Another long day

Well it will be another long day around here to say the least.  Since I did get alot done around here yesterday for the household and it was not enough at all.  Since all of it was done on the cheap of course yesterday around here some would have started in on me for what I did.  With some of the heavy cleaning done here and more needs to get done also for today here it will work out totally.  So at this point in time here if I told some in what I had done she would hollar at me totally in what I was doing for the place.  Some swear that I am not suppose to clean along with lifting things at all in their eyes.  If I do not do alot of it then it will not be done at all here in the household.  With that said alot of things will be done today like the dishes, some laundry, and floors being swept and mopped.  All I can say is that sometimes I have to lift things here in the household to clean and move them to where I want them totally here.  So as I sit here and think of what I do in the household without the help at all I am ok with it now.  Knowing that my Husband will not be here during the week at all most of the time anyway I will not bother to wait in what needs to be done.  Some people like my grandmother think that I am the pampered brat here also since my Husband will do some things for me here in the household.  It is pretty good when the man has only done one load of dishes here and has thrown in 2 loads of laundry since we moved in alittle over 13 months ago.  That goes with my Husband has not cooked a meal here in that long also for the household.  Yes I have had things pulled back in the one freezer in the kitchen when I had the surgery in June so neither one of us had to cook at all here in the household at all.  Also with my mind set around here I am figureing that if I take it easy then I may as well give up and take the hollering from others that I am not doing anything.  So now at this point I do what I can when I can in the household and try to get everything done on the cheap side of life also here.  Maybe that is what is bothering alot of people at this point also now about me here.  With that said I refuse to be pitted against other family members anymore and that is why I have pretty much stayed away from alot of them at this point.