Shaking my head

Well I can say that I just can not understand some things that have went on in the house at all since Monday period.  Knowing that the 4 year old was hungery and in what her father told her also was not good.  The girl told her mother, dad said not to eat at all and the girl got into trouble for telling the truth.  Since I cooked yesterday here for lunch again and the girl told me that she was sick so she did not have to eat at all.  It was like something clicked and called the girl back to the table to eat here and told her tough you're eating.  That and I told the girl once her daddy started paying my bills here and on top of it be here for lunch also to watch her eat then it was up in the air for what she wanted untill then she has to eat here in my place.  It makes me mad here that when a parent tells a child not to eat then turns around and makes calls to the state on the person that is trying to feed the child when they do not eat.  I sat there with the child untill she ate also and went from there yesterday.  When the child realized that I was pretty mad over it here and will not put up with the B.S. here that she along with her father is trying to pull.  Another thing is that I have been pretty even keel for rules so who knows in what today will bring here.  I keep reminding myself here that yesterday and tomarrow takes care of its self here along with today is another day also for the household also.  So now to see in what I can do for the day here and go from there.