wanted her here so she could watch and help out while I was at it.  Then this way I can teach my Niece in what to do around here when the Holidays come around and people come over for the cooking.  As I say it will be alot of prep work around here for one day of eating around here and it is well worth it.  Plus I will be sending some things home with afew people when they all show up at my place only becuase I know what it is like to cook for one person most of the time here and be broker than snot also on top of it.  Oh well some folks you do not mind helping out becuase they do not ask at all and other's you keep telling them no time and time again and they keep asking.  This past week I made a phone call to another couple and all the one said was that I do not make plans anymore and tough.  So I did not make it over to their place this week at all.  So now when some call me to barrow money now my answer will be no from now on and I have been pulling back the money into eather the jar and or to the one account also.  I have not beat myself up at all for telling them no all of the time for the past year.  As my Husband told me last night that the one couple needs to stop barrowing money and take charge of their own finances instead of barrowing money.  Well my Husband is right on it and I also know that the couple needs a strict budget in place at thier place.  I do not get the help that some folks do that I know at all.  There are times where I wander what some folks do instead of paying bills all of the time.  Or as the one couple does it only put down so much on a bill and wait untill next month to try and catch up.  Some figure that I have all this money around here when I do not.  This is why I have cut and slashed around here totally and watch what goes out around here.  So eather way it is like when some do ask for money around here now I have to say no and do what I have to for my place.  Some tend to forget that I have not got the fuel pump for the truck as of yet and I do not think that they all care.  I am just wandering in what they all think that I do here besides pay bills and hope that the van makes it without getting a ticket for the head light also.  With the ones that ask for money I do not ask to often on getting a ride at all here I would rather try to walk to some places and hope that I make it to point b around here.  Pluss I have been collecting the deposits while I am at it for extra money around here.  Maybe I am doing all of this wrong with the one couple and I have to think of other ways to say no to them.  Now if the loan goes thru around here I will tell them no at all costs around the household since I will have to pay for the house.  Then I will tell them I do not have much food niether for the place.  I figure since I do have a teen in the household that there are some things that come first around here totally and some can not keep barrowing off of me around here.  When some start asking for money again I will get up to the bank and start takeing money out again and makeing sure that the guilt trip is in place for the couple who figure that I have the money.  I have the down payment for the house pulled back around here and I figured that I will not touch it at all untill I get a green light that I have totally gave up on around the place.  If I let the one couple have their way I would have to dip into the one account every month for them to barrow off of me and it would be gone in 6 months if they have thier way in my place.  So I am trying to figure out what some are up to that I know on top of it.  Sometimes I just see no way out of what is going down around me also.  Some folks say that I desirve the treatment that I get for the most part now a days.  I am tired of it to say the least.  Now I will come up swinging from now on becuase I am that tired of it all from some that think they can down right threatin me, to barrowing money off of me.  I will get this place even cheaper around here even if it all kills me in the process of it all.  Some will understand here that live with me in what cheap is all about now also once I think about it all.  I think that is what gets to some folks now. 

What a day

Well I got out to Walmart today and another Niece of mine texts me to say that I forgot the sugar.  I got back up there got the sugar and sent my Niece up to get oatmeal for 2 pies around here for next week around here.  Now I can say that Nancy Hammond and Molly Mercer have never taught the girl anything in their households and I get to teach my Niece alot of things for next week around here.  Anyway at least I am trying to teach my Niece that there are other ways around different households to save money other than what some do that ya know.  With the week upcoming around here I will be teaching my Niece other things for the place and how to prep a huge meal around here the day before a Holiday around here.  There are some folks that did not get invited at all and like I really care since I have got tired of alot of things here in the can.  Like the whining and the crying of oh we are so dang broke and the hollering that have gone on in years past at my place and other places.  So I am hoping this year I get some peace and quiet around the can so I can at least have a nice holiday again this year around the place.  If I invited some I would have done it all wrong since I do not have any  peppers at all and that I am a total pig in Nancy Hammonds eyes anyway either way I go around my place.  That is what I am trying to avoid for this year once again with the cutting below the ankels either way I go and tough cookies on the ones that I do not want here at all.  Now I have to think of how to protect myself and others while I am at it in my household.  I will be doing all of next week on the cheap also while I am at it all.  SInce I have had the practice on this for years compaired to some folks that I know with in 2 households I may as well do it all my way.  WIth this weekend looking at the weather forcast it has got cold in Canada and now I can really put the big blankie in my Husbands truck as of today.  Where the man is at now I think it would be best if I did becuase I just do not like to be cold myself at all. 

