Shaking my head

Well at this time I know in why I have got away from some people here in the area totally.  With the money that my Husband barrowed from the one gal hereabout 4 years ago and I paid her back with in about a year and a half things got really nasty.  With the cut downs along with other things that had happend also at the time along with myself wandering why the gal was so broke when I know she was making about 40 grand per year also on top of it at the time it started making since yesterday.  Ok so some pretty much laid it on the line in what was going down with the gal and admited that she was still to this day making good money with the job that she is at.  Also it would explain in why the gal had texted me alittle over a year ago also at the time while I thought about all that has went on.  When I told her not a chance here again and there was to much that went on also at the time when the both of us split.  So I did not hear from the gal again after that point in time.  Plus there are other things that have been and will keep going on untill the gal starts to get herself back on track also.  So untill then at this time I will just keep away from the gal untill it all explodes again and see what all happends.