Shaking my head

Well yesterday I found out that one of the boys is happy with the cheap side of things along with the easy part of food.  So as I sit here today the tears have not hit as of yet and that part may come later on today of course.  At this point in time here it has been a bummer day here so far with one of the birds.  Yes my Olliver had a whopper seizure this morning already.  All I can do is keep an eye on him for the day here and go from there.  Also I am wandering what some have planned for me today here also.  With that being said I will be picking up some things here that the kids do not need to see at all in my household.  So now all they will see is the bag downstairs with the cans that need to be took back to get the cash for them totally and that is it.  I know somethings up around here when some text me asking what I am doing for today and they are stopping by my place also.  Now at this point the flags are up and now it makes me wander about it.  Ok so I am feeling somewhat better around here in a way.  Or should I say way better this year than what I was last year at this time.  It has been a full year and acouple of days since the accident and at least I am still walking and in a better mood than last year also.  So here I am now at this time and I am still cheap and going cheaper by the day around the household without a problem and doing what I know best with where I work at now.  It seems some do not mind it at all in what I do for the place and some kids are happy about it.  With some they have not figured out that I am the one that is cheap at this point here.  As I told someone yesterday afternoon while I am shoving kids outside I am out there playing also with them.  May as well get out there and do to keep an eye on the kids.  With that said here when the weather turns to crud here shortly all of us will be out making snowballs also along with other things in the yard.  Some will figure out in that I am the one who does not mind on going out to do things at all with the kids.  I will figure out the cheap ways of doing things with the kids at the house either way I go weather the father wants me to or not.  The kids mother loves it because I will figure out things that are not in the norm for all of them.  Anyway at this point my picture did not hit the news at all this morning and I am thankfull for it at this point in time. 

Shaking my head

Well I found out yesterday that some do not even feed their children when they have them for the night.  At this point I am still mad about it and the problem was fixed on my end as of yesterday also.  Now I will start cooking before the kids get there so at least they can eat at the house.  As I say I may not eat while I am babysitting and I make sure that the kids do period around the place.  So now at this time some will figure out about cooking from scratch and on the cheap side with me yet again around the household.  With some things I do around the household it is well worth the trouble nomatter where I am at.  This is what will get to some people totally that know me around the area.  Now with that said I will be taking some over to Aldi this week so I can show her in what to do for the cheap side of things.  Since the father of the kids refuses to see things in what is going down and the rest of us have totally the thing is in for a rude awakening totally.  I can say that the kids do not mind totally where the food comes from at this point in time and they will figure it all out also that some have to cut the costs in the kitchen and other places also for the household.  So now to say it is ok to cut the costs around the household and go from there.  Also what gets to me is that some people refuse to get groceries for the household knowing that the kids will eat also.  Now to really start cooking for the house at either place I am at here and some will learn that I will not play at all going into all of this here.  Pluss not only that some have not figured it all out about me.  All I can say is that some people are going to find out some things that they have not figured out at all about their own kids.  Pluss I have noticed that if I do not hang out with the kids on a Monday then on Tuesday it is totally shot with attatudes when I get them.  What I say by attatudes at this point with the boys not respecting women when they are with their father for the weekend.  So I know what to do about it with the boys and it is all by the states standards anyway so no problems there.  Also now with what I had learned yesterday it could be part of the problem totally with the kids.  At this point in time this should get good either way around both places without a doubt in my mind here.  Another thing is that I will be cheap about it all around here and go from there.  That is the bad part maybe around the household.  Since I have got some things down pat around the household here I may as well here take it further than what others expect me to also at this point in time.  So now at this point also here I may as well just cut and slash more things around the household and see where it gets me.  It will be a long road ahead of me and I am up for this one around my place here.  That is the nice thing about what I am doing here for the house is the cheaper I go the better off the household is.  At this point in time here it will work out for the best once I get more done for the place.  It may take weeks and months around here to get things lower again.  Pluss I will get my way around the house anyway since I am the only one here most of the time.  It gives me the chance to go that much cheaper for the place without arguements from other people. 

Long day

Well it will be a long flipping day around here without a doubt at all for me.  With getting out of the house already to get my Husband out to work and I get to babysit for about 2 hours today around another household for the day at least I have gas money for Friday to get out to the one doctors again.  At least it is going once every 2 months or so around here now.  So at this point in time around here it seems like the week from Hell and that is because of some things here that are going on.  Some better not dump things in my lap from Tuesday on around here at all.  I may just snap on some this week here.  That is how I feel at this point in time here and some better run this week once I think of it.  It will not be a good week around here and I will warn the kids also just to make sure that things run good.  So anyway at this time I will be going even cheaper around here just to make some folks even madder at me by the time I am done and some will not believe in what I will be doing also on hump day.  I will say that some things should not have been going on around here as of almost 2 weeks ago and I did open my mouth on some of what I noticed that was going down.  You may get me once around here but, never again once I get blamed for some things around the household that I did not pick up on the first time around.  So with that said that is how I am going cheaper around the household also at this point so I can channel it all and go from there at this point in time of course.  This is why some have got mad at me since I noticed the signs in what the heck is going on and I will stick up for a teenager that does not want to be in charge at all of somethings for the household.  I say this since the mother of a child is swearing up and down this is what was wrong with the boy and now this is what is wrong with him.  At this point some of us did talk and I looked at the person and said if the boy has this then he would have been labeled at about 30 months to age 3 period just like my baby brother was for the symptoms of autism.  Now with that being said there are no signs of it not even a mild form of it at all at this point in time.  The only sings are of not being told straight out or the parents putting their foot down with the boy on his behavior at all and has been let go totally at this point in time.  I will say some parents are scared of the social workers of CPS here in NY State to where I am not scared of them at all.  This is why my Mac screen has 2 big slashes in it at this point besides myself not keeping track of the boy in December at all and wipping the boy for it.  Since the father knew about the boy being destructive and did not tell me at the time and myself not doing well at all at the time now I have something to say about it.  Since I am the cheap one and expect others to respect the things that I have either in the trailer or in the household period since I do that with them totally and when I gets disrespected like that it makes me mad and it makes me see what they are doing to abuse the child period for not setting the child straight at all.  This is why I have told one person she has not changed much at all thru the years and never will and to go jump the clif at this point.  And yes I cleaned it up for here.  So maybe I did make an impact on the girls and raised them in how I was raisede for about 3 years and they have not forgot about what I told and taught them at this point in their life.  I was also right in with one of the girls about ready to book also here and I will take her in without a problem at all.  The girl knows that the crud will stop period from the moment she steps foot in my household also here.  This is why I say the parents of todays world have failed their children since it is a me, me, me world out there with the crap that calls themselves parents of children here.  I was raised old school for alot of things and I know what goes on in the real world.  So now at this point I know of why I stopped sitting for one couple around my place weather I was in the trailer or the house here period and I am happy that I did in some cases and others I am seeing the abuse of not stopping the children at all like I did before I got the children also now at this point.  The boy or the heathen as I call him at this point in time never knew in how rough in how I could be and when I say something I mean it also along with the father of the heathen at all.  This is what I get for the mother not stepping up to the plate at all with the girls.  So yes I see what is going on and said something around here in myown place and got called a liar about it since I said the truth around here also.  This is why I am making some folks mad around here on myown here.  And yes I can say that I have been true to myself here and have been truthfull around here totally and that is what people can not stand at all.  So yes I scare people that way around myself and that is ok.  Since I will say that  I am truthfull and honest.  And will say that I am cheap to a point and will always look for the cheaper way of doing things around here totally.  So a small look into what is going on and what I am doing to fight for here in the area I am fine with it all.  Get use to it if you do not like in what I have to say here and tough cookies. 

