First to admit

Well maybe I need to back off for awhile around here with on Niece.  I just hate to see her used is all.  I get mad when her supposad friends tell her that I have something to do with something that I have no controle in at all.  I have tried to tell the girl straight out that maybe that it is best to find a job before she moves if she wants to.  Sometimes I do not think what I say is really sinking in around here untill it is way to late at all with my Niece.  Maybe it is becuase I am the voice of reason around here with the Crap she has been wadeing thru at this point with friends who don't really care at all.  Maybe I need to totally withdraw from alot of things around here once again and say you are on your own and see how far my Niece gets around in life.  I think my Niece finally gets it around here.  I just have not said much at all about what her sister is doing at all at this point untill now.  Between her being a babysitter and getting used again besides getting used again for a damn paycheck coming in and a babysitter if she went to work.  That is how long all of the children been with me and not with me at the same since.  I was the back up without the back up around my place period for years.  So now my Niece is getting where she knows that I am it out of the family and her Great Grandmother is not doing good at all.  So I will keep that promise to a woman that wants to see at least one great grand baby around here.  Pluss try to keep the girl on the straight and narrow around the place to say the least.  I may have lost my Mother within the last month around here but, I will be damned if I let the girl slack in any way also while I am alive around here.  So now she understands why I think in the way I do around here and I was not cutting anyone down at all.  Well I read between the lines around here and what was said to me last week to say the least and I knew of the whys around here if someone ain't happy then nobody will around here.  Well I picked a few of the kids off and knowing what is going on since most are spoiled rotten here in the city eather way I go.  Pluss Mommy and Daddy will support their household eather way I turn around.  Not only that I brought up several good points of where was so and so to call and ask in how things were going is everything ok.  So eather way I know who are friends and who are not around here to all costs.  Yes it is a hard lesson to learn also around here.  When you have a child that nobody wants at all unless it is on your turf then some will understand.  As I asked you want me to pull totally back or give a rats behinde about ya at this point in time.  Then it started totally sinking in the girls head in what I was trying to tell her.  I can still pull away and I know that is what she does not want at all out of me.  Maybe the girl is not ready for someone to back her totally at this point since Nancy Hammond totally disengaged from her and did not show her anything at all.  That is the only person I will throw under the bus around here anyway weather some like it or not.  After Nancy Hammond gave me hell why should she change for the kids also or any one else except oh poor pitty me.  Nancy Hammond got what she wanted all of the kids split up and pitted one againsted the other.  Why should some differ from that part of what she learned.  Ok so I broke that cycle around here and quickly.  I have mopped up enough with the girl around the place.