Still WOW

Well after I have thought about it all and said something to another Niece that has been around me I do not wander why that Nancy Hammond has been thrown nor tossed out of anywhere else for stealing things in the past 10 months around the area.  Just before my Niece walked out I told her to stop over at the Family Dollar and get the canister of oatmeal at the cheapest price that you can get for the money that I handed her this afternoon.  What does this tell you the children for the most part is and are still welcome in the stores to where Nancy Hammond is not at all.  And Molly Mercer is no different than Nancy Hammond on stealing things out of the store.  Maybe I did have it all right to begin with around here on what the heck is and was going down between the both of them at this point in time.  Now I will have my doubts as a parent to my Niece that lives here without question at all.  At this point in time I know who is talking to who and so forth after yesterday around here and I refuse to talk to Nancy Hammond after she called my Niece a "Hoe Bag" after all or should I say "Hole Bag" since Nancy Hammond refuses to pronounce her words totally.  It is kind of like the Amish it comes out as Aomlish with Nancy Hammond.  Now knowing and reading up on the Amish folks you either accept the faith or you are out totally and Nancy Hammond's Father was out totally since he married the English years ago.  For the Amish I have total upmost Respect for them and wish I could live like most do out of the sect here in NY State and other places in the States.  Yes I would miss some things and not totally with others around the place at all and that is why I say that I was born to the wrong folks in a way or in the wrong time period at all times.  I would love the simple life totally without phones, indoor plubing, and going without power at all.  Pluss not only that I would be able to cook on and in a wood burning kitchen stove for the household and it is a heat sourse in the winter time here in NY State.  With the gas, power, and other things I can deal without around here totally and make it.  With going cheap for the place I can say that I have a huge grasp on the world today than I did years ago and like it all.  This is part of the reason why I really liked the place that I sniffed out.  Ok so I have not heard much from the bank at all and I gave up last month on the 31st on it all and knowing that I am stuck in the can longer than I wanted to be.  After 17 years I wanted to be places other than here to say the least and not be cut down for what I do and how I do things where I am at.  Yes I have went cheaper around here and will continue to do so either way.  I will not sit there and start lieing about how much money is coming into the household like Nancy Hammond will do for the welfare system and other things that she has been known to do.  There are times where you just have to suck it up and knowing when the welfare office will laugh you out of the office here in NY State.  When some bring in over 4 grand a month with one child in the household the system should have laughed Nancy Hammond out of the building and they will not do it becuase, of the sob story she gives every 6 months.  This is why NY State is at or dang near a billion dollars in debt is for the folks who abuse the system so bad that some of us have to support the idiots who take advantage of the system to the fullest.  There were times where I needed help and knowing that I had tucked the nest egg back for a house or other things that might come up here.  If and when my Husband and myself get the house the A/C unit is not there at all I do not need it at all so there is at least 100 dollars off the power bill.  Turning off things and not useing things helps also, the other is hanging the laundery on the drying racks and lines in a place is even better to save more.  There are lots of ways that I do things that I have been cut down for by Nancy Hammod and others that have came over to my place.  I have came to the point of if you do not like what I do then do not come over to my place.

Shaking my head

Well I am shaking my head around the can here and now I know why.  I had dropped the paperwork off Saturday morning to the bank and held my breath on it to see how long it would take to get to the proper person.  From Saturday until yesterday that is just plain out nuts in my book around here.  So the real house is still up in the air around here to say the least.  After that phone call I ended up getting told the other.  All I can say is WOW on that one.  It just make me wander about what has really happened over the years now or should I say what I do not know in what went on.  There has been so much that it hurts around here either way I go.  Maybe that is why I pretty much kept to myself over the years around here in NY State also.  I have also went that much cheaper around the can while I have been at it so I do stay inside more often.  It seems strange that some things have came along more than others also for the place here.  I have also seen alot of fraud go on in the city also with alot of things like the Social Security and welfare systems.  That includes the food pantries on top of it.  One is Nancy Hammond for the food banks around here.  I would not have said anything about it if I did not see it and I seen what Nancy Hammond did.  She had all 4 kids at different addresses to get more food from the food pantries around town.  After that I had tried to get away from that madness while I was on the system for about a year here in the can.  What can I say I had a cruddy job at the time and just had enough to pay the bills so I thought around here.  That is why I got started being cheaper/frugal around the place here.  In turn on my time off from the job that I just hated I started reading on line to get some ideas around here to help out.  When I first started the cheapness for the place I got torn down around here by Nancy totally.  Until I had about 50 dollars left over at the end of the month around the can in just little things that I was doing.  Now over the years around this place I have added alot of things that save money and have been cut down by the worst ones that have cut me down to the point of I had dread when the one would come over to see the new thing that I was doing at the time around the place.  Now that I still cook, shop, and many other things on the cheap for the place I still get cut down by Nancy Hammond.  She has done that for the past 15 years to me that now since my Niece is here under my roof that I have others to protect not just myself anymore.  In the past 4 months around here the girl has learned more than living with Nancy Hammond, her other aunt, and one of Nancy Hammond's friends.  My Niece also has found out that my Husband and myself are not the "Rich Folk" that Nancy Hammond has made us out to be at all around the place.  So that explains alot of in what my sister in law always said to me before she passed away over 4 years ago.  Now since I have been teaching my Niece that it is ok to shop on the sales pluss discounted stuff for the household and to cut down on alot of things that she uses around here.  The funny part of the whole thing is that since my Niece has been here alot of things have been making since in what I have shown her also.  Just like with the milk gravy that I make all of the time with the salt pork.  My Niece just looked at me and asked what I was doing with the milk and flour out for dinner one night.  I shook my head and asked if she was use to the packets or jar gravy and she said yes.  So I got 2 teaspoons of flour and about 4 cups of milk then whisked it all together over high heat until it got thick enough for my liking and put the dipper into it.  The poor girl liked the gravy so much that there was none left by the time we were done with dinner that night.  Now I get to teach her how to throw a huge dinner on the table a week from today around here.  I will start prepping this up coming Wednesday and have my Niece right there by my side around here to show her what to do.  With such a big bird that I want to cook for the place here I will need to dethaw the bird in the tub again this year (laughing at this again), just like I have done with acouple of birds in the past for dinner. 

