Glad to be out

Some people like my Niece are finally finding out that it is hard out in the real world here.  Well it started out with myself trying to tell the girl that she could not do as she pleased and that she had to find a job while she was with me and help with the housework over at the trailer.  That never happened at all and with somethings that went on I am happy to not have the girl and her boyfriend here in the house at this point in time.  I have seen alot of waste in my lifetime around the area and my Niece has to be the almost the worst one about it with the cleaners.  My Husband even noticed it while the girl was in the trailer.  Now on Sunday my Husband asked what I wrote down in the one calander and I told him I wrote down when I opened the bottle of dish soap.  All he said was I noticed you did that and now understood why I was doing it.  I am seeing in how much I am going thru with one bottle and how long it takes me also.  With one bottle it should have took us about 2 months to go thru the soap instead of 3 weeks like it did with my Niece being under the roof of the trailer.  Also I am going thru less groceries while I am at it all here.  This is what is really getting to me at this point in time.  After I threw my Niece out almost 2 months ago I feel alot calmer and things are not looking so grim around the new place at all.  It seems strange that I can say that now.  Also I know that now the girl is having a hard time doing all the housework and trying to find a job.  Well some guys are totally lazy and I know this.  Now with my Husband and myself the man does hardly anything here in the house since he is hardly home during the week except getting the kitchen garbage out of the household.  Otherwise I do what I can to keep the house clean and other things here during the week.  I do not have to go behind anyone to reclean something while I am at it also now.  Now I know one of the circle of my Nieces friends he was a tougher bird than I am about the bathroom.  I started laughing when I got told that and said well I told ya not to give everything a lick and a promise because it will not be clean enough for the next person at all.  So now I can say that some have to learn and I was trying to teach my Niece in what to do and she would not listen at all.  Just like I was trying to teach the girl in how to cook with nothing in the household at all.  The girl had a total crash course on that part of cooking after I threw her out also.  I was trying to say hay you can have 3 meals off of one and I could not get it thru her head that she could do it.  So I hope this is a learning process for the girl.  I think she is realizing that I was not playing with alot of things while I was in the trailer at all now in what to do and when to do it all.  Plus I know that the girl and her boyfriend can hit the food pantries also for food. I just hope that the girl uses her brain now and realizes that in what I was trying to do for her.  And knowing that Nancy Hammond has never prepaired the kids at all for the real world at all does not help at all in what happened.  WIth that being said now not every food needs green pepers at all nor any other peppers to cook with.  Also with the cleaning Nancy never let the kids finish in what they started and I know that and that is why things got done with a lick and a promise in other households and some turned out to not do housework at all.  There are just alot of things that I have not went for that Nancy Hammond did and she has ruined alot of folks around the area.  I refuse to put up with the B.S. that Nancy has brought to my place anymore than what I have to and knowing what she said about me I can deal without her.  So now at this ppoint I am just happy that I am doing what I can without help and I am making it all work without getting hollered at at all.