Shaking my head

Well at this point in time some do not get in what I can do around here to whip up food on the quick and easy for 2 households at all.  It does not take me long at all around the place to get some things up that are messy for the car since I know that the kids father does not feed them much at all for all meals.  So now at this point I am on a mission to show the kids mother around here in how to start cooking on the cheap around her place and to also shop at this point in time here.  This is what some have not got about me in the area at all in what I have done to be cheaper than snot here totally at this point in time.  When I can say that I have cut the costs so far for my own household and I can tell others in how to do in their place but the kids have to help out also around the household and not ignore their mother on top of it all.  What alot of it is around the place that I work at is that there is no ground rules in place untill I walk thru the door totally and the kids know that they have to tote the line with me.  So at this point in time since there is hardly any chore's handed out and I have to tell the boys in what needs to be done around the household totally they do what they are asked to do with me without lip at all.  In the mean time I ask and go from there and they all know that this is how it all is with me around and I do not care in what your parents don't make you do at all at that point.  With that said I will find some things that the boys can do around their household and go from there today besides homework also when they get home.  The funny thing is around the place is that when they say that they are board I find something for the boys to do and it drives them up the wall totally when I am there sitting with them.  Also they will say that I am the one who has put the foot down around the house also and they have some rules with me.  I guess this is why I am liked so much around the place.  Anyway at this point in time I have to figure out what more I can cut out of the budget here without hurting anyone else in my own household.  With that said here it amazes some folks that I can still cut around my place and not think anything about it at all here for the household.  Now at this point in time here some have to realize that I am not at all rich as some have clamed me to be around here at all.  Since I do get about 99% of the stuff for the household on sale and with coupons around here also it makes it worth my time for the household here and to keep it stocked up just in case if I can not get out at all here.  That is what always bothered my sister in law also with me also at the trailer.  I always found a way to hide the stock on hand in the trailer and she never knew in what I all had in the household at all.  Since I had every cranny filled at the trailer with only 700 square foot of space for the place it all worked out.  Now at this time I have things spread out here in the house since we all moved and I am still not all the way unpacked at all here.  With the yard sale some were right in telling me to wait for next year to hold it since I had the surgery also and I am now seeing it that they were right.  So now at this point in time I will have the persons money and I feel guilty for not having it when school started to them totally.  I am sure they know this part and that is why they are waiting for it now.  So at this point in time here I will find stuff at the dollar store for the girls also here for the winter time and go from there while I am home in Illinois.  This is what some fathers do not get at this point in time and I may stay rough and tumble after all said and done.  Maybe that is what is scaring some people to this day and oh well on them now.  So now at this point I am going down home for the last time that I know of at this point and I do not have to go back at all after this.  Yes I still have sisters and brothers down in Illinois and Mo. totally and they will have to come up and see me from now on around here.  The wierd part about it is that our Momma is gone and I could not get down there to her before she passed on with the accident nor could I get down there for the funeral at all.  So now at this point in time here I will get down there to pick some things up and I am done to say the least.  I will pack a tarp for what I have to pick up and go from there.  As I told some people dont worry about emtying out what I am picking up since it will be used again in my place totally and nothing goes to waste with me and I ain't my cousins at all.  Since I am the cheap one out of the bunch here and do not use anyone at all for food and bills and never asked for a dime also while I was at it.  I figured that some need it to live on afters others passed away here.  So now at this point in time let others do the dirty work around the place and I will keep my toush here in NY State.  The less I know the better off I am at this point in time also here.  That is how I like it around here.  Also the fact of that since I am this far away here then I can not get totally blamed for what is going down around there and if they try I don't know squat here.  That reminds me of why I only called once every 6 months at first when I moved.  I think that is what got to everyone is that they pretty much lost most contact with me there for a great while after I left.