Thursday, October 6, 2011
Shaking my head
Well 2 melt downs yesterday to say the least and they were not at my place when they did it. As I told the kids mother unleash the kids on the manager of where you are at and he/she will light a fire under the shops guys to get the car fixed totally. Ok so that is what I did with my own kids and it does work for things when kids melt down outside of the home at times. So as I sit here and wander in what is really going on with the boys at this point in time here also besides some telling them it is ok to act out with some of us. Also the boys pretty much know lets get the snack and start in on the homework when they get home also with me around 2-3 days a week around their place. I figure get it out of the way early so they can have abit more down time around the household also. So now at this point in time here my boss figured out that I was not kidding when I said when I was totally out of some things to wear and that I refused to go out of the house untill the laundry dryed totally around here also yesterday. So that is how I got the girls and the almost 3 year old got excited to come over totally to see the birds and the dog. I thought it was funny that she likes it over here also. Also I did not have to argue with the one to eat for me at all around here with me. With that she looked at me and said why are you doing it this way when my mommy does not do it that way. So I explained it to her that everyone is different in how they do things at their place and that is how it is. Also I had the radio on while they were here and I told the almost 3 year old that she could learn something other than from what she watches at her place and she understood on that part of things. So now I can say that it is a nice break on her not watching T.V. during the day at all and their mother could not believe that I did not switch it on at all. Just because the kids father wants them to watch T.V. does not mean that everyone will put it on at their place at all and he does not have to pay my power bill also around here. Now at this point in time here some would be madder than snot about what is not going on here during the day for children that the guy could careless about now at this time. Between myself and the mother here and now the father of the children told us both "Don't bother me with the kids at all" and I said fine and told the mother what to do about it. Along with set a time for him to pick up the kids and if he does not show untill an hour later do not let the kids go with him at all and the cops will stand behind the mother totally along with CPS here in the state. With that part said around here totally that is why the father of the children is mad at me also is that I stood up to him and never looked back at all. Even my Husband said when I am right I will fight a person totally and do not care at all in what they all think about it pluss win on top of it all. This is part of the reason of why I do not want to work more than acouple of days around the one household at all at this point in time also along with I have tryed everything that I know what to do for and still get the mental abuse from the kids here totally. When I do not let it affect me at work the boys have noticed that oh well if that is what you or your father thinks of women then cool and you are not going to affect me at all with words. Also since I do not let it bother me at all I want to see what happends today while I am there with the kids and any lip I will call the mother and tell her since I supposadly do not know what I am doing and the one boy knows everything I will be sitting outside totally around the place with my book and do not care at all anymore and maybe their father can find a better babysitter also for the kids. Since I can only guess in what happened with the last sitter that they had for the kids and more than likly be right on how I feel about it at this time here and the father got shot down totally with me when I first met the man also it is all good. All I can say is do not hit on me first thing sith the kids in the car with us and on top of it do not hit on me at all period. So I gave my boss some advice yesterday and she knows that I am right on what I said to her about the situation totally and that she has the advantage at this point in time since she has to protect the kids and herself at this point in time. With myself I am not worried at all about it since I can take care of myself here and keep the cell phone on me at all times also.
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