Shaking my head

Well at least I can say some things got done yesterday here in and out of the household.  Since a few things went down in the past several days here it was easy to see the red flags going up also with some people.  I am tired of being the nice neighbor all of the time here with some and that has totally changed and I have been let loose totally by my own Husband.  All I can do now is plot out my next move here and lets see in how cheap I can really get for the household from now on since it will not hurt anyone at all now along with making others mad.  Ok so the garden helped out with things and my Husband told me that I was finally right on alot of things here and in that why waste the money for things that others figure that I would do for them at this time.  So now at this point here for my place there will be alot less for one person to try and nail me on here for myown place.  Since everything that I do for the place adjatates one side of the house here it is ok now.  More laundry will go up on the lines along with myself cutting alot more out of the budget by refilling bottles of what ever that is here already now.  It is a pain lugging the big jugs around of things so I transfer it all to a smaller bottle here for everyones sake including mine.  That was only part of what I have been doing here along with seeing the sales here and waiting also to jump on a good deal again for alot of things.  So now with alot that has been going on here that I have not said about at all at this time it is all good.  I am only waiting for the next move anyway here and going from there at this time.  It seems the more one person complains in what I have been doing so far the cheaper that I go for the household at this time anyway here.  Since I am doing for myself and my husband here in by going cheaper it is all good at this time.  This is why I have been hanging laundry, getting to the garden, along with turning things off all the while totally for the house.  Also I do not go out and blow money just because someone tells me to do so.  I have been taking some people in stride here and waiting anyway to see in what all happends.  Just because I do not like someone or in what someone does means squat to me at this time also here.  There are times that I am tired and do not want to deal with people and that is when I stay home along with staying in the house to keep away from everyone also.  I still get out of course and that is not what some want out of me.