Plain out tired

Well I am tired just plain out of being dogged all of the time by several people who do not give a rats behind on somethings that are going on.  Now I know why now in that I said no last month to my Niece, her boyfriend, and the supposed friend that is staying with them at this point in time.  After almost of 2 months of asking, begging, and pleading I am done here on some things and I knew it was coming around to this point in time.  After the household budget going back to normal after I threw out my Niece I was not willing to have some move back in along with others with a stream of people in and out of my household at all.  I still have the statement in my mind of what my Nieces boyfriend told me when he asked for all 3 of them to move in that I am the one that had to let him know when my doctors appointments were.  That meant to me I would lose total control in my own household when my Husband was at work around here and when he was home also.  I would end up as the maid in my own household and that is it without question if I let all 3 stupid asses move into my household here.  I was not about to let that happen at all and that is why I said no to the request after I thought about it all.  I refuse to be a maid and a piece of shit in my own household for anyone that has moved in period.  I know alot of men just do not like my attitude on that part at all.  I would have put my foot down and the other up someones toush without a problem if I let all 3 move into my house here in the past 2 months.  Now that I have the budget on track for the most part around here and I like it at this point why should I be dogged for comments that were made to me months ago.  Trust me there would be nothing left down in the basement nor on the main floor left for the 3 mouches if I would have said yes.  I would have ordered a portable washer and dryer at all costs for up stairs and the oven down here would have been in storage also along with other things.  Some would know what it is to be dogged and not have squat in the household.  So now I am plain out tired on some things that have went on and I will find out by Saturday if the things have been picked up when I go to the can after my doctors appointment.  If it hasent I will donate the items for someone who needs them worse than my Niece and the thing she is with.  There are some things that I can not be pushed into at all and when some little boy desides to demand out of me I stop it then and there after that.  That is alot of the reason why I said no and there are other reasons stated also of the whys.  The other why is because of knowing what my Niece will not do when she gets back here and it would the housework would fall back on me totally.