Shaking my head

Well I found out yesterday that some do not even feed their children when they have them for the night.  At this point I am still mad about it and the problem was fixed on my end as of yesterday also.  Now I will start cooking before the kids get there so at least they can eat at the house.  As I say I may not eat while I am babysitting and I make sure that the kids do period around the place.  So now at this time some will figure out about cooking from scratch and on the cheap side with me yet again around the household.  With some things I do around the household it is well worth the trouble nomatter where I am at.  This is what will get to some people totally that know me around the area.  Now with that said I will be taking some over to Aldi this week so I can show her in what to do for the cheap side of things.  Since the father of the kids refuses to see things in what is going down and the rest of us have totally the thing is in for a rude awakening totally.  I can say that the kids do not mind totally where the food comes from at this point in time and they will figure it all out also that some have to cut the costs in the kitchen and other places also for the household.  So now to say it is ok to cut the costs around the household and go from there.  Also what gets to me is that some people refuse to get groceries for the household knowing that the kids will eat also.  Now to really start cooking for the house at either place I am at here and some will learn that I will not play at all going into all of this here.  Pluss not only that some have not figured it all out about me.  All I can say is that some people are going to find out some things that they have not figured out at all about their own kids.  Pluss I have noticed that if I do not hang out with the kids on a Monday then on Tuesday it is totally shot with attatudes when I get them.  What I say by attatudes at this point with the boys not respecting women when they are with their father for the weekend.  So I know what to do about it with the boys and it is all by the states standards anyway so no problems there.  Also now with what I had learned yesterday it could be part of the problem totally with the kids.  At this point in time this should get good either way around both places without a doubt in my mind here.  Another thing is that I will be cheap about it all around here and go from there.  That is the bad part maybe around the household.  Since I have got some things down pat around the household here I may as well here take it further than what others expect me to also at this point in time.  So now at this point also here I may as well just cut and slash more things around the household and see where it gets me.  It will be a long road ahead of me and I am up for this one around my place here.  That is the nice thing about what I am doing here for the house is the cheaper I go the better off the household is.  At this point in time here it will work out for the best once I get more done for the place.  It may take weeks and months around here to get things lower again.  Pluss I will get my way around the house anyway since I am the only one here most of the time.  It gives me the chance to go that much cheaper for the place without arguements from other people.