Wandering

Well the great food battle is on with a very picky 4 year old child.  So I told the child yesterday that this is what she had to eat for lunch and she did not want any part of it at all.  The child figured that if I do not eat everything then the sitter will give in on some things here in her place.  I can say that I won the battle and the popcicle did not come out niether after lunch nor by the time I dropped her off.  Even the childs mother admitted to me that the child just would not eat for her at all niether and did not know in what to do about it at this time.  All I can say is that cold food is just not right at times and that is how it all goes here in the household.  So now here I will get my point across here that some have to eat and that is the end of it at this time.  I refuse to go to jail for not feeding a child period at this time still.  So it all makes me wander in what is going on here with the child.  Also yesterday I kind of got a comment from the child here in the house and she stopped cold in the middle of what she was saying also.  It seemed like that she wanted to say the whole thing but was scared to do so.  There are ways that I can find out in what is going on and that was not the time to push the child niether yesterday on that part of things.