Makes me wander

Well I had sent my Niece out tonight to go fill out apps once again.  The girl went to Big Lots to fill out an app and had to play doge with Nancy Hammond.  Of course Nancy Hammond was running her mouth as normal about my Niece.  All said and done Nancy Hammond started stealing the loose candy bars in front of everyone.  I will say that my Niece did the right thing and let someone know what was going on so nobody lost thier jobs on the night shift at all.  When the girl came home and told me what she seen and done I asked her in how long this had been going on with Nancy Hammond.  My Niece looked at me and said I don't know and had to think about it and she told me it had to have been about 14 years now and it started coming togeather in all the candy bars that Nancy Hammond could snag and put in her purse.  Pluss I am now wandering in how much other stuff she took out of the stores also over the years and never paid for it.  After Nancy Hammond has hollared about Molly Mercer, my Nefew, and my Niece, well 2 of the 3 have figured it all out in what was going on.  With all of the abuse from Nancy Hammond over the years I am suprized that one came out with almost a level head on her shoulders at all.  Yes the Niece that is here does get into trouble every so often and I expect it around here.  So now I will teach the girl as much as I can around here while she is here and go from there. 

Waiting

Well I am waiting for the power to go out around here to say the least.  There is a high wind warning already today.  So the candles are already out and waiting on the lighting around here.  It is some heat and light at least with what I have out.  With that said at least I can still cook around here with the gas oven and range the funny part about that is that I will use the one lighter around here so the matches do not bother the birds also.  My Niece has not figured all of this out as of yet in what to do in the power outage around the place at all.  Alot of what has gone on with the girl she has not been taught at all since people like Nancy Hammond figured that the girl was not the worthy type to learn in what to do.  So now since I have been teaching the girl in what to do and when to do it around my place there is alot of unhappy people about in what I am doing here.  I have known this for the past 4 months here and tough cookies on the ones who do not like in what I do.  This is part of what the problem is around the country with today's youth is that parents could care less in what the children do and if they do not learn alot of things then it is on the child.  When it is on the parents who raise the child.  Some of us try to pick up the slack in what has happened with my Niece and it has been along 4 months around here let me tell you.  The first 3 weeks when my Niece moved in she wanted to watch T.V. until 3 am.  I stopped that after 3 weeks because of the power bill over 100 dollars because of it.  So I had to make a call to the cable company to make sure in how to set up the box so it kicked off at the time I wanted it to.  The first gal said you can't do that with the kids today and hung up on us.  Well my Husband called back since I did not have a voice to talk at the time and explained in what we were trying to do and the girl walked him thru it and we got it set up to kick off at between 10 and 11 pm around here.  That was the beginning of the set up to get the girl on a normal schedule again.  There was no reason of why some should sleep all day and be up all night around here at all unless we work the graveyard shift.  I think that has got to my Niece more of not being able to do things at night around here.  I do have some rules in place that the girl understands also for the household.  Alot of her friends do not understand in why I have put my foot down at all for how I run my place.  I have noticed with alot of my Niece's friends they want to run everyone else's household and say oh well this is what ya get since it is the me generation also now days.  I have put my foot down in alot of ways and told most of the girls friends this is how I run things and tough cookies if you do not like it then do not come over here because, I rule my household unlike some parents in today's world who are scared of the children.  Every so often my Niece will call me Mom around here since I have picked up the slack and have taught her alot of things that she missed or was never taught in the first place.  Also she tels me that I am a lucky girl at least once a week that I do teach her things and still Love her either way.  I do call my Niece Mini Me at times because she reminds me of me at her age for the most part, a spit fire and will make it.  With some things the girl understands in why I do somethings around here and when trouble breaks out I nip it right then and there.  I also understand the girl more now a days and ask if I am feeling the right way on some things that have went on.  That is why I just don't get in what people like Nancy Hammond have done in the past 14 years to not only myself because I can handle it to where the 4 children couldn't at all.  Changing the rules every 5 minutes is not good on a child and I even know this.  The rules that I have in place have not changed that much over the years except to be age appropriate for the household.  Maybe this is why I am on the dog list with Nancy Hammond also around my own household.  There are some things that I will not do at all no matter in how mad I get at someone.  When Nancy Hammond gave a 20 min lecture on respect the called my Niece what she did in my household that is when I threw Nancy out of here.  Then Nancy Hammond figuring after 2 months of being gone I would let her into the place after that when myself and my Niece caught Nancy lieing on top of it all there is no way now that I will let Nancy into my place at all at this point in time if ever.  I always knew that Nancy Hammond cut me down to the ankles either way since I am supposedly always wrong in what and how I do things to run my place.  I will not make a 19 year old stay inside all of the time at all and then embarrass her on top of it all.  I let my Niece go every so often around here and I do not mind it since I do have phone numbors of where she is suppose to be at.  I guess that is what some do not agree with in how I do things for the place.  Oh well at least some know that I have came from a huge city compaired to where I am at now and that I know what is out there in the real world.  Now my Niece after yesterday understands more of what I have been telling here and the why's also of what I have been saying.  And sometimes I do go on mini trips with the girl and it gives us a chance to talk also.  The best one was with the local Dairy Queen last week around here.  So anyway now I know why I got out of the computer end of things as of today. 

