Shaking my head

Well I got asked the other night if I had talked to someone when I have not in the past at least 6 months around here and the woman did not even know about me having surgery at all 5 weeks ago.  I told the truth on not talking to her at all and had thought that she should know in what was said and asked of me from Monday night.  Then the woman's astranged husband called me a liar on top of it lastnight.  I really did not talk to her untill her astranged husband contacted me Monday and I got to thinking about what he said also and all the gal asked was that he wanted to turn ya against me also around here.  Sorry my friendship of 25 pluss years means more than a husband and always will.  I look at it like thins husbands and wives come and go over the years and seen it all happen and some of us remained friends for this long why bother to break it all off now.  As I told one of my girlfriends up here you are in the circle of friends with me here and we will be stuck togeather for over 25 years after all said and done.  So now with lastnight I did say my peace to some people that I know and they did not like it what so ever at all.  Some men have a hard time with a woman standing up to them anyway so I am not to worried about it at all.  Now at this point I have realized why I have been keeping to myself more and more in the past 2 years between the trailer and the house here also and I am ok with it totally here.  Maybe that is another reason in why I started streaching out everything that we have between both places here over the years so I did not have to go out all of the time also.  There are times to where that yes I do have to get out of the household either way I go around here and I do get out.  Also not only that I can say that I would rather be at home most times anyway and let the rummors fly about after that.  I figure that rummors are just that and if someone is that loose with the tounge then so be it around the areas.  So now I will do what I have to from now on around here and keep to myself that much more also while I am at it all.  Not only that it gives me more of a motive to go that much cheaper around here also for the household.  Also I can say that since I have figured out more ways to get the household cheaper again it will all stick to the fullest while I am at it all.  This is what I get for useing more coupons and holding out for the sales at the stores along with turning things off also in the household here.  I will get the place cheaper to say the least and some folks have said that I can do it also without a problem at all and that they had faith in me for trying to do all of it for the place.  I know several folks that their power bill is about 35 dollars a month here in the area and that is my goal for when the weather gets nice again outside here.  At least I do have the goal in mind on that part of things here along with driving the food and cleaning bills also for the household.  Alot of this I can do myself only because I am the only one in the household during the week here.