Plain out nuts

Well it has been plain out nuts around here to say the least.  And some folks are really done with me around here totally.  I have said it before and will say it again around here the old computer was fine with me since I can and could get onto sites on line and afew other things around here without a problem at all and did not mind the speed of the computer at all since I am and was use to it.  Some people swore the last system was way to slow for what I wanted and way to many tool bars in the explorer side of things here.  So as I sit here I have the laptop and Mac out still around here and will be using that for a good week around here without a problem and keep them out as a reminder of why I do not listen to the one who hollered about my old system here.  And the Mac has it's own issues also here along with another problem that I am done with around here of when we all moved with a heathen child in the mix of things.  All I can say is when you tell a child to stay out of the way 2 times within 5 minutes then the father ignores the child totally then there is a problem also.  After all said and done within about 2 hours the child almost got it from 2 of us that were around and the father got mad about it.  One of us told the parent straight out controle your child or he will get nailed to the wall for sneaking up on the one person and/or ran over since the boy wants to be in the pathway with heavy things in our hands and arms.  The mother of the boy is swearing that the boy has problems totally and it is not true at all except he was never taught better at all.  Pluss it was not good on me since it was 6 months before my surgery when we all moved also and to have a child that just does not care about anything at all did not help.  So at this point in time here I am wandering in how I even put up with the B.S. in the first place and why I did.  Also the only thing that was the normal around here was myself making lists and being cheaper than snot at the trailer and the household at the time.  I am also guessing that some folks around the area are still swearing that I am stupid and do not know anything that is going on at all for life.  That is part of the problem around the area totally with some folks at this point in time since they just do not care in alot of ways in what is going down in the real world.  I went to the cheap side for reasons to help myself out and have been torn down for it by some folks that should have been doing it all along at their place also at the time.  With all of that said around here and that I am still going that much cheaper for my place here also that is what some have not figured in for myself doing at this point in time.  As I sit here and think about things I have came up swinging on alot of things that have went on around the household here and I will go that much cheaper for the place when it is all said and done also.  When I can do alot more than some folks that I know around the area at this point in time here and not even think twice about it on what I can do for the place here, it is looking that much better on me at this point in time since I have been keeping my mind on the cheap side of life.  Knowing that some are totally mad at me for taking the furgal/cheap side of life further than what they all have at this point in time also here for my place they have been trying to keep up with me and can not do it since they have not been over to see what I am doing at all.  The one couple with the heathen child has cut me down to the ankles around the trailer and the house here since I still do not watch much T.V. and that I am off the computer during the day here still along without running the dryer all of the time also.  So who knows of what is going down with the couple and I could careless if they are mad at me or not at this point.  Ok now off to drop my Husband off to work around here.

Still shaking my head

At this point in time since I do print out coupons from the Internet and I get a tool bar with the printable coupons here it makes me wander in why some would holler about a tool bar on my big system period when they do not use it at all.  Since I am really done at this time with some folks and the Mac that I have was the last straw on things totally.  With that said for the one couple I have played nice for way to long around here with them and now I am noticing signs from before and let one know about part of it.  I did not tell all of it in what was really on my mind.  Alot of it over the years part of it I ate and kept my mouth shut the other part is still in the memo department.  Then again they were not my kids at all I was just the babysitter and had to let alot of it go in what was going on except for in the trailer when I had them with me.  Now at this point in time the girls did not draw on my walls with what they could get their hands on and there was only one time when one of the girls wet the bed and she caught it from me and got spanked for it, after that I did not have any problems at all when she was at the trailer on wetting the bed during a nap or down for the night.  When the 2 little ones at the time (they are teens now) went to their parents house they wet the bed once a night at least and were down for the night at 6 pm period.  The cut off time was about 6:30 for drinks in the winter 7 during the summer and they got stuck on the pot before they went to sleep at 8:30 at night.  That was the same time I was getting outfits for the girls from yard sales and other places dirt cheap at my place and they would go thru the washer and worn again.  So at this point the girls still remember in what I was trying to do for them and will still do around my place for them totally.  I may be the cheap Auntie and that is fine by them still to this day.  I think that is what is bothering the girls parents to this day is that I could do and did with their girls and I am still there for them no matter what the heck goes on.  Now the oldest out of the girls will hold her hand out when I go to where she works at for coupons.  It is like she expects me to have them on me at all times when I do shop and most of the times I do around here.  There are other parts that some do not know that I have done and will do to put extra money into the household here at this point in time.  Things like picking up nickels along the way on a walk or in the parking lot before I go in and shop.  Also I have been cutting alot of things down over the years that the girls knew about and never told their mother nor father at all.  And I have cut down alot more over the past 10 plus years around the trailer and here at the household also.  With the phone deal it just got to much when we moved into the house with all the rest of the bills and now I can say that since I did cut that part here it is an extra 50 dollars back into the house.  So now at this point in time here also more of the laundry is going outside on the drying racks and some people that have came over and seen that part say that I am the stupid one for doing something like that to save money yet again around the household.  Now I can hang laundry all year long and not think twice about it at all.  Also during the day everything is off here in the household except maybe a radio at times to help cut the costs of things while I am at it.  I guess this is why I have been thru 3 washers in the past 18 years of being up in NY State also.  Another thing that got to me was that the person here last week of course was complaining about having the A/C unit down at his place this summer.  All I could do was shake my head at that point in time.  Here I have no a coil for the furnace at all and I do not have the stand alone here from the trailer so I ended up with 2 window units for the house and they work well for the main floor and my bedroom.  The one I got first thing and the other I got my 10% off of with a coupons from the one store I go to all of the time down the street from me.  This is what some can not understand about in what I do for my place at all.  The window units I treat different around here just like I did before.  With that said 2 doors are still closed up and normally I close the bathroom door, and hung a curtain up going down stairs and for the upstairs bathroom I crack the bathroom door for the cat to help keep it cool.  So it is the little things that help out around here to save money also.

Now some know

Now some know of why I have been madder than a wet cat on a hot tin roof around here at some people and afew other things that have been going down.  Since I refuse to appoligize at this point after seeing my Mac computer and what some little animals (children) have done when I was in the worst shape and trying to move I am done with some people now.  I could careless if I ever see some again around my place totally at this point in time.  So now at this point l will start bounceing some if I see them again.  This is how I feel at this point in time and lucky that I try to stay to myself also here as much as possible.  So now with the cheapness that I have going on here some point in time and they are failing.  The one set of parents that I had their girls for months on end then after they had the animal of the boy it all went to snot in my eyes and they still do not know in how myself and my husband did it all at the trailer.  When I had the girls we went garage sale hoping for their outfets and I had coupons with Aldi to shop at for food.  So now I have not really changed alot of the habbits that I started with, with the 3 girls at my place also and it all stuck totally with me here.  Then things started getting easier around the trailer even though the rent up every year without a blink of an eye.  Then the starting of turning off things during the day while I was home at the trailer at the time did help out and it seems like it was not good enought at all since the power bills have went down to about 50-70 dollars without the window units going in the summer time.  Pluss I have started switching things over here in the household from the trailer to go that much cheaper here in the household while I am at it all.  It all takes time in what I am doing since I have a back stock on alot of the things here in the house from the trailer also.  So as I sit here and think of all the things that I have been doing for the good here and what is going on with some folks that are trying to keep up with me at this point in time here, it makes me sick in what is going down totally.  With that here about 2 months when we moved into the house.  I was not worried about it since the both of us use cell phones and I could deal without the extra phone and 50 pluss dollars a month not going out of the budget at all.  Now 6-7 months later the one gal is had the phone shut off since she did not pay the bill at her place and said that some can deal without so can we around here.  All I could do was shake my head and wander if I am the real stupid one or is the person who thrown stones about it over 10 years ago now  with it was supposadly me.  All I can do is laugh at this point at some things since I can still mop some up without a problem in the area on the cheap ways that I have.  Also the person that I am talking of will not see the blog at all so she will never see all the tricks that I will put out there and other things that I do at all.  Also at this point in time there are some things that I will never do with the person again here at all and not say in all in what I do.  Now with the one system it needs to be switched out since there is something with the mother board in the dang thing.  Some coupon sites that I have to print from are in the explorer side of things and it adds a tool bar to it.  That is how it is around here and I will say that my system is the fastest in the house here also.  WIth that being said it has a heat issue with it and I have known about it for about a year now and it really does not run that slow for me at all since some are use to a double quad core computer.  Since aste money around here also on something that is brand spanking new also for what I do here I use things up untill they are done and that is how it is and always have a back up system around on hand.  Via my lap top or the Mac one here.