Started cleaning

I started cleaning when I got back home yesterday.  Within 20 min. in the kitchen it looks better.  I am just hoping today that I can get more done around the place.  And do it on the cheap side while I am at it all.  So when my Niece got back yesterday night and told me that my household was known as "That Place" I pretty much gathered that some have been talking back and forth and it was a money deal that was struck up over the girl.  All I can do is shake my head and some already knew what I was thinking.  My Niece told me straight out that not to worry about it and she wants to learn more from me in what I do around here to be cheap and how to run the household better.  And I told the girl that she missed the grocery store trip for the little things for the rest of next weeks big dinner around here.  Now that I have the points for 10 cents off of gas at one place and enough points on the other card for January around here for extras here in the can.  I should be good now for some things that are needed.  Also with Black Friday coming up around here I will have more points on the Kmart card once again.  So it will not be that bad around here at all once we all get started next week.  And the list will come out so we can check off in what has been done around the place also.  My Niece looked at me and asked if she could break into the one block of cheese and I said no that is for next week around here.  Even up at the doctors office I got asked how to mix up the mashed taters this year.  I told them all in what I did and went from there.  Since we only get them about 3 times a year around the place it works for the best and we do not get tired of them at all.  The funny part about this up coming year is that my Niece will end up eating what I put on the table without a problem.  The girl just can not stand some food's at all and I do not force her to eat what she does not like.  One dish if she is hungery enough around the place she will eat.  I mix things togeather and she will learn that part of it.  Part of it is that I just do not want creamed anything around here at all.  So the girl is safe for that.  With what happened before in another household some thought it would be funny to force the girl to eat creamed corn and mixed it in with the mashed potatoes.  I watched some do it over and over and I almost got sick over the sight of what was done.  I never wandered of why my 3 Nieces and one Nefew always wanted to eat at my place all of the time after what I have seen out of the one household.  What is even worse is that I still cook on the cheap around here to this day.  The food has got alot better also after I figured out in what I could do from the dollar stores and a few other places.  When I am that short on cash and almost out of food I will hit up the dollar store for food.  You would be amazed in how much of the food items that they have in the store.  Items like rice, beans, soups, canned goods galore, and several other things in the store.  For about 25 dollars I can get enough food in the household for the week if not longer.  Some folks will look at me funny when I tell them in how much I spent on the food and get told in my place we could never do that.  It takes some practice to get alot of things for 25 dollars.  With my household we do not mind eating alot of beans and rice around here at all.  My Niece does get sick of the rice every so often around here also.  I am already thinking about dinner also around here with the left over pork roast here.  I am thinking of the beans along with rice to go with the roast and make something totally differant around here.  That is what some do not understand with myself around here at all is that I have to mix it up every so often.  Also we are faceing possible power outages for the day.  The wind was pretty bad this morning and with that being said I am ready for the outages eather way here.  This is why I do not mind having the gas oven around here so I can still cook without a problem also for the household.  I have also realized that some just do not know in how to cook at all still in todays world.  One of my nieghbor's has never took an intrest in it at all untill just in the past 6 months.  Some of it is that cooking can be hard at times unless you get into a nitch and figure out that for the bigger meals you can do alot of the prep work the night before or days before around the household.  With cooking on the cheap it does help out alot around here on that part of the budget.  The possiblities are endless around for cooking. 

Where you get good deals

Here in the State of NY you get a free small coffee starting the 15th thru the 28th of this month at McDonald's.  There is not a coupon nor strings attached to this at all.  With alot of the free stuff out there on the net sometimes, you have to go looking and digging for them totally.  I get alot of free samples normally by going to a web site and asking for it.  The worse thing they can tell you is no.  When you go to the sites go to the promo's and offers section, then click on it and start reading to see what they have.  Also you can get coupons off the sites alot of the times when you start looking.  It depends on the store on what they take of course.  I know that Walmart will take all the printed coupons All I can say is take them to the service desk and let the folks go thru them to say yay or nay on them.  Anyway with yesterday I got out of the can for about 3 hrs and felt better by the time I got back.  Now if I can get more days like yesterday it would be good on me.  What can I say I did not have to do much in order to be a happy person when I came back around here.  My Niece could not believe it in how calm I was when she woke up.  I think in what is going on is that I have been under alot of stress around here and the drama that got dumped on my lap did not help at all around here.  Pluss I dang near threw out my Niece for what her ex boyfriend tried to do.  I will not deal with Little boys around here at all trying to tell me what to do.  He may do it to his parents and they may tolorate it out of the boy.  To where some of us will not do it at all.  One day he will pay for doing what he did to me if he does it to another person around the area.  I know this and all I have to do is sit back and wait on it.  Now my Niece is mad becuase she almost got thrown out of my place.  Now she knows that I will not take the drama from her friends at all around the place.  I hope the girl gave the boy what for and how to yesterday.  At this point I am wandering about all of this around here.  Maybe the Boy wanted my Niece out of here also.  At this point my Niece better start thinking of who her friends are also.  The girl swears that her friends are true friends pluss, she has remained friends with who threatined me around here.  I just hope that she can take a step back and look at what is going on and who are her true friends.  All I can do is shake my head and I guess keep my mouth shut around here untill she sees in what is going on.  I have been thinking in what has been going on and maybe that is the reason and a few others of why I have not been able to leave to go to Illinois also in the past 3 months around here at all.  Now to think even more on some things and be done with it. 

