Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Shakeing my head

Well I can really shake my head around here now.  After yesterday I get a phone call while I was down in the basement hanging sheets up for someone to barrow money again off of me.  All I can say is the ones who have barrowed money off of me have not paid me back over a year later and I did not bother to call back to the people at all.  So now I will be saying no more often around here since some do not get the point at all that I have to figure out my own bills and have to get groceries without help also while I am at it.  I can say that I will start with the picking up the nickels here shortly for the place and afew other things around here to save even more money without a problem at all.  Even though I have been streaching everything out around here to say the least, I will be getting worse about it all around here also.  Since the power company have screwed up around here, I am looking forward to this one without hardly a dang bill to pay after paying for most of the trailer park while I was there.  With alot of things around the new place here I will be going cheaper anyway from now on since I have way to much money going out around here anyway and if some folks do not like it when I say no then it is just tough cookies on thier part.  I can not believe after myself and my Husband have tried to tell some folks that we just can not swing with letting them barrow money from us they still want to ask anyway.  So now I should get all of the bills out and smack them infront of the mouchers and see what happends around here.  This is why I have not minded the couple not coming over hardly at all to my place.  I guess when I do say no I am being nasty in their eyes.  I just put my foot down on alot of things is all for my place is all.  I have thrown up my hands on some people becuase I know what happends when they barrow money and mouch off people.  This is part of the reason of why I threw out my Niece while I was at it.  I asked very little out of the girl and I get blown off like it is nothing and she is way to good for some of us also.  I have notice that some people just stopped coming over and got told about it just last week around the household.  Then I noticed in what I did pick up in groceries went out the door with my Niece being here and I got a sarcastic "Oh I'm sorry I diden't realize" answer out of her.  That is part of the reason I wanted the girl and her boyfriend to sit here at the table so I could lay down the law on some things and I got blown off again even worse than when the girls so called friend was in the hospital.  Now I am happy that I said no to the both of them on staying here.  Also my Nieces boyfriend started demanding things out of me while I was at it and that is another reason of why I said no for them staying here.  So maybe at this time I am better off without anyone here at all staying in the house with me and saying no more often will not hurt me none at all neither more often.  When I am being this cheap and others figure they can undo what I am trying to do around here then I have a huge problem with it all.  Like when some figured that they could use the dryer on me when I do not want it used at all, not chipping in for groceries, and figureing that they could have a friend move in also around the place on top of it all and none of them would help out with the housework and other things also I do not need that at all.  So now I know I made the right choise of telling them no.  Ok I am off to another doctors appointment and will be back.

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