Shaking my head

Well I have been sitting here thinking and plotting for the day already here this morning.  Since I do have some cleaning to do around the household today here it is not so bad in what I have to do here at all.  Alot of it is laundry around here and it will get done here sometime this weekend or during next week around here of course.  Since I do cut back on the soaps totally here and streach that out to the max for the household here that is why it is not so bad in what I do.  Also I will be hanging everything up when I get started on the laundry again for the household here.  Since I am the tight wad out of my fathers side of the family it seems and I am fine with it now seeing what the heck happened in November while I was in Illinois.  All I can do is shake my head and walk away from alot of it at this point and make a mental note of why I should not even bother with the mess anymore.  I have noticed that since I do streach out everything at this point in time in my own household and other things will not be brought in anymore at all also that this is why I got cut at the ankels while I was there.  So now at this time I will get that much cheaper here for the household at this point to make a statement around here to some people and to do it for my own well being also here for the place while I am at it.  Since it has been a slow go at switching things over here in the household to the cheaper ways on some things in the household it will all work out totally when it all kicks in for the place.  Little does some folks know that I can do all of this and get by with it with my Husband also.  Since he does not mind in what I do for the household at all to get it that much cheaper why sould I not do that part of things here.  So that is why I am thinking of dropping alot of channels here for the cable and afew other things yet again to save that much more here.  Some would have freaked out if they knew that I dropped the house phone anyway here last year at this time since it was an extra bill also in what I did not want to spend.  So yes I did say no to some about moving into the household here almost 14 months ago.  At this point in time since I am nobody's maid nor anything else I knew in why I said no and things have got alot cheaper for the place since I did say no.  Maybe that is why I thought that I would get things switched over faster than what I have already is because of my mind set is still at the point of almost 14 months ago with things in the trailer also while I was at it all.  With alot of things that have went on in the past almost 2 years here with me I am suprized that I have made it and still as cheap as ever around either place at this time.  Since alot of the bills I have had to work on between the trailer and the house here some figured that they could use the dryer instead of hanging laundry along with doing what they normally did also at their place at the time.  I looked at the person and said no you have to play by my rules and I am way harder than the P.O. that he had also while I was at it.  So now at this point in time here I will say that since I knew that some depended on "Mommy" still to pay bills for him and knowing that I was walking into a hornets nest I knew better than to let some move into the house here after we somewhat got settled.  Now here I am hanging laundry along with several other things for the household to get the place that much cheaper at this point in time it has worked out for the best around here totally.  As my Husband said since I did some things to get out of the trailer at the time along with thinking about other things I have saved over 10 grand for the household within a year already at this point.  Also here I would have been doing more from scratch and got that much cheaper for the grocery bill while I was at it all along with the worries of every teenage child coming into the household at all hours also at the time.  So now that I do not have that hanging over me it has got alot better at this point in time for what I had to do and get done here.  With all of this said for the place here I kept alot of sanity and went from there and have thought about it and that was it for the household here.  This is why I will shop at some places totally here once again and go from there totally.  So yes in alot of ways I am getting that much cheaper for the house here and can not wait for it at all at this time here.  Also there is just alot of things that will get done during the week that others could care less about anyway that I do here for the place.