Bad start

Well I had a rough night last night around here to say the least.  I guess I was more tired than anything around the household and it was nice to have a rare day off from the kids also.  So with today here I will still be cleaning on the cheap side and that is ok by me here.  Since some have tried to cut me down around my place totally here within the past week they forget that it does not bother me at all in what some say or don't say to me either way we go.  I know what I can do and I have to take my time at things that I want to do and need to do for the household.  With that being said some have forgot in what has gone on for the past year around here with my health and other things also.  Also I have turned a new leaf over with myself and will refused to be pushed after June while I am at it all.  Things are getting cheaper for the household and some are trying to keep up in what I am doing for the place to cut the costs.  So as I sit here and wander when if I am healing ok around here and I will find out next week if I am on track.  That is part of the problem at this point in why I am still taking my time on things and sitting down often around my place.  At this point in time I need nothing from the store at all and will stay out of the stores totally for the month here.  This is what will get to some people that know me here in the area.  So at this point alot of things will not change with me at all for the house here like hanging the laundry to dry, cutting down on things, and cooking from scratch still to save money.  There are other things that will start to change here for the household also.  With that said here I am switching things over to a different brand for all areas of the household at this point in time.  I have noticed still that the cheaper brands for things will work just as good and I hope that it does not bother the birds at all here when the switch out comes up.  There are alot of things that are changing here for the best and will be streached out to the max still either way I go.  Some folks swear up and down that they are cheap when they are not that I know here in the area.  So at this point in time some do not get it at all in what is going on at my place still.  Years ago when I had the girls all of the time I went garage/yard sale hopping to get things for the girls at my place along with that being said they wore the stuff I picked up all of the time since I did laundry all of the time around the trailer.  I noticed that the mother of the girls was shopping for outfits for the 2 younger girls once a month so she did not have to do laundry for the things that fit or did not fit either way.  I also did hand me downs with the girls all of the time while I had them.  So now the same thing is going on with the boy and it makes me sick around here to know some have not changed at all in some things at all over the years.  So now at this point I did not wander in why I have left some alone over the years after I got burnt totally.  With that said here I was cheap years ago and I have went cheaper even more so after I had stopped getting the girls.  When my one Niece that works as a cashier sticks out her hand figureing that I had coupons all of these years later and I did not at the time we laughed about it.  After we explained to the line manager in what was going down she understood what was going down.  Also my Niece has said that I was the cheap aunt and I taught her well when I had her.  Once they realize it is me that who is the aunt it clicks.  Since I look for the bargins and have the coupons for the things I pick up I was known as the cheap auntie around the area.  After all said and done I am still working on the budget here at my place and always will to see where I can cut down still after all of the years and will continue to do so around here.  All I can say is do what is comfy for you at the time and go from there.  Also hold family meetings on things to get everyone caught up in what you are trying to do for the household.  Other than explaining to the children in the household of why you are broke have them sit down with you and watch you pay bills for the household and other things and they grasp things alot better when you explain and show them of why on things.  Anyway I got told yesterday that I am always welcome and her children listen to me better than they do both parents at this point in time.  I make no bones about things that goes on around the household at all and will say something also about it all.  Just like the 18 month old I told her straight out sit your toush down or ya get it with me and you get took away from everyone because of a ticket.  The lip out and water works did not do squat for the girl at all with me.  So she sat down and stayed put after all said and done.  Also some were amazed in what I can do with the boys.  All 3 boys can not stand it when the baby sister crys at all.  I looked at one of the boys and said the melt down has began with her since she needs a nap and no I will not put her down to run.  I also told him that it was good for her to cry to get her lungs kicking over and she will not be as sick as often also and he did not get it at the time untill I got her down for the first nap of the day and explained it to him.  Then the child got it after I explained it all to him and half the problems that his brothers and myself are going thru for not being able to empty out our lungs when we were her age.  So at this point in tim he understands more in what is going on and the whys of what I am doing also when I do somethings around the household and nobody wants to put up with a grumpy tired 18 month old and a 2 1/2 year old at all.  As some say I am the supper nanny out of the bunch and it goes with bringing up kids as I say. 

Feeling lucky

Well at this point I am feeling lucky around here totally at my place.  Since I do not have the latest gadget at all around the household nor a brand new car sitting out in the drive way here also and I do not want them at this point in time.  I also refuse to keep up with the neighbors around the house also while I am at it.  I guess that I got lucky at some things in that I do not need much to keep happy with here at my place.  I know some folks in the area at this point in time who have had their cars repoed and lost an income property while they were at it also over the years here.  All I could do is shake my head on it and did not say much about it all also.  So while that was going on I went cheaper around my place and it was for the best at the time and still is at this point in time around here at the house.  I started using the coupons years ago and doing other things at the trailer at the time and got a huge guilt trip laid on me at the time in what I started out doing also.  I ignored the guilt trip and tood things farther than what some could even do at the time.  So as I streached out the dollars and other things at the trailer at the time and got cut down and did not say anything except that if I am going to have the girls on a constant basis then I need to do something for my place.  That is what got to some people totally and went from there at the time.  So as I sit here now and I still do not trust some people at all around the area and I have good cause on it.  And I have gone cheaper after my Husand and I moved into the house almost 9 months ago now.  I have not asked for much at all and still will not to this day around here totally.  So now at this point I am always thinking of how to get cheaper for the household here and will continue to do so either way to cover the bills and other things for the household.  Maybe this is what is bothering some folks at this time about me here and I just do not care at all in what others think of what I do around my place at all.  I did cut the house phone around here about 7 months ago and never looked back on that part of things.  Next thing I know is that since I do not have the house phone and someone trying to keep up with us still canned her house phone and did not pay the bill also.  All I could do was laugh about it and did not say much also while I was at it.  Untill some left and told my Husband straight out I knew it and he started laughing.  Anyway at least I can say that I can do the cheap route for my place and I am taking it further than what some wanted me to from the get go. 

Shaking my head

Well at this point in time now I know that the 2 youngest out of the bunch that I sit for are scared of everything.  Yesterday proved that with me.  One of the rare times that I took them out and now in what I have seen it is not good that they have been sheltered as much as they have been so far.  So now at this point in time it makes me wander in where they really have been as of now in their lives besides couped up in the house.  At this point in time here I am also wandering about the boys also from the same household since they can do more around the area.  At this point now I could really scare the kids and see what we all can do on the cheap side in the area.  I proved that yesterday with the girls totally.  Pretty bad when I can get some things done then a cheap lunch got done also with the girls.  Now that I have an anewed since of that I can be cheap totally with the kids and other things here it is a good thing that we all have.  Anyway now at this point in time here with today I will be cleaning on the cheap side of things and have no choice in the matter at this time.  When I have the kids it seems like the energy is zapped out of me for days around here and there are things that I need to do for myself and the household.  With yesterday I did get some things done around here in the household and it still seems like it is never enough in what I do still to this day after some things last year at this time.  Then again I have been doing what I can to try to keep up with the household also while I am at it all.  Also I stopped by the trailer yesterday and some have took down the laundry lines there and all I could do is shake my head on it at this point.  At least it is not my power bill there at all at this point in time.  When there are 6 poeple in one household you do what you can to save money.  So now I am so happy that I still have the drying racks for the household here to save on that end of things.  All I can say is that I knew in how much the power bill was at the trailer while I was there totally for 2-3 people.  I would hate to see it now at this point.  Since my power bill dropped from the trailer to the house here and now I will see in what I can do now with some things again and it is helping with the cooler days around here also.  So now since I do hang laundry out and other things here in the house still to this day and watch everything that goes out and comes in at the household now it will not be a huge deal after I get things really going around here.  Also it helps out that I am stocked up on alot of things here as of today.  This is what hurts some folks around the area still to this day here.  Or maybe it is one of them things of where the guilt comes in with some people in that I can get the household stocked up and keep it that way no matter what is going on here and keep up with things also.  Since my truck is totally paid off since the day that I got it all I have to do is the up keep on it and inspections also.  So all I have to do is pay the house payments at this time and that is all I have left here.  So now that is where the guilt comes in with some people that I know here.  Another thing is within what I do at this point in time some have not got that part at all with the household here.  In what I do it is not hard at all and it took some time to figure it out with me.  I am one of the folks that can not just jump in and do everything at once also here at the household at all.  So when I started out I had to cut back and add one thing at a time to make it all work around here.  I started with the nickels with taking them back in at the trailer and went from there.  That ment using less in the laundery soap and cutting the dryer sheets also at the time when I was really broke.  Then I started cutting with the food for the trailer also to streach that part out.  Since I had tried to hang laundry outside at the trailer totally I got yelled at by the one manager at the time and I ignored the person.  It was not their bills at all at the time and still is not their bill.  So I was doing what I could at the time to save money in the trailer and still added things once a month there.  Now I add things once a week if not more and that seems to work out also for me here since I am the only one here for at least 6 days a week here at the house.  With that being said things went from the trailer to the house without a problem at all.  And now I am cutting more than what some realize that I am for the household at this time.  With that said here now there are things that I am doing that it is ok at this point in time and others do not mind in what I am doing at all. 

