Monday, September 12, 2011
Shaking my head
Well since I do not have the one girl here at all it is for the best. With the bad flour in the household and I did not even know it untill I opened up the bags on Saturday here and telling my Husband I wont use bug filled things to get everyone sick at all he did not blame me one bit. Now if I had Liberty Ann here in the household she would have yelled about and and told me to use it anyway. This is how she was raised with my sister in law to where the girl ran the house and tough on everyone else. That was gonna be top priority to have her cut that part out of her attitude. In my place the child does not run me at all here. Just like when I was there at the place in PA all the girl wanted was microwave meals and that was it and if she did not get them she threw a tantrum worse than a 2 year old totally. In my place the girl knew that I cooked and what I slap on the table ya better eat or starve. So now at this point I know that the girl dropped out of school and got cut off of the survivor benefits and had to go out and work period since her supposad sister would not put up with no money out of Liberty Ann not coming in at all. This is why I said I was not worried about the money that was there from SS S benefits she would have got most of the check anyway in my place. And that is if she did what she was told and some chore's in the household. Yes I would have took 300 dollars out of her to help with the household at the time and that was it. Then I would have taught the girl in how to budget the rest of her money out for the things that she needed in the household. I will say that the girl would not have been spoiled at all with me after I got done with her. Also I got blamed for wanting the money and that was it at the time when she was suppose to come live with myself and my Husband. When all said and done with the girl I have turned my back on her in the past 7 years here on the girls own accord totally and never looked back at all after that with her. When some are told long enough that they hate someone it becomes true after awhile. So now at this time since some of us did not get the girl I know that we are better off for it all after all said and done here. Also it gave me the chance to go that much cheaper around the household at either place to prove that I did not need the money period around my place. So after all said and done I pretty much will admit that I ended up doing what I had to do and went from there at the time. I also will say that in what has happened is that we moved out of the trailer since my Husband and myself are nothing but "Trailer Trash" to the girl anyway. Pretty good that we have a house at this point in time and dumped the trailer 4 months ago here. So now at this point in time since the girl was never adopted out by my sister in law here I had to sell alot of things and take in what I could get for things to pay the storage unit and the storage of the car also since some did not even bother to help out since the girl was under age and figured she desirved all of it when she didn't and the real daughter could not do it since she is as broke as the rest of us then and now. Even CYS of PA told me just give the girl what she wants and it will not hurt if anyone does not know about it. Then I got threatined from Sarah Gow also after I said that I could not and I had to go by the paper work that was filed with the state of PA. So after all said and done I caught people in lies and had enough folks to say in what had happened and why at the time. And I had back up on my end since others refuse to lie for me also and told the truth. That is what got to some folks that believed Liberty Ann at the time and knowing that she was a liar totally. Yes I will admit that I got the convection oven and the KitchenAid mixer since I figured ok all of this is in the air with the girl and may as well get some things for the trailer and if we moved to the new place so I could at least cook more from scratch food in the household here at the time. And I also went dog snot cheap so I could get the 2 appliances at the time also so I did not feel like I was doing something wrong for the place. Both of the appliances were caught on sale while I was at it and I got my price match totally with some things at the time. I remember this becuase one was bought on Black Friday and the other was bought about 4 weeks before Christmas and had to be returned before it was totally paid for since the dial broke on it. This is where I like the flex pay for some things around here for either place. So at that point in time in the trailer I ended up doing things that were not totally right but also worked in what I wanted them to do also. With being cheap/frugal at both places Liberty Ann and my sister in law could not get in what I was doing and the whys of it all. When some told my Husband years ago your wife is about ready to snap and he even noticed what was going down with the fighting 3 times a year and then some the guy had enough totally. When I did snap and put my foot down and I put the ash tray that I was about to fling across the room at my Husband and went quiet after that the man knew that some were going to catch it and he was off the hook from then on. When I put my foot totally down and told the 2 this is how it is going to be from now on in my place and if you do not like it theres the damn door and don't come back if ya don't like it around here it all got better and I got the respect that was due. I remember that Liberty Ann tried to come after me that day with her fists balled up and she got knocked on her toush also after that when I back handed her. That is one thing I will not deal with at all is a child figureing that she can come after an adult and not pay for it. At the time I did not know that I could restrain Liberty Ann by that point and found out way after the fact that I could as long as I did not leave a bruise on the girl. At the point of the one court hearing Liberty Ann had "Concernes" and I told the judge straight out if she does what she is suppose to do and loose the attatude for the most part she has nothing to fear at all out of me. This is where I would not doubt the girl did something and I wanna talk with the other parent and child first before I make my mind up on something unlike my sister in law "Oh not my child she would not do that" syndrome. So now I know in the whys of the girl did not wanna come to my place period since she had to tote the line period with the both of us totally and my Husband caught what was suppose to be ment for me over 7 years ago out of Liberty Ann and he went off into what I call "Sarge Mode" at the time. Then my Husaband at that time knew why I walked away from the whole mess and why I refused to go back totally. I was not going to stop my Husband from talking with his sister at all and all she had to do was ask to speak to him and I would have said no more on the matter.
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