Still thinking

Well I am still thinking on somethings around here to say the least.  And I think I may have something in the works around here since I am always cooking and doing other things around my household.  Some of it is tripple batches of things and part of it will be watered down to streach it out that much farther also here so I can take part of it with me to where I work at.  So now at this point in time here some folks have not got in what I do for the kids at all to where others have around here also.  Ok so I busted the father wide open again yesterday morning when the girls were not fed nor changed at all when they walked thru the door.  I have also noticed that the father has been bringing all the boys over about 10 minutes before school starts to change over at their mothers house.  So now I will start really cooking alot more here at my place for the boys to make sure the get abit more food in them on the way to school around all 3 households here.  Just because some of us do not eat in the mornings does not give some the right to starve their own kids that are trying to grow in the mornings at all.  At this point in time I see no other choice at all for some things that need to be done totally and I am not going to jail for something that the father pulls also for the kids.  In what I will do for the kids is to pull out all of the cheap things that are from scratch to eat and go from there for the morning times when I have them.  Since the kids are mixed up and ready to blow at times with their attatudes with some things that are going on that they also realize that I am on their side for alot of things and can come to me and say hay how did you deal with this part.  WIth alot of it I have also told them and their mother has backed me on it that I will protect the kids nomatter what by any means that I can at this point in time.  I also explained to the boys the only time I wanna see blood is at the table for 2 meals a day, other wise do not even think about it.  I guess it is no different than when I grew up and we all fought for food at one time at my mothers house.  The boys laughed about it and kept their word on that part also.  With that said there are funny times that go down along with holding my toung around the household on alot of things.  At least one parent and the kids know that I am cheaper than snot with alot of things that are going down around the household at either place and the boys do not mind for the most part at all.  I have to start laughing at this point in time since the waffle and sandwich makers will travle and I got them for free also around the trailer once I think about it at this time.  How I managed sometimes is getting alot of things around the trailer for free and going from there.  The house is the same way here totally.  So now at this point in time I can really say that I have not depended on anyone to hand me things at all around both places and some are still mad at me to this day over it all.  Alot of it is because I did not want it held over my head at all so I never asked for it at all.  Now I know that I will have to teach the crew that I sit for to do the same thing totally when they get old enough also.  It goes with some families all over and it seems worse up here in the state of NY.  So maybe that is alot of the reason of why I am so dang cheap around the household.  I have got worse over the past 18 years to say the least and made it all work.