Figured it all out

Well I have been thinking around here long and hard over the past couple of days and came up with alot of things here for what has been going on.  Since I caught some in lies and other things with in the past 72 hours around here I am done again with some folks.  Now to do what I have to do for my own place and be done with it all here.  Since I do not trust hardly anyone here in this state it maybe for the best anyway.  Now with that being said I have the drive to get things done on the very cheap side around here without a problem at all here and will get it done just to shock some folks around here.  It will not be bad for what I am willing to do to save money around the household here and some people that live with me will understand in why I am going that much cheaper for the household also.  I guess this is part of the reason of why I am switching over the kitchen and other areas of cleaners pluss other things so there is more money for the household here.  It is also another reason of why some have guilt on the mind and I am not one of them at all who has that part at all for what I will be doing here.  The only guilt that I have is not doing the switching over sooner around the place than now.  Yes I am taking it all up afew notches for the place than what I have been doing here totally.  With that being said when it is nice out the window units are totally off around here and have been for the past 48 hours and the windows have been open here in the household.  Some people have complained that their A/C unit has went out totally again and all I could do was shake my head and go from there.  Now at this point all the person did was tell me I was wrong and a liar then turned around and started hollering about their place.  So now I know where I stand around that person and can deal without them totally from now on.  Some folks told me straight out that the only reason they tollorated the one woman was because of her husband and that is what I have been doing all these years also.  Since some love to brag about their wife in what she supposadly does for the household there I started laughing about 2 months ago.  When my Husband looks at me and says Babe start now with it and I do.  I looked at the person and said that I can do that with my little finger over at some places with the amount of the card and coupons without the card and alot of printed coupons at a place.  The guy looked at me in shock and my Husband said to him she does it all of the time for the house.  The guy does not know that I can go that much cheaper for things in my own household at all at this point in time and that is the funny part of things.  Since this past Saturday when the guy tried to cut me down at the ankles with saying I was wrong and a liar about some things here he will learn that I noticed something that caused even more flags to go up.  So as I sit here and made up my mind to get things done for the place that is what is going to hurt some folks around the area that know me.  WIth what I have in mind part of it is that the window units are off around here totally untill either the rain hits or it is a hot day outside, the power is still off to alot of things here in the household at this point in time, the dryer hardly goes on around here also while I am at it, and there will be coupons used totally around the house here without a problem at all.  All of it my Husband does not mind in what I do during the week here and it is a good thing at this point.  This is what scares alot of folks that know me around the household here without a problem at all.  Now that I am switching things over here in my place it is not so bad at all to go to the cheaper products and they are still good and name brand.  Ok the name brands I can pick up for alot less than with the ultra name on it.  I use less of both either way around my place.  So now at this point in time since I am streaching things out totally unlike some folks that I know now here in the area its all good.  Some have not learned as of yet in what I have been doing in the past 17 years around the NY State area at all at this point in time. 

Thinking

Well I got to thinking about it all and I am figuring that some do not want their daughter to cook at all at this point in time.  Pluss they have a built in babysitter totally with the girl.  So now I am just suprized that the girl has not walked out of the house and never look back like her sister has at this point in time.  And yes there are other things that are going on also in the household.  I still say the red flags are up and I am seeing them up and some has totally choose to ignore them around where they are at.  As some told me yesterday that I was still a supposad bad influance on their children at this point and I took it as because I am cheap for my household I shook my head about it.  So at this point I have came up with I know that I can go cheaper than what I am now and will mop the floor with some of being cheaper than snot here at my own place.  All I can do is for myself and my household at this time anyway.  What alot of it is with me is that I give options on things that some folks do not like at all from what I do all of the time here in myown place.  Also I know that in what I do here may not work for the next person at all and that is ok by me.  So as I sit here and think of some things that need to be done around here and knowing that the stuff can be done fairly cheap for the house without a problem I am always looking for new ways to get things done here.  Maybe longer times will help out also here going without things here in the household also.  It does not bother me with alot of the things that I do go without here in the household like the T.V. and the computer.  Also it does not bother me that I do not use the dryer at all while I am at it all.  This is what gets to some people that know me also here in the area since I do not care if something is on or off during the day.  With this week the window units will be off also for the most part here.  I got hollered at yesterday about it from some people.  I figure since their A/C unit in their place broke down then I am not suppose to have anything also here for my place.  Since I do have the units here I will use then when needed on the bad days.  So as I sit here in my own place and really think about some things around here I am ok with it all here and nobody can change that on me at all also after all.  At this point in time also for my place since I do think of things to do around here that are cheaper than snot I have came up with other things that can be done for my place also. 

Now I know

Well things have been popping up in the past few days around here totally and the signs are there yet again for some of us.  Now I have been asking for my one Niece to come over so I can teach her in how to cook and some have been stone walling me for this part.  After all said and done I got several texts over the phone and some said that she got stuck with her baby brother all of the time.  That is when the red flag went up for me again around here since it happened to me years ago around the trailer with the older bunch.  With that said years ago some parents were dumping their kids on me for 5 days at a time and I did not question it at the time at all since both were working long hours at the time and so was I.  Working at a fast food joint between 40-60 a week and having the 3 girls on top of it all at the time.  Now at this point it was the day that I got married to my Husband and I had the girls the mother told me oh it is only for about an hour for you to watch them and I will be back.  After 3 hours and myself threatening to call CPS and walk out the door because my Husband and I had to go at the time she came back with in a half an hour mad.  Then and there I knew something was up totally and could not place my finger on it at all at the time.  Within about 3 months I was in for knee surgery also and the girls were not over at my place all of the time by then and I got blamed for knowing what I did not know.  Since I could hardly move at the time the girls father came in and the blame started and then I got asked if I know anything about his wife running around on him since I was babysitting their kids at the time.  My answer was that I did not know about it and all I knew was that I had the girls an awfull lot at the time.  I would not lie at all about something like that.  Also it hit me last night in what was said in passing and what one of the girls told me also thru the texts that were sent.  So alot of the red flags went up as of yesterday and it did not take long to start seeing what is going on.  Now to call and say what is on my mind here and be done with it all.  And I know it is better to do it all in person about the red flags that are going up.  Now after the other surgery that I have had and have had time to think on alot of the things here I have put it all togeather and the red flags have been up for the past year.  I was asking for a year for the girl for once a week to teach her how to cook so she does not burn things at all anymore and the real world cooking is better than what is taught in the school system here in NY State.  So now at this time I am thinking that it is mainly Guilt with some and that she knows that the red flags are totally up with me after what has happened in the past around here with me.  So now at this point in time there are other things that have went on and I will say this as in standing in a funeral parlor and I am holding up 2 of the girls that I have sat for from totally breaking down and the oldest girl was going thru it also and went to my Husband to cry on while I had her sisters.  As I said it is all clicking totally now in whats up and going on and the signs have not changed at all from before.  Or maybe I am just seeing them better at this point in time after things were done to me. 

Wandering

Well I am wandering now around here totally.  With things blowing up at 2 households it makes me wander in what is really the underliner behind everything that has been going down.  Since I am the cheap one out of the bunch here I am always thinking of things to do for my house here and where I sit at also.  Pluss with lastnight I got a really strange text saying that things were blowing up at work so I will find out today in what is really going down.  So I may as well show the kids in how to be cheaper than what they are at this point in time at their house and let them know that it is ok to do something like that.  Now at this point in time around here it seems strange here that some things are really falling into place even with the drama going on at 2 households totally.  Also around here since I am doing alot on my own for the place here it will come down to the point of being really cheap here and to pull more money back while I am at it.  Since I do not get the already heat and eat things at the store here for the household it makes it easier on me to have a bag of flour, baking powder, and eggs here for the household.  The things that I said goes along with the yeast, rice, pasta, butter/margerne, and chicken for the house.  This is what some folks never got about me while I was in the trailer when I would go to the grocery store.  So now that part of shopping smart and cooking from scratch has not left me at all around here for the household.  Since I do alot of baking and cooking here it is not a problem with myself going on the cheap to put food on the table around here at all.  With alot of what has been going on around here at the household of course is that I have been going that much cheaper around here totally just so I can say that I can do this myself and still get the bills paid off at this point in time.  This is what some have not got at all about me.  At this point in time I have turned the grocery store along with other stores into a huge math problem and went from there.  The use of coupons have helped out also with that part of the budget.  To bad some parents do not see the stores as a learning spot at all.  Oh well at least I can say it is the kids who suffer and not myself around here. 

