Shaking my head

Well it looks like a pallet bomb went off in the back yard here at this time.  It helps with the fire place here for the bigger logs and throws enough heat during the winter months so the furnace does not kick on during the day.  So a friend of myslef and my Husband came over for 2 days here to help out on moving them to the house here and the one neighbor started hollering about it.  It is not like we did not say anything about it since we did say there will be more here before long the other day.  Well the rampage went on and I just shook my head at the one neighbor totally.  Since there is not enough time when my Husband gets home and untill he leaves here from the house the stuff did not get cut up like the one neighbor wanted it to.  Gee when there is only 2 days a week if that some weeks that some are home unlike the one neighbor who is home all day since he works the graveyard shift it makes a differance totally in what gets done between both houses.  I can only do so much here anyway and I still can not lift hardly at all after 2 years as of Friday.  Well with the friend that was over thought I was kidding that the one neighbor always said put downs to me along with trying to be a smart ass here to my Husband he started with some were here at the house.  As I told the person that was here yesterday that I liked it better when the youngest girls friend told me that they all were not alowed to talk to me here at all.  As I say I would rather be ignored than slammed all of the time anyway and it does not bother me when someone does not talk to me at all here.  Then my Husband had brought it up yesterday here that there is another girl that comes over during the winter months here.  I looked at him and said oh the one that it seems like there is always a huge fight with the one girl anyway and she gets out of here right away once the slams get way out of hand also.  He said yes that is the one here and that was that.  All I can say is that It is not on me that the one neighbor is always broke anyway and he can not understand in why some of us have money all of the time.  In what I do here is try to keep enough money here for the household just in case if something major goes on here that niether myself or my Husband can repair ourselves.  Pipes go along with other things that are never planed anyway for owning a household.  Now with that being said here maybe that is part of the reason of why I am trying to be such a tight wad for the place here anyway along with other things.  Pluss I do not present myself as being better than anyone else here in the area anyway and that is how I like it all.  Another thing is that I will not go out and just spend money on stupid things here at all for the household.  I do not need alot of things anyway to be happy.  With that part maybe that is why some are just plain out nasty with the attatude towards me here at this time.  I have gave up with some people here and could care less in what they say most times to me since it means that some are totally unhappy on things anyway.  What gets to me the most is that some figure that it is ok to slam people time and time again then figure that it is ok and it will not bother the person.