Shaking my head

Well since I have been doing alot of things during the week here I have started sleeping more also by the end of the week here totally.  So after some had asked me to go with them to travel I asked when we were going to be gone.  The person tells me one thing and my Husband another thing after I told them I had a doctors appointment on the 10 th of this point.  I got totally ignored and the person told my Husband that we would be leaving on Friday and back on Sunday around here.  My Husband told her no since my wife has an appointment on Friday and would not be able to leave untill that was done.  What was messy about the whole thing was that the gal did not call me to ask squat and just told it in what she figured would be good in a text to me and it did not matter in what I had going down at all.  My Husband got onto the gal about that and told her ya cant do that around here since some were not at 100% yet with things.  Pluss I am so tired of the person texting me instead of calling anyway about things.  I told my Husband this morning that I would bring the texts up of what was said to me since I saved them at the time and some told me that we would be gone from the middle of the week untill the 17th of this month.  So my Husband put a stop to it in what the gal wanted and told her no since the trip to Illinois and back about killed me anyway.  Now some have not got the fact at all that it is to soon for me to start traveling at this point in time here and that I need to stay home at this point.  All I can say is that I am shaking my head on this one and some did not listen or read the text that I sent back and refused to say any more in a text.  I also warned the gal that if I was on the road and if I said I would be home in a minute call me.  A simple call to ask when my next appointment for the doctors and a few other things to see if I could really go.