As I sit here

Well I am sitting here plotting again here while I am sitting around for the morning.  It seems like a never ending battle around here some days with the cleaning and other things that need to be done.  So now that I am plotting for the morning here it seems strange that I can remember more things without writing them down anymore after the surgery.  Even my poor Husband has noticed that the place is alot cleaner and I can remember more around the household.  With all said and done for what I am doing at this point in time it seems weird around here that more things are getting done without a problem at all.  With alot of things that have went on and now some folks opened up my eyes about in what is going on around here also while we are at it I have no clue as to why I have delt with the crud that I have been as of late.  On Tuesdays where I babysit the boys Grandfather picks them up about noon normally and the past 3 weeks that has been flubbed by the father totally.  Knowing that the children want the stable schedule and someone who cares about them totally around the place.  I can only guess in what was said yesterday to the boys totally by their father and more than not I am right in what was told to them and why they did not listen at all untill one of the neighbor parents came over to say something to them.  So now at this point the mother got a call about it and the father of another child knew that I was greatfull for his help also.  I could not thank him enough yesterday about what happened.  By the time that the childrens Grandfather came by one of the boys did not want to go and the Grandfather and I said what and why at the same time.  That shocked the boys totally and all I could do was laugh after.  So now some know in that I was raised old school totally growing up.  So I told the kids Mother I wanted to talk to the boys one by one and ask what is up and how can we all make things better while I am there.  With alot of things I will not let them go on around the house at all since I was not alowed to do.  That is part of what I wanted to explain to the boys one on one.  I do understand in what is going on in the household and the older crew needs to understand this.  With the 2 year old we both got smacked yesterday and I told her that I needed to call my father also and I understand in why ya miss your Daddy totally.  That and the girls Father stopped back over and told her it was ok to miss him and he did not lie for a change.  Then on top of it he said the same thing that I did and it almost shocked me.  So after all said and done the girls and myself had a good day totally after and things got done around the house.  Also with the dishwasher running it lulled the girls to a nap.  The funny thing is around where I work at sometimes some have brain farts and it still gets done.  I have them also and did not mind keeping busy around the place while the girls were down for their naps.  Ok so I do things on the cheap and do not care in what others think in what I do or how I do it all.  I think that is why some do not like me what so ever around the area at all at this point in time.  Also not only that some swear that I am nothing but a dog to them anyway and they can bite my left cheek while they are at it all.  With some in what I do for the household they get it and others do not at all.  I still do the cheap thing eather way that I go since I am use to it at this point in time and I do not care in what others think at all.  This is why I can do more around places that others would not think of at all of doing.  I guess this is why I partly got hired with some since I do the cheap end of things and can still have fun along with the kids.  With that said around here I will get things done on the cheap side and the kids do not mind it one bit in what I do around the place.  They just do not know the extent that I am frugal/cheap at all.  Some will learn with me and others will not.  Now I will teach some in what to do and alot of it around the household is the simple things that can be done without the kids knowledge at all.  As long as things get done around the house alot of behind the work that goes on they eather do not notice or do not think of it at all in what goes on.  So now with that being said I may as well start on my own work around the household. 

As I sit here

Well as I sit here this morning here I am wandering about some things.  Knowing I will not be called in until about 11 am to work of course all I can do is shake my head about it all.  So now that I can get some things done around here totally for the place I will more than wait until tomorrow around here also.  Since I do have laundry and have to mop the kitchen floor for the once a week mopping again.  It seems strange that I can get most of the things done around here without a problem now and work on top of it all.  The funny thing is that some things turned out for the best also around the household and I got to see some really good friends yesterday while I was at it.  With alot of it I got asked if I was still cheap and I said yes of course I am still cheaper than snot.  With what I spent at Kmart yesterday I am set along with the second kitchen for the household along with some other things for the household here.  Also I did have about 14 dollars worth of coupons at the store so it was not that bad at all.  So after I collected the points and extra points on the card here I am almost set for December and January around the household here.  Several of the cashiers know that I refuse to use the points on the Kmart card until then.  That is how I am around here and will wait until the 2 broke months to use the points for things so I do not have to worry about what I will do during that time at all for some things for the household and both of the kitchens.  The laundry needs that I got yesterday along with other things here for the household to be stocked up for a good 3-6 months on things here it is not so bad in some areas the other is that I got the second kitchen stocked the rest of the way while I was at it for dirt cheap prices so I will not worry about that for another month around here at all.  With the Pres. of the USA being the liar that he is at this point in time the cheaper I go at this point in time why can't he at the same time also along with some others in the Senate and House.  I will tell you that in the things that I do around my place would kill some folks totally that are in office at this point.  With alot of the power strips turned off along with other things that I do for the household to stretch out everything they would be shocked totally along with I am the maid, cook, book keeper, and secretary on top of it without pay.  And I am only one person that does everything around here.  That and everything is done in the household on the cheap while I am at it.  As I told someone last week there is a half of a dryer sheet on top of the dryer and to use it for the next load.  This is what gets to some folks is that you can use less of things and still have clean laundry along with static free things with the dryer.  The next step is to have her get drying racks along with the hangers in the basement to save on the power bill or gas bill at her place.  She will see the drop in the 2 bills without a problem with just the laundry in its self right then and there.  And a start someplace is a good start with 5 children in the household.  The next thing is the grocery bill for things in the household with whom I work for at this point.  Along with there is nothing wrong with using coupons and the cards at the stores at all with trying to save money around the household.  I know that going cheaper for the household seems scary  to some folks and it can be done as long as everyone is on board with it.  That was what I had the problem with in the trailer when I first started out once again for being cheap.  Once my Husband figured out that it will work after I explained it to him then he was willing to work with me on going cheaper for the trailer.  Now at the trailer I do not wanna see the power bill for that at all anymore since the guy who took it over runs 5 things at once around there at this point.  I know that with what I was doing with the drying racks and keeping most of the things off during the day that the power bill was still about 90 dollars a month compaired to the house at 50-70 dollars a month at the house.  So now it makes me wander if we were still on the commercial rates for the taxes end at the trailer park still.  At this point my power bill has been dropped by at least half around here and that is using the dryer and the 2 window units to help keep the house cool enough at this point in time.  As I told 2 folks lastnight I would flip on the modem when 3 pm hit so some could get onto the net after work.  So now what does that tell about me totally. 

Shaking my head

Well with yesterday around here it was just plain out nuts.  So now at this point Sabre Park went to snot after myself and my Husband left.  With that said at this point in time the can that we were in before the house was never that bad at all.  The flies were bad yesterday and I never bothered to go into the place at all after being outside.  That did not include the rest of the park at all in the bomb that went off around the place.  Now I am happy to be out of the trailer and into the house.  That is why I was going cheaper at first untill we hit the house here and it is another reason of why I am going that much cheaper here.  Even my Husband has noticed that I am going that much cheaper for the household at this point in time here.  The funny thing in what I am doing for the household at this point is that it will work out for the best even with the times to where I just wanna throw my hands up and quit on what I do around the place.  With things on the list here for the household that are needed it seems strange that I can get alot more done around here without a problem at all.  Now with alot of things that are going down around here things are getting cheaper by the day here and I do not mind in the least bit at all.  I guess this is why I do some things around here during the week while some are not here and this is what I am use to doing.  Things like turning off both of the T.V.'s at the breaker bars, turning off the computer and modems, and not useing the dryer at all for the place.  That goes along with using less cleaners and shopping for the cheapest prices for the household.  So now to really sit down again and rework the budget yet again for the household to see what I can do to go that much cheaper for the place around here.  My Husband does not mind at all in what I do to get that much cheaper here so I have came to think on some things that I can still do to get cheaper than dog snot.  With that said I will be doing some things during the week from now on since it is almost the Fall season during the week here that my Husband may not know about at all from now on.  The window units are off at this point in time also just to save on the power bill now.  With tonight also I will be using the dryer for some things here in the household since we have flea garded the household also.  This is why I have the dryer anyway for the household.  So now at least I can say that alot of what I do at this point is a good start in how to be cheaper and to get buy with it all.  Maybe this is why some folks are still pretty mad at me at this point in time also since I am cheaper than they are around the area.  Also with yesterday I found out that some are still trying to keep up with me in the cheap department of life.  I just had the feeling that some did not pay a bill at all and I was right.  As the Thing told her Husband tough and deal with it all since others do and it has worked out for them at their place.  After the mess that Verison gave me and that it was all in my head supposadly I did think on just using the cell phones after that.  After 2 sets of bills for both places at first I told my Husabnd that it was better to drop the house phone once we moved to the house 8 months ago. 

