Thinking again

Well since I have been paying bills and cleaning the household here some got mad in what I have been doing for the household.  Now with today it will be more of the same around here without any problems at all at this point in time.  This is what some folks did not even think about what is going on with myself and why I went cheaper around here and will get that much more cheaper here in the coming weeks and months here and now.  The nice thing about in what I am doing is that I will be able to streach out more of the things here in the household with the cheaper priced products at this point in time.  Since I do not use paper plates most of the time here at all and at times yes I do pick up a pack once every 5-10 years at this time it is well worth the trouble at times since I have not found everything as of yet here after the move.  Now at this point some figure oh paper plates they are a common thing and it makes everything easier for the household.  I look at it like this since I have to use dish soap anyway for the cups, silverware, along with pots and pans may as well break out the dishes for alot of things here for either place that I am in.  I will swear that the dish deturgent is cheaper than using paper plates all of the time for a household totally still.  Alot of it is breaking habbits for just buying things totally that are not needed for the household and I know some folks hate dishes that have to be done for their place also.  So now at this point since I am stocked up on cleaners who is to say that I won't get the all purpose and water it down for more cleaner around here in my place at this time.  All I am saying is think of what can be cut down for a household and start doing it slowly also.  That was my problem totally in the trailer, I was getting started on getting the bills down again and cutting the costs for the place totally.  After I noticed that I was not getting anywhere at all and frustrated with everything I finally figured out that I was doing way to much at the time and dropped some things and added them back once a month at the trailer.  Now I just try it out during the week while my Husband is gone and see if it works better for myself then and there for something.  With switching alot of things over at this point to the cheaper costs of cleaners once again here it is working out better than expected at this time since my Husband does not mind that part untill my hands start to peel because I switched some things over again.  It happends all of the time and I am not worried about it at all.  So now at this point some will be mad at me for doing what I am doing and that is fine since my answer is still no to some folks that want to barrow money off of myself and my Husband at this point in time here.  Pluss I feel a guilt trip coming on with some people at this time also while I am at it all.  All of it should be good if and when they ask this month here totally also now.  I have figured out that I am not the one with the car loan on top of me along with other things totally I am doing good here to say the least.  So now at this point in time the guilt trip will be totally of ok since I supposadly can not budget out the money coming into the house and you know better than I do here also then you can take over and start paying the house payments along with other things here in the household and I will sit back and do squat from now on with the complainers.   May as well tell them that since I do not know any better in the ones eyes at all at this time.  With that said here it would not go very far in what will happen totally and with myself knowing this it is worth a shot totally here when I can say that to some folks also.  So now at this point in time I know where I went wrong with some people like the complainers totally here and that is why I do not let some barrow money off of me at all anymore.  All I can do is hope that they do not ask so I do not have to lay down the guilt trip on them at all here.  I guess it is part of the reason of why I have not cashed in the nickels also at this point in time for the household at all now along with stopping with the walks while I am at it all.  At this point I know that I can only do for my household and say this is what is going down from my point of view also now.