The why's I went

Well I have figured out the why's of myself going over to the cheap/frugal side here.  When I started going down the path at this point in time I was about 16 years old and first married to the ex at the time.  I can really laugh at this time here in what I started doing at that time.  With that I started using coupons at the time and afew other things also.  Since the protable washer and dryer was lent to us at the time it was small and it got the job done let me tell ya and alot less laundry soap was needed on top of it.  Also I had to mop the floor right after using it since it leaked after awhile also.  Ok so it made it easier on me to mop around the place also at the time.  Alot of what I did at the time has stuck with me totally around here with the new husband around here totally.  Now at this point in time here the things that have stuck around here is that I am still using less of the laundry and dish soaps here at the house.  Now that does not include the steam mop that I have for the floors around the household also.  There are many things that I do around the household at this point in time here that would make others freak out still here and my one aunt is one of the people that would just go off the deep end about it all.  Since alot of my sweats are falling apart and they are still good for pajamas if I use them for that who cares totally.  Some of them have the holes and that is how it goes with me here.  Since I am not willing to get things that are at 90 dollars a piece period around here and there is no reason for it also and that is where I am coming up on the cheap end for some of the family members at this point.  I figure in why should I spend alot of money for things here that may not look good at all on myself or my Husband when they are gonna be totally battered by the time we are done with them.  So now at this point in time here the new piece is the one chair that I picked up on sale and it will stick around for a good many years here totally.  That is how it is with me here in the household and tough on others that do not like in what I am doing at all now.  Just like at this moment in time I am switching things over to the cheaper things to clean with around here.  Some would totally freak out and would not like in what I am doing for that part of things.  With some of it like laundry soap and dish soaps it is all the same and the cheaper stuff works better at times also for the household.  I will be using Purex and Ajax againg for the laundry needs around the household and they work better than Tide will for what is needed here.  That is the whole thing with me here at this time is that i know what will work and what will not work for the laundry.  Either way some things never go away at all in the chore's for the household.  Laundry and the dishes are acouple of main problems totally nomatter in what you do for the household.  With that being said I do them as cheap as I can and go from there here and now still to this day.  There are times to be cheaper than snot around the household and other times you can go really cheap also while you are at it.  Just like with the all purpose cleaners you can dillute them and put them in a spray bottle for the bathroom and quick clean ups on the floors in the household still.  That is what gets to my one aunt who swears her ways are better when they are not at all still to this day.  Well all I can say about the one aunt is that she is a spend thrift and does not care in how much she spends on something at all still to this day.  Now also I can tell my one sister that there is a way to get to the dirtiest player in Illinois and I did not have to say much about it all.  Since knowing there is a limit on my bank card period around here for both things here and I plain out refuse to spend at least a grand to get my Husband there to Illinois totally for him to turn around and come back straight to NY State dang the luck for some here.  So now at this point in time she is still mad about that with me and that I have ways around some things here in life also.  Some figured it all out totally while I was there and what I got and they asked in how I did it.  All I could tell them is that I still have checks on me and tough.  I thought that my poor grandmother was gonna go into tears with laughture on me after I said that to her.  So that is how I got the brand new laptop around here also.  I did think of a T.V. and looked at the weather report and thought better of it also around here.  Ok so I have a pick up truck and did not want the water damage for some things totally.  I will say when I spend good money I do not want the things damaged at all unless it is from good wear and tare around here also.  So now that is what is getting to my one aunt totally with me is that I will not spend money at all unless I have to around here.  As my one sister told me the one aunt is a dirty player and has been for years, so I got the so called woman (my aunt Dee/Marie) beat to snot.  And it was not of my doing at all hardly at all.  So now at this point it gave me enough amo to go that much cheaper around the household here in NY State and that is how I like it.  I have figured out a way to get all the bills cheaper here and go from there since I had the time and the 12-14 hour drive totally going both ways.  That and the frosting on the cake was when my aunt Dee desided to take my major pills from me while I was down there totally and now she got what she wanted me out of the way.  So now at this point in time yes I will save up to go to other places and pay them well along with being the cook and the maid around the household while I am there.  It means that I do not have to go to some places at all now and that is how it is.  SInce I am the cheap one here out of the family it is nuts and I am alot younger than some of them around and older than some in many cases also.  So there is alot more to why I have went to the cheap side and will say so here later on.