Still shaking my head

Well I am still shaking my head around here totally since both of the girls are down for a nap already this morning here.  Oh well I can think of 10 other things that could be worse around here totally with the girls and at least they are not sick yet.  So as I sit here and think of what to make for lunch for both of the babies here while I am at it all it is a good reason to sit down and still work around here totally.  Also I have noticed that one of the girls is going thru of missing mommy and wanted to go look for her this morning.  So I am wandering in what some have told the girl at another place at this point in time.  Divorce is always a nasty thing and some of us already know in how to play the game here without a problem.  That is how I got my step children years ago.  So as I sit here knowing all out war fair for some and we can play it at this pont in time since my ex husband was the dirtiest player around in some states some have nother thing coming to them on playing the game.  Now at this point since I have been there done that years ago now and I am almost back to normal here on some things.  I do not have to worry about this husband beating me nor taking money out of my hand bag for the past 17 years at this point it gets easier.  I am still as cheap if not cheaper now as I was back 20 years ago.  With that said at this point in time here I know that everything has worked out for me doing in what I can to get that much cheaper at my place.  Years and years ago I started cutting back when I was first out on my own and never stopped at all after that point.  I guess I got lucky with my now Husband on alot of things that I do around the house.  With that I can make enough food and have leftovers at the household to eat for the week and not even think twice about it at all at this point and I do eat around my place.  So at this point I can say that there are alot of things that I do that would just drive some over the edge around my household if they did not know me at all.  That is one of the best of the deals I can do for others in the area.  There is just alot that I end up doing since I am so use to it all here at my place that some folks do not like it at all.