Shaking my head

Well 3 weeks ago today I opened the bottle of dish soap around here and only a quarter of the bottle is gone around the household at this time.  So I am wandering in what my Niece really did with the dish soap besides use way to much for the dirty dishes in the trailer.  During the week I have noticed that I only need to get to the dishes maybe twice if that for the place.  So yes I am happy I told my Niece, her boyfriend, and their friend no to move in here at the house.  I have been in the mode of ok what next around here for to cut the costs around the household here and figured out a way.  One was to throw out my Niece and tell her boyfriend no around here totally.  The next thing was putting my foot down with the complainers that asked for money all of the time and smokes from us.  In the mean time an old friend told me that money does not make him happy after I explained what was going on in my place.  I told him that I did not want the money and I was making a point for something instead.  He did not blame me what so ever for what I said.  Since I have been trying at points in time to stretch out things that come into the trailer or the household here it got messed up for about 4 months and I am back on track of doing again for either place.  When I was trying to be cheap in the trailer my Niece took it upon her self to say F*ck the woman who took me in since she is rich.  Yes going by what she has heard since she was about 5 years of age.  What made me rich was my knowing of what to do to cut back for the household and love of some people.  It was not about money at all at the time nor is it now.  As my friend told me last week that I am a bigger Man than he will ever be for taking in my Niece totally and trying to teach her the things about the real world and how to cut back.  Since I was basically thrown to the curb with my Niece and she did not care at all in what was going on I hope she learns now that I tried with her.  So now without some here in the household yes I have started to look around the place and say ok I can do all of this around here without a problem at all.  Pluss do it all on my terms instead of my Nieces around here now.  I think that is what scared some folks around the area about me is that I have had to really think long and hard about some things and make the hard choices in life at all costs to myself, my Husband, and for the household.  Once the girl and others realize this about me then they will understand of why I am doing what I am doing.  If it means by cooking and baking on a very hard budget and trying to be cheap about it by making things from scratch alot of times some have to except the fact that this is what I need to do for the place.  That is along with other things for the household here.  Since some screwed up with the meters around here it is to my advantage also.  Untill a meter goes in I will do what I have to around here totally.  When I start cutting down on the things that use the power then it is time to notice in what I am doing also.  I have lines up in the basement for laundry and the 3 drying racks to hang laundry on and I am not scared at all to use them for the household.  Along with other things around here also to be cheap.  Maybe I get mad because some folks do not realize in what I am doing at all to put food and other things into the household here.  That and I figure in why should some of us suffer around the household here for others poor judgement and poor budgeting around their place.  Maybe that is what I was wandering about earlier this morning also.  In how some households survive besides the government to help them out totally.  Since I am not on partial welfare around here at all and have to pay out of pocket for everything here in the household and others figure that I get the help when I do not.  Since I do shop around for the best prices for the household here I figure that some do not for their own either way that they turn.  This is why I have told alot of people no around here also as of the past 3 months in the new place.