Shaking my head

Well yesterday finally got out to do what I had to do and spray for fleas after we got home.  So yes the place is clean and there is still alot to get done for the place here.  I about freaked out yesterday when I was at Kmart also.  When something is on sale and the corprate office is saying something is going to be  discontinued ok fine.  Myself and my Husband walked in yesterday to Kmart and there is the discontinued item in the store my Husband about went thru the roof of the store.  So now I will say that some were totally lied to and they got caught.  At this point in time I am unsure of what to make of it and Kmart is one of the better places to shop at around the Niagara Falls NY area than at Walmart.  Walmart went sky high on their prices compaired to places like Kmart and other stores also around here.  Even one of my girlfriends said that she stopped over at Tops and saved over 75 dollars compaired to Walmart acouple of weeks ago to put food into her household.  This is why I hardly go into Walmart anymore to get food for the household that and since most places take internet coupons again it is easier to get up and go to the other places of course to use them.  So now at this point in time most of us are going cheaper in some way for the household and we are liking it all around here.  Since I do not have to shop all of the time now for the household it seems strange that I am mainly stocked up here and that is why I do not mind now of not getting out around the area at this point.  With that being said for the place here I will be getting out again today and it will not be so bad at all when I do.  So now at least I can say that some things will be done around here for the week and I get to go to work also so lets see what happends around here. 

Shaking my head

Well after yesterday of being sick and getting screamed at by a looser becuase I was sick around here I am totally done with some people.  After awhile you get tired of a man lieing to ya and I busted someone wide open totally.  So I put my foot down and hard around my place and will continue to do so with the problem from yesterday.  Now with that said some people are madder than a wet cat on a hot tin roof around here totally about what has happened and I do not blame them.  With the 2 voice mails that I have from where I babysit at with the astranged husband now I have some amo to help out.  Knowing now some folks were right in wanting to call CPS here in NY State they should have.  At this point there are several things that I can do also besides others around here in the area.  I just have not done that something yet at this point here protecting the kids in the household.  So now at this point in time I will see what I can do here and go from there and start digging more of course.  Now I can say that I read someone right again around here and as I said busted the person wide open for lieing to me and the 3rd strike he was out around me.  So I will pull a meeting around where I work at and go from there.  The boys already know do not push me at all or they loose the net on something they wanted me to hook up for them at their place.  Another thing is that I will be showing some in what I do for the household here that is on the cheap side.  Since I have been going cheaper around here totally I will be able to show some in what I have done.  Also it never hurts to cut the costs at all around the household.  I am taking it further around my own household without a problem also.  Some folks are already mad at me for what I am doing here and it does not matter to me on what they think say nor do about in what I do.  With that said some will be shocked in what I do already and will learn in what I have done around the household.  Also I will show the person the freebie sites on the web also while I am at it all to help out around the household.  There is alot that can be done around the household that is cheap.  All I can do is laugh in some of the things that I have done over the years also.  So now let the fun begin around the one household and go from there. 

About fell out of my chair

Well I about fell out of my chair lastnight during the news airing here.  Well Sabre Park is no more after 6 months by law around the area and I laughed over it.  So yes now I am more than happy that myself and my Husband got the house here totally now.  After all the Hell they all put me thru while I was at the trailer it is nice to know in what is going to happen now also for the owners.  Now I am wandering in how long it took them to get 6 million, yes I said 6 million into debt at the trailer park and where the lot rent was really going at after all said and done.  All some of us could do was say WOW and laugh on top of it all.  After 18 years almost of being at the trailer and seeing the park going down hill the last about 8 totally it makes me wander in what was really going on there.  With that said around here I will say that some folks that just moved into the trailer park are screwed totally that is including my so called step daughter also.  So now that I am totally out of the trailer park I am alot happier at this point in time and I still keep to myself around the area.  Also now at this point in time here I have noticed that things have got alot cheaper here at the house than what they were at the trailer totally.  Things like the power and gas bills for the house are a fraction of what they were at the trailer.  Now the goal is to get my power bill down to 35 dollars a month during the Fall, Winter, and early Spring here for the household.  Another thing is around here is that I know that I can do this without a problem at all here and will not have someone screaming at me all of the time about what is going on at all.  That is the best part about what is going on here for the household.  So now at this point in time all I can do is try to get things done on the cheap side and go from there.  When my own Grandmother starts hollering about I will always say keep the money and do not worry about me Grandma she has not came to realize that wht I do not accept from her at all that I am better off for not taking it.  Since I have done it on my own for the past 20 pluss years without help nor asking for money at all why should I start now.  So at this point in time I will do what I have to around here to keep the house going along with other things that need to be done.  Another thing is that with me I have noticed some things here that will change totally and I just do not care anymore about what other folks say nor think about in what is going on here in my own household at all.  When I am doing things to save money around here on my own also there is a huge difference in why I am doing also without help from others.  While I was at the trailer I could not understand in why the power bill would not dip below 90 dollars at all untill I got out of there totally.  One was commercial rates and I gathered that much out of it and the trunk lines being shot also.  So there was the wasted power source that I was getting charged with from the meeter to the trailer.  At this point in time even with the 2 window units going and 7 loads of laundry in the dryer around here my bill is a fraction of when I was in the park totally.  With this week also I can turn off the units for several days and not even bother with them at all.  So I will do that and get even more laundry outside around here and it is out in the air.  Another thing is around my place is that I am hanging laundry and turning off things totally so I can have a cheaper power bill here also and I am going for longer periods of time doing without also.  And knowing that it makes some folks mad since I do things on the cheap side of life.  Oh well at least I am doing around here totally.

Shaking my head

Well I am the only one up at this time so far and I need to drop my husband off at work again.  All I can say at this point is that it will be a long day around here to say the least.  .Knowing that I have to clean around here it is not a huge deal at this point in time at all.  Yes it will be done on the cheap side of things around here at the house and I do not mind that at all.  After the flea dip of 2 pets and the birds are good still thanks to some of the disks that were and changed in the cages here I about fell out of my chair also yesterday.  It is that time of year around here for fleas and ticks.  And it seems that the whole block of dogs have been fighting it with several other folks in the area also here.  So here all of us are and I can say that the Blackwing's store is getting alot of folks in with the questions of fleas and how to deal with it all for the year yet again.  So now at this point in time here knowing what works on the pets go with Adam's in the blue bottle for the soap.  It is better than what I can get up at the vets office.  Also the birds freaked out when we were putting them in the kitchen yesterday here so I could spray the one stuff down on the areas that needed it.  My biggy boy started screaching for the other here and calmed down once he could see plucky yet again here.  Anyway alot of it all got done around here and I will get more done today since I do have more laundry to throw into the washer here.  This is what gets to me the most is that some have not figured it all out around here in how much I really do for the household during the week while others are gone here.  So yes I will be busy all day around here to say the least and I have no choice in the matter at all.  I guess it bothers some folks that I can work all day in myown place here and I need the time to clean.  Also at this time I will be doing alot today that needed to be done over the past 2 days that did not get done of course.  As I sit here and plot the day out around here it does not seem that bad in what I need to do for the household here at all. 

Shaking my head

Well another thing has sprung up on me today around here and I did not get mad about it at all here.  So I will fix in what is going on around here without a problem and go from there.  It will be on the cheap side of course and my Husband started laughing with what I will do around here for some things to fix what is going on.  So as I sit here and wait for some things to open up around here for the day I may as well get started on my own laundry yet again here.  With alot of things that have went on this week at my place here it amazes me that there is still alot of work to be done.  Alot of it is myself trying to get things done and it does not always work out at all.  So I have been working on that part also while I am at it all for myself and the household here.  With that being said around here some folks are going to be mad at me by the time I am done here and that is just tough cookies on them at this point in time.  There is just alot more that is going on and my hands are tied around here also for my place and others.  So now at this point in time things are gonna be alot different in what I have been doing around here.  Just like with yesterday around here I picked up some things on the cheap that was needed for the household and it will last for a good while for cooking and other things.  This is what is getting to alot of people with me for my place.  In what I do is take the cheap route here for my place and run with it.  Since I do alot of cooking around here it makes it easier on me to have some things on hand at all times.  Now since I do have some things on hand at this point I can make candy with some of the things I did pick up also here for the kids to keep busy with while I am watching them.  I guess this is why some folks get madder than others since I do think on cheap ways to be cheap in and the kids are more than welcome to what I do to keep them busy during the day.  So now to be cheaper than snot around here to get things done so the days go by quicker around here.  Also around here there are alot of things that go on around my place for the cheapness department that nobody sees at all out of me.  So now it is getting cheaper around my place and it does spill over to other parts of what I do out of the household.  That is why some like me also at their place.  Also all 3 meals got cheaper on the days that I babysit.  I told the boys I am not the one that dished it up you are and ya better eat it all in what is in front of ya also.  That is one thing I am a stickler on with anyone.  I had to laugh since some have noticed that the kids are eating better during the day while I am there.  And yes I am creative with 2 meals a day around the place.  So I will make some things here at the house to take over to where the kids are since I some do not want "The kids to leave the household".  So now to teach them something totally around the household while I am there about math and other things also.  Nothing can stop me on that one at all.  So now I will begin in the household and branch out when the time comes around the place that I am at.  Now that I am really thinking and I did take a hint for the past week on why the buggy has been there also for the girls.  That is the nice thing about what is going on. 

