Wandering

Well I am not wandering anymore on some things here that I said no on totally.  With the new laws coming out in NY State on some things and to protect some folks here in the neighborhood I said no to some people when they wanted to move in totally at my place.  It is one of the things of knowing in there are minors next door along with elderly that I had to think about here along with babysitting every so often here at the household.  Not only that I knew that some did not do things like I do around the household and since I am the cheap one things that some did would not fly at all around here in what they did at their place and here and now.  The bad thing was when the person told me oh you have a dryer along with I do not do any dishes at all I knew the answer would be no totally on the person moving in along with his record.  With my one Niece wasting alot of the things from before when I was asked it would not be a good thing at all on me here since I would end up doing alot more around the household so things would not be wasted at all.  That and with the power bill going up also since some did not really care in what they all did during the day and night I would end up suffering totally around the household.  Since the housework would fall back on me totally around here and I would be the one screamed at and not the others it was not worth the time nor trouble at all to have my Niece and her boyfriend here at all.  Now that alot of things are on track here of getting the bills down along with stretching everything out totally on top of it all it is not that bad for the place.  That is what they all did not count on with me at first when they had asked to move into the house.  Another thing is for the place is that I did not know in how the bills were going to run also while I was at it and some just did not care at all in what was going on totally in what I thought.  So now that I am alone most of the time here and can get things done for the household once again here without hardly any help from anyone it is all good at this point in time.  Also since I was thinking of switching things over around here at that time also and knowing that some would just not go along with it all here if they moved into the household I am better off without the fight at all from some people.  Now at this point in time things are getting switched over for the cheaper things in the household since I am sick and tired of paying high prices for things in the place.  So that is another reason of why I said no to some also for the place.  With that being said here things are getting used up along with some things being switched over totally also already.  My Husband said finally you have thought about alot of things for the household here and are getting it all done.  Since the accident I could not think straight hardly and will admit to it before the surgery.  That is why I said no to some also and when they popped off with I do not do dishes that agitated me totally.  So now at this point since I do have my wits about me and things are running smooth once again for the household since the trailer I can deal with it.  That is the best part of it.  Now at this point in time since the place is totally stocked up here and there has been no help at all from others, I am impressed that it has been done totally on my own.  Also some did not understand that some of us were eating alot of rice and pasta also in the past year along with other sale items here in the household.  Since alot of the meat was at sale and about to expire if you did not freeze it right away that is what we have been eating also for dinners here in the household along with chicken that was on sale.  Ok so yes I used alot of cassarole recipies also while I was at it here for the household.  Maybe I had a good thing going around the household here and did not want some to mess with it on me again.  With alot of things here since I have been cutting them down yet again here for the place I know that it will last for a good while since it does help with some shows that jump start me on things again and why I started down the cheap/frugal path to begin with here.  Also here it is nice to know that the bills are covered without a problem now and I have been telling more folks no in the past 2 years also while I have been at it.  Since some do not think in some areas of a tight budget at all here in the area and other areas at all it is not up to myself and my Husband anymore to help them out with money that never gets paid back.  With some they do not think that others pay their bills at all along with not having food stamps to help out to eat on.  So now with that said some do get food stamps and it is better than what my budget is for everything in the household.  The 250-275 dollars for food that some get for 2 people in the household at this point in time others of us would be eating very well off of that without a problem at all.  At one point yes I was that broke that I needed the help totally and got it.  With the 150 dollars that I got at the time I streached it out as best as I could with coupons and sales for the month around the trailer.  I still use the coupons for food items for the household here nomatter in what others say about it all.  Also I have a strict budget for food and other things for the house still to save money.  At least I did keep that up also here without a problem also.  So now at this point I figure about 150- 200 dollars a month here for everything and some months I do not go thru that much and others I go thru more.