Some are left behind

Well I asked for another opinion on some things here and they gave it to me knowing what happened totally here and I am greatfull for it.  Now some folks are on their own and tough cookies on that part of things and now that I am ok with myself again that is all that matters.  Ok so I gained weight over the years and that part can not be helped at all since I could not move and did not get help also while I was at it all here on top of it all.  I did not blame others what so ever except for myself for the choice of what or who I thought were friends here in NY State and that is why I ate alot of crap and swallowed my pride while I was at it all also here over the past year.  Now at this point since I have noticed some things with some people here I was in the right nomatter what I said or did and got stronger over it all.  I have still a good best friend that makes since out of the mess and hers with me also and it seems to be ok at this point in time after almost 30 years of knowing each other and my sister knowing my best friends own Momma also.  Now I know that some people are not right and I do not wander in why I came up swinging when I knew some people were lieing to their own kids about what was going on.  I have never lied PERIOD to the kids that I have had over the years at all and never will.  Even to my step daughter nor son here still to this day.  Knowing that is alot of the problems for the country today alot of the generation X and Nexters have lied to their kids here and said oh its ok if ya get raised by another person it is not on me there is a problem totally in that.