Shaking my head

Ok I am shaking my head around here with some folks who swear that the off peak hours are still 8pm around with the power company.  The shoulder peak begins at 4 pm then the real off peak begins at 8 pm once again.  So some were here getting the laundry done at 8pm and did not leave untill about 1 am here this morning.  And yes I am going on very little sleep at this point in time and it is not good at all now for the household here.  So now to really start folding my own laundry here and go from there this morning untill I get the phone call here to go pick up my Husband also.  I am just running way to much here and it is not cool at all at this point in time.  At this point in time around here I am shaking my head around the household here and I am just wandering in when I will be caught up around here totally with the housework here and I probably will never be caught up.  So now at least I am thinking around here in what I can do and get done for the rest of the day here and I am hoping that it does not take forever to do also while I am at it for the day.  And it will be done on the cheap side of course here.  I have no choise in the matter at this point in time here at all.  Now to really crack down on myself here and get everything down to almost nothing at all just so I can say that things are looking up totally.  Also I owe the one account money at this point in time also around here thanks to some that have asked once again about barrowing money off of me last month.  What I do not get about some people is that they want to barrow the money and never pay it back.  Both my Husband and my self have told the couple that we are totally broke around the house here and they still do not get it at all.  What I should have done was let them look at my check book and say now I have to pay the bills around my house here and get to the grocery store also for the month.  Since my Husband and myself do not have the luxury of food stamps at the house here, and the couple that wants to barrow 20-50 dollars at a shot do have the food stamps at their place totally including lower rent with everything included and may pay 4 dollars extra a month on that part.  Since my Husband and I had 2 sets of bills going out at one time here and still have the bills going out but one set this time around here it makes it hard sometimes for the place.  So now I really wander in where their money goes to totally around their place and at the same time I do not want to know neither around here.  Another thing is that knowing that they have a car payment at their place and it is about the time when they should know better also.  At this point in time some need a good wake up call maybe at their place and I do not think that will help them out neither at all.  When I can sit here and budget out hard in my place and try to make the money streach out pluss pay the bills that we have here also then it makes me wander in what really is going on around some places also. 

Wandering again

Well I am wandering again in how I will be able to do all of what I need to do for the day here.  There is so much to do and not enough time to do all the cleaning at all.  So I will work on the household again today without choice in the matter at all for the day and go from there.  At least I can work at my own pace around here still and get things done.  And yes it will be done on the cheap/furgal side here for the household.  Since I do have to get things done around here it will be nice to start doing and not have to worry about other things at all.  Now to get at least 4 loads of laundry done and hung up on the racks outside while I am at it today also here.  This is what some have not figured out about my place at all at this point in time that I have to do here since I am the only one here during the week of course.  With the power bill getting up there this month here I am doing what I am suppose to do around here with the laundry to save money totally.  I do hang up laundry all of the time and knowing that it bothers some people around the neighborhood here that I do this oh well.  They do not have to pay the bills in my place here at all.  So now at this point in time since I will be hanging laundry all year round again here it will not be that bad at all.  With the lines up down in the basement and the drying racks also I should be ok with what I have this Winter.  The funny thing is around here is that I ended up with 3 small racks at the trailer and got 3 bigger ones not to long ago for the house also.  With that said here I can get alot of the stuff we wear up on the racks then the towels and sheets go up on the lines along with the big blankets also it will be simple around here.  I also turn off everything at the power strips except the window units when the peak hours hit around the area here.  So it is well worth in what I do compaired to some households also here in the area.  When their power bills are over 200 dollars a month I cringe about it and figure that I am lucky that normally mine are about 50 dollars a month.  My goal is to get it down to about 35 dollars a month here for my place and keep it like that after this summer.  So as I sit here and try to figure out more in what I can do here to cut the costs it will all hit me at once yet again for the house here and it will all get done.  Now at this point in time here there are some things that will get done for the day and I will make sure of it of course.  So now just to get started on things to make the day go by faster. 

Thinking again

Well I am sitting here thinking already this morning.  I already told my Husband I can not take much more at all with the one boy out of the bunch already where I babysit at.  When I am getting heartburn and I am not even there then there is a problem.  So now at this point in time here it seems strange that I can really sit here and start thinking of what is going on at this point in time and would rather stay home and not even bother to go out of the household here.  Ok so I do not mind being alone at all at this point in time.  Also maybe I should find another job at this point in time here so I can pay more out in the bills that are already here and it pays one of the bills off that much faster.  That maybe a good thing with some of the bills here totally.  I found out on  Tuesday that only 4 people can take the kids out in the car/truck/van at this point in time.  My Husband told me it sounds like some want ya stuck to the household where you are going to period at this point in time.  My Husband also gently reminded me that we both took oaths to call out when someone is that hurt and it outrules any court order at this point in time weather the father of the children say so or not or I could be charged with child endangerment and child abuse.  It seems like the father just does not care when others do at this point in time.  So I will explain this to some people today and put my foot down totally at this point and stick the father with all 5 of the kids today and see how he likes it because I refuse to be treated like dog crap anymore.  So now I will go as cheap as possible for the household from now on and be done with it all.  With what is going on at this point in time I can find things on the cheap side to do without a problem at all and will get it all done here while I am at it.  The power bill was good at this time since both room units were going for the month around here also.  This time last year the power bill was about 300 dollars at the trailer and it was 140 dollars here this year.  So it was not that bad in my eyes at all since it was over 80 outside here in the area for days on end here this past month.  Sometimes it makes me wander in what is going on with the weather and knowing that the area is going to get hit hard this Winter again here so now to really get geared up for the cruddy weather here again.  Thank goodness for the truck with the 4x4 and the thermal curtians also here for the household.  There is alot that can still be done for the household here other than that to save money and I will start in on many things here without a problem.  Just like useing coupons again for the household and shopping the sales with the coupons, and several other quirks that I do to be cheap/frugal for the place.  My Husband has let me go on alot of things here for the household and I like it like that.  So now to get into gear for alot of things here in the household to get it cheaper than snot as I call it and that is how it is around here totally.  There will always be laundry, dishes, and other housework that will always need to be done and may as well do it all on the cheap side of life.  I will be going down to one bottle cleaning for most of the household here either way that I go after some things are used up around here and that is fine by me at this point in time also.  I have been cutting alot out also around the household here and there comes a point to where I do not mind not having something here while I am at it.  So now there is still alot on my mind around here of course and my dear Husband told me not to worry at all about some things.  At this point somethings I can not help but worry around here totally and it seems to all work out around the household like it did with the trailer.  I can not help but wander at this point in time if it was for the best that I went back to work so early also at the point that I did.  So I will apply at some places again since I did find some things that I was looking for from before then go from there. 

