Thursday, September 30, 2010

Waiting game

Well today I am waiting around to get up to the doctors office.  Other than that I have to fold laundery and vacume up the can pluss a few other things that need to be done around the place.  I am way ahead as of now on alot of things here that I have been doing.  I have been pushing myself for the most part around here to get things done.  Yes I have been doing things on the cheap around here and my Niece is getting frustrated at me since most of the stuff off during the day and I had pulled food out of the big freezer last night while I was at it all.  With alot of things around the place I will not let my Niece go on at all.  This is why I turn alot of things off around here and block the boxes up so then this way I can get the power bill down while I am at it.  My Niece just does not understand in why I do that still even though I show her the bill for the power and it goes over her head.  So I am doing what I have been somewhat doing all along around here and it may be longer times here shortly to keep everything off also.  I know that when the modem goes on for the phone and computers the girl is like a hawk to it to turn on the laptop around here.  So I may just wait untill about 4 pm today to get on the computer myself and go from there.  I know it sounds crazy around here and it works for the household.  Also the dryer will not be used unless I am defuring something around here.  This is why I have the drying racks around the can pluss the lines.  So now to get everyone on the same page and to kick my Husband when he does not bring the laundery out of the truck.  I have already warned him if it does not hit the bag it will not get washed at all.  Eather way he learned that if it does not get into the bag I don't touch it and he got mad when I diden't get to his jeans around here at all.  All I could say was I told ya so.  With alot of the things in the can I have had to streach out so many things so I can get the bills and extras for the household paid.  When my Niece first got here I confused her only becuase Nancy Hammond did not show her how to do alot of things on the cheap side for the household.  Pluss she did not sit down with the girl to pay the bills niether in her household.  So yes it was a crash course for my Niece in what to do and how to shop on the cheap along with many other things in my household.  I even had to show her in how to cook on the cheap around here also while I was at it all.  If Nancy Hammond only knew in what she did to hinder the children and what they have had to learn on thier own and from other folks outside of her household we would all be in the wrong in how we all do things.  Also it makes a person want to be sick in how they were taught things from Nancy Hammond.  So now I have to keep my cool to help the girl out even though I do tend to blow gaskets about some things.  Now with alot of things around here I will be teaching my Niece more around here and going from there.  I need to just to get her caught up with part of the world that has no choice in the matter.  With alot of my Nieces friends they are still in school and not made to do squat via housework and or work at all.  With myself I had no choice in the matter but to keep house, work, and go to school at the same time when I was thier age.  This is what I am trying to get my Niece to understand around here is that she has to look for a job and work weather her friends are or not.  Since she is not ready to get her GED yet she needs to start working pluss help out with the household around here.  I will talk to her today about it and see what is said also. 

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