Looking around and wandering

Well I know that I did the dishes up and cooked yesterday for most of the day and I still have a pile of dishes that are in the sink totally again.  Since we had chicken yesterday yet again here I can make 101 things out of what is left at this time also here.  Oh well I guess it could be worse around here on that part of things of course and tough on it.  So at this point in time here there are still alot of things that can be done with cooking and cleaning that are on the cheap end of things also while I am at it all.  This is what has got to alot of folks at this time with me and they really have not been over in the past year also once I think of it all.  With some that have not been over at this time here since I have and keep on telling them no on barrowing money off of myself and my Husband here.  It makes me wander in how long it would have went on with the one couple barrowing money and never paying it back at this point in time other than I have an almost fully stocked house on alot of things here since I have told them no.  Since the one couple has told me that I have got a nasty attatude around here in the past year and what it was here is that I got sick and tired of them asking for money when they knew I was flat broke with the new house here.  With that said here at this point in time I was looking for other ways of cutting things down and other things out at the time to get the budget that much tighter for the house here I just shook my head on alot of things and went on.  Now I have found ways to cut the budget that much further here and got it all done with the matter of 6 months along with putting alot of it to use also while I was at it.  Alot of things were out and would not be used for cleaning anything here at all like some wanted me to since they seem to eat paper towels and plates at this time along with oh we have to have the better T.P. also here and we do not care what others say to us or think at this time.  Now about 2 years ago here I started dropping hints on alot of things for them to do in their household and it was a warning on you are about ready to be cut off totally with me here on the barrowing thing that you guys have at this time.  At the time I had asked if they needed some of the things that they were picking up and some said yes since it cuts down on the dishes and other things in the place.  Then to turn around and look at myself and my Husband at a bash that we were holding at the time and ask where the paper plates were my Husband told them straight out why bother to waste the money when we have to do the dishes anyway for the place at this time.  It is cheaper to use the dish soap than get the paper plates totally still at this time for the household.  Since I have got that much cheaper for the house here, it is like some just do not want to deal with it and that is why that some of us have been dropped totally.  So now at this point in time here I can say that at least now that I have been thinking and switching alot of things over here in the household to the cheaper side of things here in the past 6 months and do not mind it what so ever at all.  Another thing is that I am switching some of the electronics out here in the household also so I can get the power bill down that much further also at this point in time.  I will say that saving change up and other things does help out totally also to afford other things here in the household.  Since I ask myself all of the time here is it a need or a want and ok now to save up for something that is a want.  By the time I am done here I may not want the thing that was on the want list by the time I get the money up for it also here.  So now at this point in time at least I can say that I have been going that much cheaper for other reasons also here for the household and do not mind what so ever at all.  Also here at this time I am looking at things in a whole new light since I came back from Illinois while I am at it all.  Since the trip that I took I have been doing things alot different also here in the household and that is how it is.  With that said here there is alot that I had to sort thru and refuse to do what the one aunt that I loath so much on her way of things that she wanted me to do while I was there.  And among other things that she pulled while I was in totally also I do not need that at all now.  So I guess I got lucky in alot of things and figured that I was better off in NY State after that mess with some.