Plotting for the day

Well there is so much to do around here that it is not even funny at all.  Alot of it is the hury up and wait on the cleaning part of it.  Since I slacked somewhat lastnight around here it all piled up on me of course.  That is ok by me at this point in time.  At least there is something to do around the place and boardem is not on the list at all around here today.  Also with alot of things going on around here I got a good look around the household here and started seeing in what I will be cutting even more things around here.  It seems wierd that I can get alot of things done without help at all.  Now I am glad I said no to some people who wanted to move in to the household with myself and my Husband.  So now I can work at my own pace and nobodys under foot nor screaming at me to hury up and do this also once I think of it.  With my Husband he does not mind when I take my time doing the housework at all and I get done what I get done for the week or day depending on what is going on.  Maybe I got somewhat spoiled with that part of it all.  Now with myself cutting alot out of the budget yet again my one Niece would be totally mad at me for canning the house phone last week around the household.  My thought on it is that since some did not pay any bills at all then no say so in what goes on totally in the household.  With that said some of us are housewives and do our work by cleaning cooking and shopping for the household pluss paying bills.  Also I do go for walks around here and collect the nickles while I am out.  There was nothing wrong with my Niece at all except that she would not go and get a job in my place at all.  All I can say is that now I am happier without her in the household and less stressed.  With my Husband he did not realize in how much pain I was in at the time with the girl in the household.  So I would get hollered at since some things were not done around the trailer I got nailed.  I had asked, begged, and told for help and got ignored for the most part.  I had asked my Niece to do something right infront of my Husband one day and what does the girl do went out side and took the can out to the curb and did not take the trash out of the trailer at all.  Well after that my Husband knew in what was going on around the trailer since I had just got hurt at the time and was dragging a very heavy bag full of garbage out to the curb.  The man started chewing out the girl instead of me all of the time.  I could not believe half of the stuff that my Niece would do around the trailer and figured it was ok.  Thats why I said alot of the times it was a lick and a promise with the girl in what she did around there.  Now I do not have to worry to much about things not getting done around the new place at all.  Things get done at my pace and that is how I like it around here.  It makes me wander in how some do what they do and figure it is ok at this point in time.  With my Niece living with her boyfriend at this time he figures that what she does is ok around the place.  I guess I was seeing in my mind if I did let the 3 move into the house the place would be like a war head hit the place in the mess that would be made and I had to clean up.  So now at this point in time I can say that I have been cutting back without a problem at all and it is working better than ever for me in the new place.  I guess in what gets to me the most is that it seems that things are sticking around longer without some people here in the household.  Alot of the stuff was just wasted with my Niece and she did not care in the least bit in what was going on for the place.  With my Niece and other folks I guess I was not suppose to be stressed out about things at all.  When you have 4 mooches around you eating everything up, asking for money, and smokes I guess I was not suppose to think about it and just do.  Well after I put my foot totally down around both places I got told I had a nasty attatude and I was nothing but a low life bitch at that point in time.  I have hardly heard from my Niece except once in the past almost 4 months and twice from the complainers.  The complainers that begged me for money and smokes have not asked in the 2 times that they called me.  What does this say I was apparently paying them to be friends I am guessing around here now after 6 years of knowing them.  Now that I am around the new place I am much happier to be alone more than ever around here and do not mind it in the least bit at all.  I know that some folks have totally dropped me around the area and that is ok after I went cheaper for both places and even more so in the past several months.