Now I am mad

Well now after almost a month later Thomas Socko is going to take what I said out on me now I have everything I need to know since the Little Boy is having sex with a 15 year old out of his own mouth around town and word got back besides my Niece telling me.  Makes me wander where this girl's parents and others are for her at this point in time.  This is including Thomas family also knowing what they all know around town.  Maybe all in what I have been trying to do is for the worst and there is no turning back now at this point in time.  I have wandered why and now I do wander and got drug into something, that some do not want me into around here at all.  If the truth hurts wear it around here and, I will always speak my mind and tell the truth in how I see alot of it.  When I seen my Niece crying her eyes out over a Little boy around here now I know I was in the right in what I said to leave him in the dust and start looking for work to get out of the circle that she is in either way to meet new folks out there.  Maybe I should be alone also once I think about all of this after all.  I took some in with good faith and I get nailed for it all here I do not need the drama nor the extra B.S. at all.  Not when I am hurt and everything else and I can still hold my own at this point in time around here.  I proved that today with myself with in how much that I have done.  Or maybe I am just in the wrong again around the place.  Would not be the first time and will not be the last at all with myself.  I am not keeping my Niece here at all.  I think I have taught her enough on the cheap side to make it with around here and all I live in is a cruddy trailer.  I have kept my Mouth shut way to long around here and will start again opening my mouth and a few other things I just do not care anymore.  There is just alot that I have been thinking about anyway in what I can do while I am alone.  Pluss maybe the pain is really in my head after 4 months almost around here just like some have told me without saying it in words.  Well now I am happy that I kept the email up that I did send almost 4 weeks to the day and supposedly it was only 3 days ago around here the Little Boy has another thing coming around here and I hope he is happy with the 15 year old he is with.  I say it with a smile because the girl has a Daddy and brothers.  I have totally forgot about the Boy until the E mail yesterday.  I told my Niece straight out around here of you want to believe him over me since I will not lie and will bring up my prof over what I said go for it there is the door.  OK so it takes me a bit longer around here to bring stuff up and go from there.  Now I now know where to go to bring up things that I need off of some sites.  Once I figured it all out I got it up and kept it on the screen until my Niece got back.  That is one nice thing about AOL either way.  I have came up swinging and some do not like it at all around here when my eyes flashed red even after I had 24 hrs to stew in alot of things around the place.  My Niece thought I was joking on it when they go green and start flashing red when I am that mad on what is going down.  Now with tonight the poor girl found out in what I was saying.  My other question is Who in the Hell in their right mind would let their 15 year old daughters 18 year old boyfriend move into their household.  I guess it is legal for NY State now with that part of it all with the Minors.  That is what I do not get around here and I guess that is what I get for the state of Illinois compared to here in NY state.  Now you know why I come up swinging on some things and why I refuse to deal with the crud of NY State from now on here.  I have kept to myself why for almost 6 months around here going by what the so called Management has said to me around here.  I still watch and never bother to call anyone around because it is not worth my 50 cents around here to give a Damn.  Nor the bullet at all.  Some of the neighbors will tell you that they do not see me at all hardly except my Niece and that is on the rare occasion here.  Now I have heard it out of the horses mouth that he does not have a regular address also.  All that tells me is that his parents do not care niether in what the boy does after the court date that he got took away from them at all. 

Up and on the move

Well I have been up and down all night it seems yet again.  By 4 AM I just could not stay down any longer around here and got some coffee in myself and hit the deposits left behind in the mall parking lot.  Now with that I did get a dollar just this morning and will head back out tonight to get more of the deposits around here to say the least.  So now I will start thinking about an early dinner today since my Husband has to leave by noon around here.  With today it will be busy since I have to get laundry done and folded around here and a few other things here.  What gets to me is that some will not get up until about 10 am this morning and I have to get to dethawing fairly quick around here either way.  With the other day over at Kmart I did not totally blow the budget around here at all.  Since I am trying to get the shopping for the holidays done I guess I did not do to bad.  I am not saying in how much since my Niece and my Husband read my blog also.  This next year I will be better off with picking up the bottle deposits because I will be starting early either way and pick up all year long this go around and I want to see in how much I totally get.  It is well worth the trouble around here let me tell you.  It does keep me out of trouble while I am at it here.  So does cooking from scratch along with other things here.  It seems like I stay busy or try to around the place since I really do not want to go out of the can that much anymore here.  The funny part is that I have been doing it all fairly cheap even with an extra person here in the household also.  I have got alot of chicken for the place for food to go along with the rice and pasta.  Now with that alot of folks would have been hollering about way to much chicken for dinners around the household.  Yes I have 1001 ways of cooking chicken here.  Anyway at least I can say that I have got alot done with the cooking so far, and cleaning.  Also the girl is still out cold and that is how I am getting more done for the household around here this morning.  Since the accident the poor girl is trying and fell flat to say the least around here since she is not use to alot of things.  Yes I may holler about it and knowing that some did not mind when the girl gave a lick and a promise on the housework.  Now it has came to the point of having to reteach my Niece everything.  I have told her if she finds and easier way of doing something then do it.  Knowing that Nancy Hammond would never agree to that part since it is her way or no way around her place.  Some of us got the chance to do other ways for cooking and cleaning.  I do not use any type of peppers at all around here since I do not want to be sick all of the time here my Niece has welcomed the huge break around here from that part of the cooking also.  The only thing here is that I only hope that I can get the girl ready enough around here for when she does fly the coupe.  Now to go that much cheaper around here and hope for the best for it all here in the can. 