Shaking my head

Well I am shaking my head here totally.  So now at this point I have been cleaning around here and taking it little by little around here totally here without a problem.  Sometimes it seems like I do not get that far at all around here during the day.  Now I really need to plot around here to get things done and over with here totally and see what happends for the rest of the week since I will do all of it on the cheap side of course here at my place.  The funny part is that with yesterday while I was sitting the girls they got lunch and their mother was impressed in what I came up with totally for the girls.  The girls scarfed up the gramcrackers with peanutbutter and jelly along with cheese balls for lunch.  Alot of the times I do not eat while I am at work and some do not get it at all.  It is one of the things that I have always done, worry about the kids and ignore myself totally.  Also at this time I will need to show one person in how I do things at my place so she can go on the rampage to save money while she is at it all for her place.  With 5 kids in one household it is hard to go the cheap route when the kids are not use to it at all.  So now at this point in time so I will look some things up on line here and see if a place takes coupons totally.  It does help out on streaching the money out for the household is all I can say.  I guess this is why I end up at Kmart and afew other places in the area to get things done.  I also had to laugh yesterday and wandered if I got a water bill also for my place and I did with a totall of $20.25 since I over paid the bill totally around here for the last go around.  So now I will figure out in how to get the water bill below the 95 dollar mark around here and go from there.  I can not holler to much since we all filled the pool on this water bill on this round of the billing cycle so at 120 dollars I am not worried.  Another thing is that I am watching everything at this point in time to see where we are around here for the bills.  With alot of it here in the household I do watch in what goes on and alot of things do not get operated here since it is either power suckers or hogs up water one.  So I do not flush the commode all of the time at all unless doing the number 2 during the day and I wait otherwise here for when we all go at least 3-8 times then flush and use less T.P. also in the bathroom.  There are people that I have read on that do things that are unsanatary for the household and it is a walking infection that is not needed in todays world at all.  Yes I read alot of things and some things that I read on what to save on is totally just plain out wrong in what some do.  There are times when T.P. is on sale thru the year and with either the price of it alond with coupons I would rather have the T.P. around the household.  It sure beats the Sears catalog and leaves or rags to use.  I also read to where some use the dirty cloth napkins that have been used at the dinner table just a few weeks ago.  All I could do was shake my head on it and said no along with my Husband here also on that one.  With the rags how can they not smell after a week of sitting there with urin and other things on them along with not being in a bucket of either water and or cleaners with water for them at that point.  Not only that how is that cheaper to wash them in hot water also is my question for the day.  I will keep the cheap T.P. in the household for my place here.  There are other things that I will not do also for the place here.  Somethings are just not right in how some folks do to be frugal nor cheap for the household at all.  So now with things out there in todays world now there is no need for some things totally.  So I will do alot of what I think is right for me and go from there and does it mean that is right for someone else not really at all.  Since there are alot of people with different ways of doing things in the world that is how the world goes round also.  What works for me may not work for the next person at all and I know this around here also.  This is why I say try it out if it does not work for you then it does not work try the next persons thought also.  Some things that I have tried around the trailer and retried here in the house did not work at all for me so I wanted to be sure since I did to much at once at first. 

Still shaking my head

Well I am still shaking my head around here and still come up swinging for the household.  It seems strange that I can still get things dirt cheap around here totally off the coupons.  With the other day around here I got 2 gallons of ice cream at buy one get one free and had 2 of the 75 cent coupons for them also and they were doubled at the store for the good stuff.  So I got an extra 3 dollars off that part of things here for the household and started laughing that it came out to be $3.68 for the 2 tubs of ice cream.  So after all said and done the total bill was $77.96 and after the card and coupons it was $44.59 for the day and it was including meats in the cart also.  Now trying to explain to folks this is why I use my card and coupons at some of the stores here in the area and they still do not get it in why I use both togeather here.  Pluss it is part of the budget of myself trying to get groceries and other things as cheap as possible for the household here.  There is another reason of why I use the coupons at the grocery stores and other places also here.  I want to try to rake over the store as much as possible with the sales, cards, and coupons for that place.  Also I did get over 150 points for the gas on the card at this point in time the other day.  It is every 100 points for 10 cents off on the gas for the truck here and it is a good thing also.  So I will let the points build up on the card and use the coupons to get extra points on the card also here.  And since I have to travel to the doctors next month around here it will be put to good use totally on the gas before I leave.  With the coupons they only except 10 at a time at the store here in the area for 100 points extra so I see myself splitting the coupons up around here also for the next orders that are going to come up.  So now I will be watching the sale ads closser around here and collecting more coupons for the sales in the area.  Also at this point I will be taking in the nickles also around here so I can get that much more off of the bill for the household here.  It works for me around here and it really bothers some folks that are behind me in the check out lanes.  I know that it bothers some folks untill they see my total bill after the coupons and the card here.  Since I have not cashed in the nickles as of yet here that are in the household some will really be mad at me for what I do take in to trade out for.  At this point in time here I have about 30 dollars in nickles so far that I need to take in and that is not including in what I picked up off the parking lot at the storage unit yesterday also.  The weird part about it is that I can get up to about 40 cents there and other places I can get more or less depending on how lazy some folks get around the area here.  Since I do pick up the nickles along the way here it makes it worth the trouble here to get the extra cash of course.  Now that I will get back out for my walks here during the week and it makes it easier to pick up the nickles of course.  So now at this point I know that I have to get back out there and start walking again here to feel better.  I will keep you posted on how I do with the days and weeks to come areound here on that part of things for the household here.  With that being said around here I have to start in on the picking up again here in the household.  I got farther than I thought I did yesterday all day long also.  So now to get more done before the phone call today. 

Shaking my head

Well I got asked the other night if I had talked to someone when I have not in the past at least 6 months around here and the woman did not even know about me having surgery at all 5 weeks ago.  I told the truth on not talking to her at all and had thought that she should know in what was said and asked of me from Monday night.  Then the woman's astranged husband called me a liar on top of it lastnight.  I really did not talk to her untill her astranged husband contacted me Monday and I got to thinking about what he said also and all the gal asked was that he wanted to turn ya against me also around here.  Sorry my friendship of 25 pluss years means more than a husband and always will.  I look at it like thins husbands and wives come and go over the years and seen it all happen and some of us remained friends for this long why bother to break it all off now.  As I told one of my girlfriends up here you are in the circle of friends with me here and we will be stuck togeather for over 25 years after all said and done.  So now with lastnight I did say my peace to some people that I know and they did not like it what so ever at all.  Some men have a hard time with a woman standing up to them anyway so I am not to worried about it at all.  Now at this point I have realized why I have been keeping to myself more and more in the past 2 years between the trailer and the house here also and I am ok with it totally here.  Maybe that is another reason in why I started streaching out everything that we have between both places here over the years so I did not have to go out all of the time also.  There are times to where that yes I do have to get out of the household either way I go around here and I do get out.  Also not only that I can say that I would rather be at home most times anyway and let the rummors fly about after that.  I figure that rummors are just that and if someone is that loose with the tounge then so be it around the areas.  So now I will do what I have to from now on around here and keep to myself that much more also while I am at it all.  Not only that it gives me more of a motive to go that much cheaper around here also for the household.  Also I can say that since I have figured out more ways to get the household cheaper again it will all stick to the fullest while I am at it all.  This is what I get for useing more coupons and holding out for the sales at the stores along with turning things off also in the household here.  I will get the place cheaper to say the least and some folks have said that I can do it also without a problem at all and that they had faith in me for trying to do all of it for the place.  I know several folks that their power bill is about 35 dollars a month here in the area and that is my goal for when the weather gets nice again outside here.  At least I do have the goal in mind on that part of things here along with driving the food and cleaning bills also for the household.  Alot of this I can do myself only because I am the only one in the household during the week here. 

Wandering

Well I am wandering around here yet again for some things.  With that being said around here it seems wierd that some things are paid and I have to pay another bill today here yet again.  It never ends around here to say the least and the bad part of it all is that I can do all of this pluss get some of the house work done while I am at it all today.  Since I will get out today it is not such a huge deal at all to me.  Now with some they do not get in why I need to take the children out some days of the month around their place at all and now they will understand after this month without a doubt by the time the bills start coming in again.  This is why I did ask and got blown off last month and told no.  So now with some things coming up either get there on time or I take the kids with me here and make it a learning experiance for them period.  With alot of it around some parents they get to the point when one babysitter could not get up and go to where some of us can and make it a learning day after we get out to someplace.  Some parents would rather have their children couped up in the household and sheltered to the point of they will not be able to handle the outside world by the time they get old enough at all.  Some places are perfect for a huge math problem when they go out also.  So now if I present it like that to the parents maybe I will get someplace also around the place.  Since the last sitter was lazy and did what she was told of not taking the kids out of the house even for walks then I can see where the father might try to push me.  I am looking at it like this I have been somewhat putting my foot down around their household and starting this week I will have the heavy foot for a change.  I will start pushing back around the household and do not care at all.  Another thing is that I will not take the kids out of the county at all.  With that said there are parks close enough to their place to go to and stores totally.  Anyway I will see what what I can do here on the cheap side for the week around the house here and be done with it all around here.  With the question that was possed to me lastnight around here it sounded like trouble to me in what was going down.  My answer was no to the person and that I was having a hard enough time trying to keep up with my own place here and working on top of it out of the household.  I guess some did not like my answer at all.  I am looking at it from my point also I refuse to get involved totally in what is going down with the bitterness of some folks also.  So now I did tell the truth and was blunt about it oh well if some do not like my answer at all.  All I can do is do for myself, husband, household, and the kids I sit for at this point in time.  Also be as cheap as I can for my own household at this point in time here.  Some folks will learn this about me here and now weather they like it or not.  So now I will do what I can for the day and try to get as much done as I can around here otherwise it will have to wait untill another day here.