Working here

Well I got alot of things done in the basement already and it looks like I have not even touched it at all in the work that I did already.  After about 45 min of work and folding some laundery and looking to see what could go in next to the washer it is just plain out nuts to say the least.  I am so happy to be alone at the moment and getting some housework done that I am getting further than with someone here and under foot yet again.  I know when to stop also and take a break on what I have been doing only because it is very cold down in the basement and my hands hardly want to move after awhile.  I am just wandering in how some folks use the dryer all of the time in their households instead of hanging the laundery up on lines.  Well it has saved me enough money by doing that in the trailer that I could move the money else where.  Also I got to thinking while I was down stairs that some folks that I know are just wrong in the world either way that I turn at this point.  Since I have been hanging up the towles and the bigger blankets that get washed I have noticed that they all get dry fairly quick around here.  I just do not like to use the dryer that much for the household at all anymore.  With that I have noticed when I had my Niece in the trailer she could never understand in why I made her hang her own laundery up at all.  I hung up mine and my Husbands also while I was at it.  Without some here in the household I have noticed that things are lasting longer also while I am at it.  Between the the soaps, food, and the towles here I have came to realize that the girl wanted a free ride and got one right before I threw her out.  There is only so much begging and pleeding that I will do before I get really tired of mopping up after someone constently in a place.  And begging someone to get a job on top of it.  Well now the girls boyfriend put his foot down and said you have to and don't care.  I tried and failed.  Then I got asked to lend out money on top of it when the girl was at the place.  Not for my Niece at all from other folks and I kept saying no to the couple.  Now here it is towards the end of the month (January) here and the complainers have not called me at all for nothing at all.  Some have to understand that I do not have the money to lend out nor let anyone stay at my place anymore.  I pretty much knew with my Nieces boyfriend asking if they could stay here at the house it was going to be a bad thing either way I went.  I was not going to make more work on myself at all with 3 extra mouths to feed, house, and get the housework done in the day around here for weeks on end.  Maybe I knew in a way in what was coming and did not want any part of it at all.  Now I knew it would take at least a week to get the gas oven hooked up and going once again for the place when we moved.  And figureing that I was alone most of the time here and on the weekends knowing that my Husband was going to be home I cooked out the crock pot and the convection oven for almost 2 weeks here.  Some did not understand this when they asked to move in with 2 other people also here in the household.  Also I was keeping the food to a bare bones deal for the first 2 weeks here untill I could see what I had to pitch from moving also.  So with that being said for the place I knew what was going to happen and I got to thinking about it all and knowing a bad deal when I hear and see it I said no on alot of things.  Yes I am the person that is the cheap tight wad out of the bunch to say the least.  With that I do shop at the discount grocery store to help out for the budget here.  Also I turn off alot of things during the day in the household and some people do not like in what I do.  I told my Nieces boyfriend that here is the deal and tough this is how I will run things under my roof at all times and I am about to get worse on it all.  He looked at me and said I do not wash dishes nor scrub toilets at all and my words were ya better learn or there is the door.  I do not slack off to the point to where I refuse to do around the house at all it just takes me more time at this point.  Some how or another things do get done and I have done them totally.  So now that I am going totally cheaper in the household here and I am not going to worry in what others have to say about it some will have to understand in why I am doing what I am doing and love being alone while I am doing things for the place.  I get more things done and can test other things for the place that some do not believe in that part also for the household here.  I guess that I am geared up to be alone for now also.  Just to get the bills on track and other things for the place.  This is also in why I am shaking my head at the new Governor of NY State at this point.  I know things will not get better at all and with a 10 billion yes billion hole in the Godforsaken state of NY things will continue to go up.  Maybe this is why I am telling alot of people no at this point in time around here also.  Oh well at least I know that at this point in time I am getting things done around the house and then some.