Why I do not say much

12:45 PM Thomas Socko saysTo: cricket (littlebitcricket@myspace.com)




ok look im goin to delet u off my myspace if u try to add me again or messege me or any thing i will go to the police ok thank u and have a nice day
 
 
 
 
Now I have not said anything to the Little boy in months around here at all.  And this is the Crap that will be taking over the country when we all get older around here.  If you do not want me to post what was said do not threaten me at all and get the spelling right when some want to email me totally.  The Boy is lucky that I did not blow gaskets on his toush.  I will let my Niece know what is going on and let her read what the Boy put down to me.  This is why I do not talk to alot of the folks out in the city at all around here.  I have been keeping to myself more and more around here for a reason the past few months around here and then this way nobody really knows what I am doing either way unless they read the blog here.  So now I will see what happens around here and go from there since there is no warrant for what was said.  I will continue to be cheap and teach my Niece in what I have to weather anyone likes it or not.  Also I refuse to let a Little Boy who has his head stuck up his toush try to play me like this.  When I have not even bothered him since October at all and have kept off some sites also.  Pluss with the viruses that are out with the sites that I have been on it is not worth the time anymore for either of the systems to go down and to reload them.  Now since some Little Boys want to run their mouth go for it and one day they will get the smack down that they didn't expect at all out of someone at all.  That is what is wrong with most of the children in today's world is that some need to have the parents take control without the worry of CPS.  There are times when the children to be smacked and there are times when the parent does not need to totally abuse a child neither at all with boot prints in their backs and other bruises that are not warranted at all.

Mopping up the mess

I am still mopping up from a month ago from Molly Mercer around here and this time it was much easier to do so.  I guess my questions are why all of a sudden do ya want your sister now.  After a month of empty promises around here and out of the blue Molly wants her sister again.  The only thing I can think of is that Nancy Hammond had her toush kissed by Molly once again.  Or Molly Mercer needs a maid and baby sitter again at her place.  That is one of the things I also thought about besides Nancy Hammond saying to my Niece "are you still in THAT HOUSEHOLD?".  Well since neither Molly Mercer nor Nancy Hammond have their shit together at all to take care of anyone neither.  What worries me the most is that they both have children in the household and one lives with a sex offender with the girls the other is just a total child abuser and both got what they wanted.  To keep the children in the household and to continue the abuse I just do not get it around here at all.  So I have kept my promise to teach my Niece everything she needs to know and not do it with a lick and a promise like others have with the girl in the past 14 years.  This is why I make my Niece go back and reclean around here when need be and nobody has done that with her at all nor told her why she should do it right also.  Just like I told the girl you find a way that is easier on you and do it I will not mind if the end result is what I want around here.  Also I am teaching my Niece the vitals of life in what she needs to do around the household now.  Like cheap cooking for the place.  There is just alot of things that the girl has not been taught at all in how and why someone does things like streach out the laundery deturgent, food, and other things.  Maybe I have been scareing more folks than I had realized before now here.  Maybe I do know waht the heck I am doing around here even though I do not have any children of myown now.  It makes me think about if I am doing something wrong around here and when my Niece confirms that I am doing a good job I feel better here.  The girl even asked if Molly Mercer shown up last night around here while she was gone for the night around the place.  I told her no and I did not really expect Molly to show up anytime soon around here at all.  I do not see Molly Mercer nor Nancy Hammond trying to teach the girl in what to do and how to run the household anymore around here and why should I.  I should rake some over for child support and will not do it at all for the place.  For one it is not worth my time nor patiance around here the second is that we have pretty much cut all ties with Nancy Hammond once again for the place.  I just hope that cutting the ties with Nancy Hammond is the best thing at the moment for everyone.  Anyway I just got threatined with the cops today all I can say to Tom Socko is go for it I haven't bothered anyone and refuse to and had not talked to the Little Boy in at least a month in a half around here either way I went.  I have been barely up on the one site period in the past few months around here since I have been haveing troubles with my big system around here.  And I think that is part of the problem around here with my one system is that I got hit with something again off of MySpace and FaceBook again so I have no use for it all now.  Also I refuse to take orders from Little Boys anyway who think they are Men and have been in trouble on and off since they were 11 years of age.  So now with that being said come and look in what was said around here and I will pull it up around here for the cops.  I am wandering in what was said that he does not have a clue about with some of us here.  All I know is that the Boy has split up with my Niece and that is it, I haven't bothered the boy at all.  Oh well at least I can say that I know that in what I have done and it has not been much around here at all.  Well after the car accident that I was in I just really do not bother with anyone at all unless I have to around here.  I have also kept to myself more and more in the past several months around here.  All I can say is that I know what I have done and had to do here since I get to the doctors more often than not around here.  Also I do take a walk around here over at the mall in the parking lot to pick up the deposits around here.  So please do tell me when I have bothered anyone around here at all since I do drive to some where and keep to myself either way.  Since I hit the Mall parking lot between 6-7 am maybe 5-6 days a week around here and I am at the doctors office for at least an hour at a time 3 days a week around here still.  I do not have time to bother Little Boys at all with no brain.  Since I do turn off the modem and there is no phone nor computer for at least 5 hours a day around here and get at least something done around the can.  Oh that is right dang I am still stupid to some folks around town or city here either way I go.  That is why I am shut in and refuse to talk to alot of people around here. 

