Wandering

Well after over 20 boxes packed in the past almost 4 days here I am not even done yet around here at all.  I know that my Husband will be home I hope tonight around here so I can get more done over the weekend for the can and hope to be moved by Monday into the house.  And yes I have been pushing myself around here for packing.  When my Niece thinks that I am bluffing all of the time about the pain that I have then not even bother to show up when I am asking her to get back here to help out around the can I had no choice in what I did around here.  Pluss when I called back yesterday I had to laugh becuase my Nieces boyfriend told the girl straight out I want you to get a job if you want to live here.  I tried for the girl to get a job and all she did was run into her friends and totally blew me off about the job around here in my place.  So now I am hoping that some will understand in why I did some things I know my Husband does.  Now with that being said I am home for now and will try to get alot more done today around here and go from there.  At least I can do alot of this on the cheap side for the place.  I know at this point alot of the cleaners are going to be streached out once again around here without a problem without my Niece being here.  And the place will be cleaner also at the same time around both places.  As my Niece put it that I am overly picky on why I want some things spotless and not to do what Nancy Hammond told her to do around her place.  With some things like old dish water to wipe down the counters that is just totally wrong in my eyes around here.  Just becuase I use the counters as a cooking tool alot of the times around here and having the girl do something like that I do not want anyone sick off of what I do.  This is part of the reason I have not got farther on the packing around here since I had to go behind my Niece and reclean alot of what she did around here in the can.  Now if and that is a huge IF I let the girl move back in there will be alot of changes and rules around my place.  Maybe that is part of what the problem is around here is that I did not put my foot totally down hard enough at all.  It was bad about 2 weeks ago when I had to get on the girl to get something done around here instead of her shoveing her nose into a book for the place.  So now that I have to restructure the budget and household around here maybe it will be easier on me at this time here without some here.  Anyway at this point in time I can say that I have been doing better around here for alot of things that have needed to be cut way down again.  I do not mind it at all.  In the past 4 days around here I have had the T.V. off more than on around here totally along with several other things here in the can.  Well I may as well get on the move around here totally and start cleaning over at the house.  Pluss get over to Kmart while I am at it all to get a shower curtin and a rod.