Plotting for the day

Well at least I get to plot for the day and work on the spare room around here.  My Niece lied to her boyfriend the other day when I had asked her to come home and she totally blew me off and stayed in the city after I asked then told her boyfriend that I said it was ok when it wasn't at all.  So he was mad about it all also along with myself.  What got to the both of us was that I was hitting alot of things on the nail head and it started making since to him in what was going on.  So my Niece is out of here for a little while and see how it goes from there.  With that being said I know that all of the bills will go down around here without a problem at all now and I will get more done around the can in packing and cleaning here.  I just started looking around the girls bedroom and she has left piles of stuff in the closet that fits her totally around here and I will make the call here after the doctors office to see where it gets me.  Worse comes to worse I drop the bag off at the apartment where the both of them are.  Now I am wandering where her brain really is at this time here.  So I see alot of it being donated around here if some does not want the stuff.  I always knew I was on my own around here anyway for alot of things and I guess I got that proved to me this week here totally.  I do not mind that part becuase I can and have worked at my own pace around here either way I have gone.  This is what my Niece never understood about me in what I was doing when I have done this.  I guess she either figured I was bluffing her around here or just did not care in what I told her about what was happening around here.  So now I will be packing on my own around here and will be working at my own pace instead of being pushed in what my Niece wants to do for the place here and pack everything all at once.  I am in relief somewhat around here and it seems like I am not hurting as bad this morning also while I am at it all.  I am wandering if alot of the pain was the stress of not knowing if my Niece would or would not be here and a few other things going down.  I know alot of the can looks like a bomb went off and alot of it is boxes that have been taped and ready to use in the kitchen around here totally.  I am still doing what I can to pack things for the can and will work at my pace and not someone elses pace.  Now with alot of things here I know that alot of the costs will be going down here in the can and in the house.  That is what I get I guess with my Niece figureing that it is ok to waste stuff in the can here so far while she was here.  Now I can get back on track with alot of things that I had been doing before she moved in and what I was and still am planning to do in the house without the girl.  Some have had all this hit them yesterday around here in what I was going thru and realizeing that they are pretty broke at their place.  I have had alot of time to really sit here and think after my Niece has not really been here in what I need to do to cut the bills down and afew other things around the place here totally.  I already have wrote alot of stuff down in what I have wanted to do in a note book here in the can.  Some I have posted here in the blog and alot of it is still in my head in what I know in what I have to do here.  For once I can hang laundry in the basement instead of useing the dryer, turning off alot of the lights in the new place and light candles, another thing is now that I will be cutting down on alot more water usage around the place while I am at it at both places.  Pluss now I know that I will be saving on the food budget also around both places.  What gets to me the most is that I expect to have something in the fridge around here and it is totally gone and I wasted alot of food that way also while I was at it all here in the can.  I was going to make something the other day here and I only had a little bit of what was needed before I started cooking and scratched the idea on what I was going to make at the time.  I will be picking up more of the nickel deposits while I am at it here between packing, moving, and cleaning.  I am really beginning to wander around here about what has gone on and how much I can really save here in the new place with in just what I am doing now around here in the can.  I do not know at this point if I did the right thing with my Niece at all now.  After what was said to me yesterday afternoon.  I know that I had to go cheaper around here and I need the help of course and asked for the help and got blown off like it did not matter in what I have to do or think so maybe I did do the right thing.  So now I will do what I have to around here to get back on track here and go from there.