As I sit here

Well I am sitting here plotting again here while I am sitting around for the morning.  It seems like a never ending battle around here some days with the cleaning and other things that need to be done.  So now that I am plotting for the morning here it seems strange that I can remember more things without writing them down anymore after the surgery.  Even my poor Husband has noticed that the place is alot cleaner and I can remember more around the household.  With all said and done for what I am doing at this point in time it seems weird around here that more things are getting done without a problem at all.  With alot of things that have went on and now some folks opened up my eyes about in what is going on around here also while we are at it I have no clue as to why I have delt with the crud that I have been as of late.  On Tuesdays where I babysit the boys Grandfather picks them up about noon normally and the past 3 weeks that has been flubbed by the father totally.  Knowing that the children want the stable schedule and someone who cares about them totally around the place.  I can only guess in what was said yesterday to the boys totally by their father and more than not I am right in what was told to them and why they did not listen at all untill one of the neighbor parents came over to say something to them.  So now at this point the mother got a call about it and the father of another child knew that I was greatfull for his help also.  I could not thank him enough yesterday about what happened.  By the time that the childrens Grandfather came by one of the boys did not want to go and the Grandfather and I said what and why at the same time.  That shocked the boys totally and all I could do was laugh after.  So now some know in that I was raised old school totally growing up.  So I told the kids Mother I wanted to talk to the boys one by one and ask what is up and how can we all make things better while I am there.  With alot of things I will not let them go on around the house at all since I was not alowed to do.  That is part of what I wanted to explain to the boys one on one.  I do understand in what is going on in the household and the older crew needs to understand this.  With the 2 year old we both got smacked yesterday and I told her that I needed to call my father also and I understand in why ya miss your Daddy totally.  That and the girls Father stopped back over and told her it was ok to miss him and he did not lie for a change.  Then on top of it he said the same thing that I did and it almost shocked me.  So after all said and done the girls and myself had a good day totally after and things got done around the house.  Also with the dishwasher running it lulled the girls to a nap.  The funny thing is around where I work at sometimes some have brain farts and it still gets done.  I have them also and did not mind keeping busy around the place while the girls were down for their naps.  Ok so I do things on the cheap and do not care in what others think in what I do or how I do it all.  I think that is why some do not like me what so ever around the area at all at this point in time.  Also not only that some swear that I am nothing but a dog to them anyway and they can bite my left cheek while they are at it all.  With some in what I do for the household they get it and others do not at all.  I still do the cheap thing eather way that I go since I am use to it at this point in time and I do not care in what others think at all.  This is why I can do more around places that others would not think of at all of doing.  I guess this is why I partly got hired with some since I do the cheap end of things and can still have fun along with the kids.  With that said around here I will get things done on the cheap side and the kids do not mind it one bit in what I do around the place.  They just do not know the extent that I am frugal/cheap at all.  Some will learn with me and others will not.  Now I will teach some in what to do and alot of it around the household is the simple things that can be done without the kids knowledge at all.  As long as things get done around the house alot of behind the work that goes on they eather do not notice or do not think of it at all in what goes on.  So now with that being said I may as well start on my own work around the household.