Shaking my head

Well I excaped my one aunt already here today again and it is for the best around here so far.  Make her wander in what I am doing and have been doing early in the mornings here.  Also I have told grandma that I am working and it is the truth.  So now at this point some need to learn on in how not to spread rummors about things that are not going on anyway.  With that said this is why I am not suprized in what is said out of my aunts mouth and have not been for years at this point in time.  So now let her think of what she thinks she knows here and I can care less at this point.  I also got out for acouple of hours last night here and seen one of my girlfriends totally along with her Hubby and her Daughter.  At this point in time now I know that it is just one person that is keeping me away totally here from Illinois at this point.  I will make calls here and some will not like it out of me at all here after this one.  At least my father and a hand full of people that know me very well around here in the reasons of why I do not want to come back at all and it is just one person that is doing it all.  Knowing what my one aunts problem is and it is not at all good for anyone here it is on her at this point in time.  Yesterday my grandmother looked at me and said well your mother is bringing the turkey over tomarrow to my place.  I looked at my grandmother and said that is not my mother period at all and thank goodness that she is not.  My grandmother did not blame me in the least bit when I told her that one.  Since I was raised differantly from the one crew around here and my one aunt has not realized it totally here at all yet that is on her also.  I have learned over the years that when I started streaching out the budget and set up the hard budget here for my place it has made my one aunt mader than a wet cat totally.  Shoot I had 3 kids to bring up that were not myown and a husband by 16 and did not ask for a dang dime from anyone at all over 20 years ago.  That is when I started using coupons and going really cheap around the household totally.  I have kept alot of things going from one place to the next and added alot of things also to the mix to get the bills paid around the place nomatter in where I was at, at the time along with bail money also.  Some have not figured it all out as of yet over the years and they more than likely will not niether around here.  So that is why I have done alot of things here at the house that my Husband and I just bought here a year ago next month.  So now at this time I do not go chaseing after a boyfriend that has took off nor spend money on the stupidity side of things also while I am at it unlike my one cousin that is always doing that along with her mother.  With my household 2 months out of the year we are totally broke and just have enough to cover either the rent or the house payment at that time and that is how it is.  So yes I do have a tight budget for the household at this time and that is how it is.  I guess that is why I never lost the touch with the coupons and looking for ways to cut the bills down for the household over the years at all here.  My grandmother has figured out that my cousins would never survive in NY State at all with all of the high costs that are going on and why I use coupons and shop in other states that are cheaper.  So now at this point in time here I will say that my grandma did not blame me for shopping down here for dry bulk food here in Illinois nor going to PA to shop for some things.  That and cut down on things around my place for the bills at all.  With that said here it is one of the things that I have learned here and will do what I have to around the household to cut and slash the bills as much as I can.  At this point in time here since my one aunt thinks I am the rich one out of the bunch at this point and I will spend money also on a want instead of the need for anything that is going on.  She found out right quick that it will not happen at all with me around here and that now I pretty much know in what she is up to at this point in time.  Well with what I have seen out of her so far it is not good after almost 2 weeks of being in.  It seems like she has got alot worse since I have been gone.  What would be sweet around here at this time is if my father and the rest of my crew would be in town for Thursday here.  At least I would have enough back up then around the house.  So anyway here at least I can be cheap around the house and excape to do some things also while I am there.  That is the nice thing about all of it at this point in time.  Also some have not figured out that my skin has dried out alot over the years while I have been at it so I save some money there with the water bill at least.  So now to get going here and deal with some people again.