Been busy

Well I was busy this morning already and pretty much figure that I more than likely do not have the house again.  And yes I did give up the hope around here while I was at it.  After running out to Amhurst to be told that the one person supposedly does not work there when we got the phone call to turn in more paperwork for the loan.  Well of course I blew gaskets and told the girl if ya got up off your ass and fax that paperwork over then maybe you will get paid to work or keep the job.  The Manager loves me over at Evan's bank for telling it in how it is.  And I thought about opening a savings account over there for acouple of things also not any more I think I will stick with Citizens bank from now on.  Oh well some will lose the money that I collect off of the deposits and throw it in the bank around my place.  With that being said I have already been up to the grocery store and the doctors office other than going to the bank today.  It is hard to believe that I can get so much done without someone asking me if they can go with me all of the time around here.  At least I am keeping my sanity around here somewhat while I am at it all now.  Maybe it is a bad thing that I have had to do alot of things around here for the morning.  Oh well at least I kept busy and will start again on the housework.

Leaving some things

Well I am leaveing some things alone around here totally.  Like Molly Mercer and I do not believe it at all and refuse to.  If Molly Mercer wanted her sister that dang bad around here she would have not lied to me nor her sister a month ago around here at all.  I am not gonna be totally down around here at all and I know what the flip is going down.  And after 3 weeks of getting the girls that is with me Social Security card to my place it is strange that Molly would even call around here at all.  After what was said to me with the last go around to F myself and she was trying to help us Bitches out after I told her that she was nothing but Nancy Hammond all over again in empty promises here.  I knew what I had to do to get what the girl needed around the place.  I was just hopeing that Molly Mercer would step up to the plate before now and even now is just way to late in my eyes here.  Maybe I am seeing things in the real eye opening since here.  In that some wanted me to spend money that I did not have to begin with at all and then snag up the girl after that in which did not happen at all.  Now the both of us are just evile around here.  The poor thing picked up my Mothers habbits thru me even.  I got my answer as soon as my Niece walked thru the door here and it suprized me totally but, not really.  The girl had the same reaction that I did on alot of things around here and Hell no I ain't doing once again 3 weeks latter for an Ass.  I was as shocked as when I picked up the 20 dollar bill this morning at the mall in the parking lot.  I think the luck is good here since my Niece knows that I am teaching her here in some way also.  So now I am wandering that if some did not lie to the girl here in my household then what would have been also. 

Shakeing my head

Well sometimes I wander in why some people are so dang mean like Nancy Hammond all of the time.  I know the so called woman has cut me down many times during the past 15 years around here and others also while she is at it.  I have came to expect it and after I threw Nancy Hammond out of the can I felt free once again around here without worries at all.  Nancy Hammond asked my Niece if she was still in "That Household" about a month ago and the girl said yes and shook her head.  Now over 2 months ago Nancy had said I will not be back to your place at all and she shown up a week ago today.  I did not let her walk into my place at all after the 20 min speech she gave the girl on respect then Nancy called the girl a Hoe Bag cutting me down at the ankles at that point then sends my niece the wrong birth certificate.  Well I know that Nancy Hammond still has the one that she adopted the girl because, I asked someone who has adopted children that is outside the group.  So that is another thing that I have to get for my Niece around here totally and will get the one that is needed.  Why the Welfare system here in Niagara Falls did not catch that is beyond me besides stupidity and laziness on their part totally also.  That is where the both of us got a copy of the birth certificate and the old social security card that Nancy Hammond had to turn in for the case with food stamps and medical since the Survivors benefits ran out with the adoption.  So what some do not know will not hurt them niether around here at all in what I do from now on also.  Like picking up the deposits on the bottels, cans, and plastic bottels for extra money around here to put food in the household and other things here while I am at it all.  This is what some are not understanding in what and why I am doing all of what I am doing for the household now.  Even some are suprized in what I do for the place that they all did not know about me at all.  Also now I will get enough maybe tonight to do the rest of the shopping for the place here.  Pluss a day off for most of the Canadian side and Amarican side for the day this is why I will find some bottels around here tonight.  Also I have a plan on cooking that much cheaper around here and some do not know in what I have planned at all from now on for the place.  Some already know that I want 97% of the laundery hung up on the drying racks here in the can already here.  So either way I will win at the cheapness game of life weather some want me to or not.  When I can do most of the shopping for 3 people on 200 dollars a month for food and other things then I am doing something good here.  That is without the deposits around here so far.  They will be there soon enough for the place here.  I keep hoping around here either way.  So now I will end up hitting up at least 3 store lots tonight if I can make it around here.  Well now that my Niece knows in what I am up to at this point in time here she will learn in how to be cheaper than snot also.  That is the funny part of the whole thing around the place is that I can be cheap and still have good food and other things for the place.  Maybe that is what bothers folks around my place also is that I am this and that cheap for the place here.  Now with that being said around here at least I know that all of us here in the household are doing ok with myself being this cheap.  Also my Niece is learning that it is ok around here to pick up the deposits around here.  Alot of places do not mind in what some of us do since we do help to pick up the parking places along with the side of the road around here also.  Since some of us can travel farther than others here now in the park.  And they wanted to take money out of my mouth months ago around here.  Now I will get the cans and a few other things to be cheap here. 

