Shaking my head

Well I got thru most of the dishes yesterday after getting my Husband off at the truck along with afew other things that needed to be done here.  It seems like I do nothing but clean and cook around the house at times here and what else can I do about it, other than being cheap on top of it here also.  So now also with yesterday around here I have noticed that when my Husband starts in on me totally for about a month here he wants something done right away instead of waiting for myself do to something about it since he will not do for the house hardly.  The man started hollering at me yesterday and I told him well do something about it and take out the can in the kitchen while you are at it.  It shut him right up and he did something about what was going down also here in the household.  I also got my Husband totally when he said that the cleaner looked funny, I told him it was the mixed cleaner and get use to it around here.  Since alot of things are getting cheaper here in the household here and some have no say so over the matter what so ever at all.  My Husband asked me when alot of the bills were due this month here and I told him when they were due.  He looked at me and asked if we could pay everything here for the house.  I said yes and tough since I know what is going on.  Also I got on my Husbands toush about not turning off the lights at all after he got done in a room also here this past weekend.  Now I do not wander in why the power bill was about 5 dollars higher for the month here at all.  It also goes along with alot of the bills dropping here with some not doing their laundry while I am at it all.  Since things are being off set at this point in time here totally it is a good thing in what I am doing here.  So I will keep some things going here and tough on others who come over and do not like in what I am doing for the household here at all.