Wandering no more

Well I do not wander about some things any more around here.  Alot of things are coming togeather after I started cutting majorly on the bills again here in the new place.  Some did not blame me lastnight at all for cutting the house phone at all around here.  Not only that I have been cutting in other areas in the household also even more so since myself and my Husband have moved into the new place.  I am suprized that alot of the cleaners have lasted as long as they have without some here once I have thought about it all also.  So now with alot of things it seems strange around here that things have finally clicked on the cheap/frugal factor around the new place.  Alot of it has to do with myself looking around and thinking on ways to get things done on the cheap sies also.  Or maybe it is a bigger place and I see more of what needs to be done and go on around the household here.  It did help with throwing out my Niece also in December after trying to explain to the girl that you have to streach everything out around the place and getting ignored on what was said around the trailer.  I also had to reclean alot of things that my Niece did around the trailer.  Now at this point it seems like theres alot less stress on myself around the place without the girl under my roof once I have thought about it.  With alot less stress I have started seeing more things that I had to do for the place and started in on alot of it as of late.  It has amazed me also that yes I still have my bad days around here and the really, really bad days are seeming less since I take my time around here to get things done instead of pushing myself trying to get things done.  I will stick to the work 15 min and sit down for 15 min around my place weather some have liked it or not out of me.  That is what I have tried to explain also and got totally ignored while I was at it.  Now I have learned that saying no is not a bad thing at all anymore in my book.  Ok so some folks have dropped me becuase of it around here and my Niece is one of the folks who have dropped me totally.  Alot of what has happened around here is that since I have started saying no more often, started streaching alot more out around the household, and started cutting and slashing the bills alot of folks in the area where I am at does not like in what I have done at all for my place.  That is with the going out taking a walk and collecting the nickle deposits also while I am out and about here.  At this point some do not blame me at all for cutting back around here while others do.  Either way I just do not care on who drops me anymore over what I do around here.