Waiting

I will be waiting for tonight when the mall closes around here to hit the nickels up out of the lot.  Now with that being said my Niece was in shock when she brought in the groceries that I got yesterday also.  One free turkey I can handle that totally around here.  That is what got to her and when my Husband found out he about fell off the truck also.  I had to laugh about it and it worked for the household.  When some say that they are on the cheap side they really are not around here.  There are some good deals out there and that is what they all broadcast over the news and I can find better alot of the times than what the one girl does any day of the week.  And yes I can dig them out on the net and in the regular store also.  The news has not said anything about the grocery stores having good sales at all at this point in time also.  I will be hitting up the one store after the holidays around here for cheaper turkey anyway for the place.  And yes I will be cooking alot of turkey also for the place also.  Some of us have no choice in the matter at all.  Also I ended up with 2 more chickens here for the can that were on sale.  My Niece is just in awe when I do all of it early in the morning with the shopping.  I have told her that yes that there are discounted meat in the morning and most of us that are stretching out the budget go early in the morning for the discounts.  Just like it is better to hit up the parking lots really early or just after closing for the bottles around here.  With everything going on here in NY State and they are supposadly so broke that it hurts.  The folks that do not return the deposits around here in the state the money goes to the state at 5 million.  I can do alot of damage with that kind of money in my household let me tell you.  I can only controle my budget and knowing this I am cutting back that much further on alot of things here in the household here.  That is what is bothering alot of folks that come over now at this point in time.  As my Niece tells her friends my Aunt is the cheapest one that I know and has been like this for years.  Pluss I have got alot worse on being cheaper around the place here.  I have been turning off things during the day here and will continue to do so around the place.  So eather way I will be putting my foot down on all of this for the place.  We pretty much hang laundery without a problem around here also to save on the dryer and money on the power bill.  I will be getting on my Nieces toush around here to get her things off the drying racks also today since I have to get laundery done for the place while I am at it all here.  It will be a busy day around here either way I go.  That is what is getting to me this morning and I have to be at the doctors office also here.  This is what some do not understand about me around here at all is that I have to keep busy and do things.  I get the last laugh eiether way that I go here with some people and some of the youngins as I call them.  Now I have the drive to go that much cheaper around the household here and will get it all done.  Oh well for the folks who do not like what I will be doing for the place from now on. 

Knowing what happened

Well now I know what the heck is wrong with NY State running in the red at this point in time.  With Social Security, welfare, the grant T program, and the adoption monies going to some folks here and Nancy Hammond is one of them no wander we are in the red all of the time now.  The grant T program is for the ones who are taking in their grand children and nieces nephews ETC.,  it is part of the welfare system that some do not need to be on at all when they bring in a certain amount of money into the household just like welfare.  People like the Hammond's do not need the extra help at all since they both bring in enough a month to the household for 4 children.  I found that out years ago and could not do a dang thing about it at all for the folks who are just getting by on what they bring in and still get food for the household weather NY State says differently around here.  I will not Damn the person who needs help in today's world to put food on the table at all to go for food stamps and hits up the pantries.  I realized that when Nancy Hammond took me to or my Husband to the food pantries that she had all 4 of the children up in different places at once 10 years ago and my look said it all to the folks running the food banks.  Now that they have got alot stricter in alot of things it makes you totally wander also around the area.  At this point in time the Niece that is with me in the household has found out that I am much cheaper than what some said that I was also here.  With a tight budget on the food part and other things I have to be around the place.  This is why I picked up 2 turkeys today at the store and I realized buy one get one with the discount that I got on the one turkey.  So now that I pretty much know what I am doing with that part of the household here along with other things some have realized that I can't be messed with in what I do at all.  I have found my way of doing alot of things around the place and to make ends meet for the food budget around here along with many other things that life throws at me now.  With the worst week that has happened to me last week I know know that I can go thru anything around here and make it.  With some things I am Willing to learn either way and some may laugh and they realize in what I can do here for my place and try to help others out also while I am at it.  Now I have a new light on some things around my place and it will all work out in one way or another for the place. 

Laughing

Well I ended up folding laundery and I am still not done with that part of the can.   This morning I will hit up the parking lot over at the mall again totally around here and see how much I can pick up here in the deposits for extra money around here.  Pluss there is another spot I want to hit up this morning since I have to wait for one place to open up either way I go this morning.  And I will hit up the parking lots all weekend to see how much I can get for the weekend here since a holliday will be upon us here and the kids are pigs here.  They throw out more nickels around here and just do not care.  Thier loss is some of our gain is how I am looking at it at this time.  I may just make out fairly well this weekend around here.  Alot of what I am trying to do for the day is fairly easy either way I go and it will not be pretty at all.  At least I have a good hold of what I want to do for the place around here as of this week.  My Husband is more than likely laughing at what I am doing at this point in time and will let me go around here.  With that being said I will get the place even cheaper without a problem around here totally.  So now I have been turning off alot more around here as of Monday and my Niece has not thrown a fit at me yet about it all.  She also knows that I am trying to cut the bills down for the place and will get it done.  The funny part is that my Niece is asking me if she can hang laundery now in the can.  I can say that she has learned alot more under my care than with the others that she has lived with at this point in time in the past 14 years.  The poor girl looked at me the other day and went thru the garbage can to check out the prices on the meats that I picked up and she asked if I ever got meat at the regular price at all.  Now she is beginning to realize in how I am trying to keep the costs down for the household on alot of things around here.  So here I sit and I am thinking of how else I can cut the budget and get by with it all for the place and will get it all done.  I just hope that I can do all of this and be done with it all in a timely fashion and still teaching my Niece around here.  With today I will be working in the can, picking up the nickels, and have to pay the lot rent to the slummers also so there is my break for the morning around here.  This weekend nobody can yell about someone working on my truck since some work on thier cars without a problem also around the park here.  Oh well at least I will have the truck back.  What gets to me the most around here is that I do not bother anyone here at all in the neighborhood and that is how I am going to keep it.  I come and go when I please also and if that bothers some folks around the park tough cookies around here.  With this morning I will get some things done and will go from there.  And I better get a move on so I can get alot of what I need to do done.